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oh and to answer the question a guy should make the first move if he is smart because if you dont women get turned off. women want to know they are wanted even though they play like they dont. women make subtle moves on men and most guys are oblivious to it, like bending over or flashing cleavage, touching your arms, smiling, this is how women let men know. but guys need to be more perceptive. what ruins it is those girls that will do those things and act like they didnt do anything and make you out to be a perv or something, then guys get cautious. but some girls do that stuff just for attention. on here you dont get any body language so its hard. but i flirt with women everytime i get on here...lol its fun!!!!
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what do u think? are you expecting that a woman would come to talk to you 1st. I don't like that idea still, I feel like I m still a little bit old fashion. I don't see anything wrong with that Though i don't expect it either |
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oh and to answer the question a guy should make the first move if he is smart because if you dont women get turned off. women want to know they are wanted even though they play like they dont. women make subtle moves on men and most guys are oblivious to it, like bending over or flashing cleavage, touching your arms, smiling, this is how women let men know. but guys need to be more perceptive. what ruins it is those girls that will do those things and act like they didnt do anything and make you out to be a perv or something, then guys get cautious. but some girls do that stuff just for attention. on here you dont get any body language so its hard. but i flirt with women everytime i get on here...lol its fun!!!! 
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well see there is one poblem monica, i just emailed you and your criteria shut me out. its exactly what you said in reverse, you can always say no but open your email settings and maybe you will get more hits. you may have missed out on some potential dates already.
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Edited by
papersmile
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Thu 01/22/09 04:04 AM
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a guy should make the first move if he is smart because if you dont women get turned off.
we do? women make subtle moves on men and most guys are oblivious to it, like bending over or flashing cleavage, touching your arms, smiling, this is how women let men know.
it is? Generally, I prefer a man who is confident enough to break the ice.
i agree, but the one who leans up against a wall, watching you with a cocky grin, beckoning in a way for you to come to him, i find completey irresisitable. |
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what do u think? are you expecting that a woman would come to talk to you 1st. I don't like that idea still, I feel like I m still a little bit old fashion. yea, it would be better that way, cause if you just randomly message a girl on here they are suspicios of you from the get go and put a wall up, you never really get to know them, but in regular day to day, when they can see you right in front of them, talking to them, its easier so either person could start the convo.!!! |
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In general most men fear rejection....myself I don't have a problem making the first move. Eye contact, smile, wave, a simple conversation starter like "Hello".
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In general most men fear rejection....myself I don't have a problem making the first move. Eye contact, smile, wave, a simple conversation starter like "Hello". Rejection? what's that? Yeah some do 
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My family would never let me be forward due to the fact they did not view it as lady like, not even for Sadie Hawkins dances. I basically told them if the female has the rights of a man in this country why can I not ask a man out. They stated that I would be viewed as a trollop, since then relationship wise I have let the man initiate the dating. I have no problem being open and friendly and speaking to a man, but would never initiate intimacy until I was comfortable with him.
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I feel that if whoever is interested in getting to know the other person, they should contact them. The guy or even the girl, whoever feels the interest. Out in Public, even if I don't say anything, I make it clear that I am attracted to the woman or interested in her. If she's wearing an engagement ring or wedding band, I move on. It's usually the first thing I try to see if I am interested. But, if she's with a guy and she doesn't have on a ring, and I'm interested, I am definitely still going to let her know it. In public it can't be easily done with a facial expression, a wink, or even body language. And communication works even better. On the Net, it's different because you can't see one another, so communication is a must if you're interested. Or you can just perve the heck out of em, add them to your favorites, mutual match em, and hope to be lucky. In public it's fun, and the funniest thing I have had happen without saying a word was just meeting eye contact with a beautiful woman as we were walking past one another entering and exiting Wal-Mart and her eyes never came off me. Her head kinda almost spun all the way around right before she ran into the entrance door as she was leaving the store! 
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well see there is one poblem monica, i just emailed you and your criteria shut me out. its exactly what you said in reverse, you can always say no but open your email settings and maybe you will get more hits. you may have missed out on some potential dates already. |
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what do u think? are you expecting that a woman would come to talk to you 1st. I don't like that idea still, I feel like I m still a little bit old fashion. I don't see anything wrong with that Though i don't expect it either |
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Should women start conversations with men? Yes, they should.
Being shy is usually about being really really hung up on not being rejected by people. Once you get out there and mingle a little bit (as opposed to Mingle a little bit) those first couple of rejections sting quite badly, but you begin to find comfortable ground. Personally, I am a sucker for aggressive women. There is no mystery or guessing game about whether an aggressive woman likes you or not; the women who know what they want and seize upon it cut out a lot of wasted time and energy having men solve that problem for them. |
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Edited by
DTHRomeo
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Thu 01/22/09 06:32 AM
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what do u think? are you expecting that a woman would come to talk to you 1st. I don't like that idea still, I feel like I m still a little bit old fashion. I don't see anything wrong with that Though i don't expect it either I feel flattered , turn red and stutter like crazy LOL Most of the time i like making the first move |
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what do u think? are you expecting that a woman would come to talk to you 1st. I don't like that idea still, I feel like I m still a little bit old fashion. I don't see anything wrong with that Though i don't expect it either I feel flattered , turn red and stutter like crazy LOL That reaction might be worth making a pass at a man, LMAO!!! Most of the time i like making the first move |
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I feel you should just go with the flow if in fact you want to talk to someone and the moment comes up then jump right on in and say something. Does it really matter who talks first what matters is do you want to talk to them.
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what do u think? are you expecting that a woman would come to talk to you 1st. I don't like that idea still, I feel like I m still a little bit old fashion. In 2013, or whatever year this is, it's time for women to shake off the shackles of oppressionism and approach me, already, especially if it's somewhere other than Wal-Mart. |
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I love it when women start the conversation. Too often do I feel like I'm in a one-sided relationship and when the woman initiates it reverses that notion.
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The last time a woman whom I was unfamiliar with approached me for ANY reason, but particularly with the intent of a "li'l sump'm-sump'm" on her mind:
1989. I was 22 years old. |
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The last time a woman whom I was unfamiliar with approached me for ANY reason, but particularly with the intent of a "li'l sump'm-sump'm" on her mind: 1989. I was 22 years old. |
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