neck... the neck the only erogenous zone you can show off in public.

thanks for the post. I totally agree with you. if some one obviously did not read your profile or gave a "hey" email then drop them. those are the looky loos and should be ignored. but if they did read your profile and you don't it's rude. almost all the profiles I read say "if you don't read my profile don't message me" what if I did read it and get ignored just the same as if I didn't. why should I read any of them if its just a crap shoot. if you look and say well just not for me fine but if he took the effort to read yours then he should at least get a response. which is the point I was trying to make. one liners forget em. but if some one takes the time to read and refer to and relate to your profile in a 4-5 sentence well written paragraph. the least some one can do is give them a thanks but no thanks. like the guy said you can even keep one generic on on file in word and cut and paste it. takes 10 seconds. any way I'm way over it I didn't even care that much to begin with.

I guess you're right... as usual.


does any one have a gun to put this thread out of it's misery?

it's nine pages yes but very few comments about the topic.

and really I didn't expect to get any response to the post. I was kinda expecting it to be just a statement. once it was misconstrued I felt the need to clarify.

I know isn't that nuts. I have a friend who has 100"s of friends and doesn't know any of them.

if there is just cause for the red flag then that is a good reason to deny some one.

what I'm talking about is women saying you didn't write enough so I'm not even going to view your profile.

that's what I thought when I started this. but all I seem to get is a bunch of people who don't understand the post saying to get over it.

exactly.

how would you know how much effort I put into inital contact? you never got one.

you're right you are nobody...

I think you're right. I just wrote that post to vent about another website... they don't have forums.

look all I'm saying is I should beable to write and a 1-2 line inital contact email and not be skipped over simply based on that. that's not me, my personality, my character. if she reads the profile and says to herself "just not for me" or "he looks like jim carey"(not that there is anything wrong with that). fine. what ever. but if I write 1-2 lines of hey check me out and get unread deleted simply based on lack of content with out even a cursory glance at my profile that's just messed up.

and now there are three. careful lilith thinks we are petty.

oh... I'm sorry. I mean really who would come to a forum for friendly banter. they would have to be obtuse...

and don't worry I don't think anyone who has read this thread will mistake you for friendly.

nice vocabulary poor grammar.

but I digress... I'm neither obtuse nor concrete, you come in with are you kidding me and get over it. yes I do fail to see the friendly banter vibe in that.

ok so I've been on the defensive here. so far only a hand full have even understood the point of the post.

yes wolves. thank you

you call that pebbles???

and now there are two...

sorry it took so long.. I was fending off the wolfs.

thank you f2b you are a true lady.

so are we going to just make personal attacks now??? or did you hide your response in code???

I read the thread. I always read an entire thread before I post, to not do so is rude. I understand your frustrations, I do. But what you do not see, well, that is vast it seems. Like the horizon on a clear day.

First of all, I'm hardly mad at being ignored. I'm not a newbie here. My comment was to point out that you are not the center of the universe. We all experience things and get frustrated but we don't start entire threads that we feel this way, then continue to defend our petty selves once we've been outed as being petty. Then to expound on our pettiness with minutae, and call sarcastic posters out erroneously, I might add, as you have failed to understand either the content, context, or tone of their posts....

Next you'll tell me I'm a feminist, LMFAO!!


well I'm glad you read the thread.

firstly I didn't know being a newbie was what we were talking about.

secondly I naver said nor implied that I was the center of the universe.

thirdly you're right it is a petty topic. much like many of the topics I've seen here in the fourms. that's what is for or should we start talking about existentialism and politics.

finally I don't believe I have erred in any of my "calling out" and as far a calling you a feminist... well lilith you said it not me.


btw fear you got a little something on your nose.