Why should he be willing to put it on the line if you aren't as willing?

While i don't suggest driving him over, in a truck with a bummer sticker saying "LOVE ME 4EVER", i do suggest it's time to find out the answer. You have already decided you would like to pursue this to some degree, so why not pursue it?

Let's play the odds, you gamble-
Worst case scenario - he gets uncomfortable and ends any relationship you had. Well to be honest if you start pushing him away that's the end result anyway.
Best case scenario - you are happy FOREVER.

Games are overrated. Opportunities lost while people try to read other peoples minds.. don't lose yours. Just another point of view to consider.

Best of luck

It's the man's responsibility to make the moves. If she makes the first move, it'll mean she is in the lead. She doesn't want to be the man in the relationship for the rest of her life.

You met him on the site? This site? If so, the conversation explaining this thread might be a little more awkward than the conversation you are asking about...

It's the man's responsibility to make the moves. If she makes the first move, it'll mean she is in the lead. She doesn't want to be the man in the relationship for the rest of her life.

One thing is for sure, there is always one that takes the male role and one that takes the female role no matter what private parts are involved.



Chew on that


Good luck.

Why are you rushing things? Maybe he's just trying to get to know you first. That's why so many relationships end quickly because people are in such a rush to "make them happen." Either it will happen or it won't. Trust me, the best way to get rid of a guy, as either a friend or a potential boyfriend is to rush into things and start pushing for a relationship. That scares guys. So if I were you, I'd just keep talking to him, and like daydreamer said, just enjoy it while it lasts and try not to read too much into it. Take it one day at a time. Nothing lasts forever anyway, so you might as well have fun while it lasts. Best of luck.

mm thats true...maybe i am rushing things...lol i've always been known for not having patience...ok..i guess i'm gonna try to just have fun with him for now!! patience patience patience!
thanks!

I would only hope that you watch your motivation. Your entire profile states you are only here to get over someone else. Do not lead this man on either. It wouldn't be fair.

There is nothing wrong with friendship especially while you are healing...in fact, it is the responsible thing to do in my opinion. If there is more to be explored with him it will become obvious.

There is no rush ...


imo

It's the man's responsibility to make the moves. If she makes the first move, it'll mean she is in the lead. She doesn't want to be the man in the relationship for the rest of her life.

yeah i know wat you mean, my profile is kinda outdated...i've really moved on....and i'm not using him or leading him on...thanks for reminding me though! =)

just curious to know what it means for the woman to be the man in the relationship?

The woman takes on the man's role...

Her:
Disciplinarian,
Decision maker,
Finance Keeper,
Bill Payer


Him:
Cook,
Clean,
Submissive

ah, you're one of those men, huh?

thanks for clarifying.

It's natural.


You can't have two dominants because once one is dominate, the other has to be submissive.

They can take turns... but usually it is plays out that one is dominant for the majority of the time.