Topic: guys, shall women start conversation?
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Thu 01/22/09 08:20 AM
That's the thing- make the first move, and you'll often catch hell for it. Don't, and you'll catch hell for it.

Seakolony's photo
Thu 01/22/09 08:21 AM


We are all insecure and sometimes our brains go duh duh duh when we see someone we like. And some people are better off being thought of as a fool, than opening their mouths and proving it.


I ain't skeered! *puffs chest out*

Wow, that comment reminded me of Peacock strutting to impress a female. Now why did that thought pop in my head, LOL. laugh

Mr_Music's photo
Thu 01/22/09 08:22 AM
Like I've always said, the first man who ever figures out exactly what makes a woman tick is gonna be a bazillionaire in about five minutes.

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Thu 01/22/09 08:24 AM
And he'll STILL probably catch hell for it.

Mr_Music's photo
Thu 01/22/09 08:32 AM
Of COURSE he will! They don't want their secrets known!

Jill298's photo
Thu 01/22/09 08:33 AM

Like I've always said, the first man who ever figures out exactly what makes a woman tick is gonna be a bazillionaire in about five minutes.
That will never happen. All women are different. What makes one woman tick, will do nothing for another.

Mr_Music's photo
Thu 01/22/09 08:35 AM


Like I've always said, the first man who ever figures out exactly what makes a woman tick is gonna be a bazillionaire in about five minutes.
That will never happen. All women are different. What makes one woman tick, will do nothing for another.


Which is precisely what drives us f*cking crazy! frustrated

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Thu 01/22/09 08:58 AM
And some will change what makes them tick mid-conversation, no less.

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Thu 01/22/09 11:49 AM
Edited by freeonthree on Thu 01/22/09 12:10 PM

what do u think? are you expecting that a woman would come to talk to you 1st. I don't like that idea still, I feel like I m still a little bit old fashion.


Im not looking for a GF, but if I were, I would wait for a lady to approach me. Im a happy guy, and cold shoulders kinda throw off my day smokin

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Thu 01/22/09 12:00 PM


Like I've always said, the first man who ever figures out exactly what makes a woman tick is gonna be a bazillionaire in about five minutes.
That will never happen. All women are different. What makes one woman tick, will do nothing for another.


And that's exactly what some guys don't get.

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Thu 01/22/09 12:04 PM


what do u think? are you expecting that a woman would come to talk to you 1st. I don't like that idea still, I feel like I m still a little bit old fashion.


I won't make the first move anymore.


I don't get the "I won't make the first move" or the "I have to make the first move" thing. Why can't it go either way? Why does it have to be one way or the other?

freeonthree's photo
Thu 01/22/09 12:18 PM

so why guys are so shy? what guys are so afraid of contacting a woman? what's the worst it could happen?


We know you girls love the attention, but we really don't like wasting your time. We know that overall, women have the upper hand. Everybody wants you... Plus we enjoy watching you go thru hell with the jerks you ultimatey choose over us, that messaged you first, fed you full of crap, and played you like a fish. Were just nice patient guys, waiting for you to finally make the right choice. My GF pounced on me 15 months ago, and were still together. Now get to pouncin ladies! smokin

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Thu 01/22/09 12:21 PM

Plus we enjoy watching you go thru hell with the jerks you ultimatey choose over us, that messaged you first, fed you full of crap, and played you like a fish. Were just nice patient guys, waiting for you to finally make the right choice.


I don't say this very often, but -- I wish I had said that....!!

Truer words have never been written....



Jill298's photo
Thu 01/22/09 12:24 PM
I don't wanna date a sissy that isn't man enough to at least say hi if he wants to laugh

freeonthree's photo
Thu 01/22/09 12:24 PM


Plus we enjoy watching you go thru hell with the jerks you ultimatey choose over us, that messaged you first, fed you full of crap, and played you like a fish. Were just nice patient guys, waiting for you to finally make the right choice.


I don't say this very often, but -- I wish I had said that....!!

Truer words have never been written....





You were feelin it, and thats all that matters smokin

Mr_Music's photo
Thu 01/22/09 12:25 PM
Damn! surprised Even I liked that!

freeonthree's photo
Thu 01/22/09 12:26 PM

I don't wanna date a sissy that isn't man enough to at least say hi if he wants to laugh


If we did that, we'd been saying hi to about 150 women a day smokin

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Thu 01/22/09 12:26 PM

I don't wanna date a sissy that isn't man enough to at least say hi if he wants to laugh


Seriously. I wouldn't want to either. :tongue:

Mr_Music's photo
Thu 01/22/09 12:27 PM
Edited by Mr_Music on Thu 01/22/09 12:28 PM
Me: "Hi."

Her: "Eww!"

Such an enjoyable experience.

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Thu 01/22/09 12:28 PM

Me: "Hi."

Her: "Eww!"

Such an enjoyable experience.



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