100% FREE ONLINE DATING
sponsored links
Previous
| Topic: Why are women sensitive about their weight? | |
|---|---|
|
|
|
And this is why I put absolutely no effort into dating, because it doesn't matter what you do, there's always somebody who's gonna get all pissy about something.
The road to Hell is paved with good intentions. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
First of all, do not call us females, it is highly degrading. Secondly, we are sensitive about it because of men who say they dont care about looks, then turn around and break your heart for no other reason than your weight!!! F*CKING MALES!!! wow. Tell us how you REALLY feel hon 
|
|
|
|
|
|
Edited by
mariposakc
on
Fri 01/23/09 03:14 PM
|
|
Why are women, or females in general sensitive about their weight? can someone help me out on this one cause it puzzle mah mind!.  You look like Obama. =\
Totally agree!!!  I apologize to all the minglers.
As for Obama...well it could be worse...thankfully I don't look like Bush. 
And to Music Man...thank you for respectively disagreeing. 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Back on topic sort of.. I don't think I've ever heard of calling a female.. female being degrading.. Now I know what I've been doing wrong...
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Back on topic sort of.. I don't think I've ever heard of calling a female.. female being degrading.. Now I know what I've been doing wrong...
lol, honestly neither have i...always thought it was, well more like a fact than an insult maybe the truth hurts.... OFF TOPIC!!! |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Because stupid people make it an issue
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Back on topic sort of.. I don't think I've ever heard of calling a female.. female being degrading.. Now I know what I've been doing wrong...
it's not degrading .. I've never heard of it referenced that way either 
|
|
|
|
|
|
Edited by
SharpShooter10
on
Fri 01/23/09 03:40 PM
|
|
Big or small.... shooter loves you all
   females I mean
don't love you guys, but if you got a beer, i'll like you 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
nothing wrong with a little junk in the TRUNK
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
A lot of name calling for an issue that only concerns oneself.
Big, small, fat, thin, obese, skinny, tall, short, healthy or sick who cares really unless you want all clones of the same mold. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I'm trying to build a "shed" for my "tool" as we speak
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Back on topic sort of.. I don't think I've ever heard of calling a female.. female being degrading.. Now I know what I've been doing wrong...
it's not degrading .. I've never heard of it referenced that way either
Same here. |
|
|
|
|
|
Edited by
Winx
on
Sat 01/24/09 12:37 AM
|
|
A lot of name calling for an issue that only concerns oneself. Big, small, fat, thin, obese, skinny, tall, short, healthy or sick who cares really unless you want all clones of the same mold. It would be boring if we were all the same. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I fixed it. I said it wrong. 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I fixed it. I said it wrong.
oh that wasnt for you sweetie
I just posted it for the heck of it |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I fixed it. I said it wrong.
oh that wasnt for you sweetie
I just posted it for the heck of it Okay.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
A lot of name calling for an issue that only concerns oneself. Big, small, fat, thin, obese, skinny, tall, short, healthy or sick who cares really unless you want all clones of the same mold. It would be boring if we were all the same. Yep. Brings to mind the various movies or episodes of Star Trek where all the people were "engineered" to be "right" in such-and-such a way. Regardless of how momentarily interesting the theory was, the shock was in realizing that too much of any one type of person reduces my interest. . . . 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
"Whatever"? That's the best you can retort with? Tell me I'm wrong! Don't give me any crap about being "sensitive" to your feelings. Tell me who YOU would rather look at -- the slim, slender, fit guy, or the fat guy? And I don't want to hear any of that bull about "it's what's inside that counts," either. I hate to tell you, but my boyfriend is on the heavy side, but he treats me better than any man ever has, and that is all that matters. good see you found someone that doesnt care about health and excercise good for you! So why the pouting? Why make the person that does work hard to stay in shape the bad guy/girl? because your jealous and its easier to call us shallow than look yourself in the mirror and call yourself fat. just be happy with who you are and stop making other people out to be shallow cause of your faults. this is what im saying, not that heavy people should give a damn what i think but why do fit people have to be shallow when we look for common interests? its about you sweetheart not me thats why and stop laying the guilt trip! I don't recall ever saying I was unhealthy, ever. Don't make assumptions about what you know nothing. I wasn't pouting, just stating facts. And I have nothing to be jealous of, have never been, nor ever will be that way. That's just ridiculous. If there is any guilt it's all on you. It must be hitting pretty close to home to get you all riled up about a simple statement. There is some things I would change about my body, but not much. I won't let any man make me feel unworthy about anything. You seem to have made the wrong assumptions about what I was saying and why I was saying. well i aint stupid and i can read between the lines deny all you want i never say these things ever, but i get tired of the whoas me crap. i post here and say this because its true. i see this "get to know people crap" all day and the lady doesnt even comb her damn hair. so dont tell me im trippin cause the truth hurts and our society could use a good dose of reality Wow, you sure understand women.
pretty damn perceptive huh? 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Edited by
thinkingaboutit09
on
Sat 01/24/09 01:29 AM
|
|
Okay i have to tell a story cause im just the shallow jerk
 
I was married young my wife was 19 and i was 21. I spent half my life with her. My wife was 5'9 135 pounds and an extremely nice body. After our first child she started getting self contious. You could not even tell she had a baby one week after giving birth except her boobs got bigger 
I would tell her over and over she looks great, but she insisted on pointing out stretch marks that you needed a spot light to see. Child two she was about 145 pounds after giving birth. Her but was a little larger and so where her boobs
On a daily basis i tried to encourage her and she wasnt self contious but still it was a regular thing about her weight and stuff. Child three again she was about 145 pounds
I always reminded my wife how beautiful she is and that i acctually liked the extra weight it turned me on. Lights during sex became a problem, on and on... My point is it is not always the mans fault and i was a good encouraging husband but its still my fault right? you know i really was telling her the truth too, it didnt bother me in the slightest as a matter of fact her being the mother of my children only made her more desirable to me and i loved her more and more. However this problem persisted and i mean she was a very beautiful woman! I never stopped encouraging her but it gets frustrating!!!!!
Then always with the dim lights and having to okay every outfit over and over. Men are not as shallow as some women portray us to be, it has been my experience this is a womans problem not a man giving it to them. It gets offensive when we cant have an adult conversation about facts without being labeled shallow and bigoted. Sorry ladies but this is a problem more in your mind than in reality. Now if you have a serious weight problem or had some jerk mentally abusing you thats a different matter. Women are attracted to confident men and men are attracted to confident women. It is unattractive to whine and make excuses why you are failing at anything. I am sorry if this offends people but the reality is weight can be controled! Thats a fact!!!!!! so if you cant control yours plz dont asks others to feel sorry for you or expect people do cater to your whoas me crap its wrong! As for the time issue, I like to jog and excersise and i have found that when i excersise my body requires less sleep and i have never not had the time to excersise. I am a single dad with a job and a commutte, i went to college and worked at the same time and still found time. This is about personal preference of your time thats all. so plz stop beating up on us cause we didnt do it. |
|
|
|
|
