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Topic: Are we just friends?
lilith401's photo
Tue 01/13/09 07:06 AM

I don't reccomend the "skipping out" on him just to see his reaction. Most guys find that to be annoying and a turn off. But the idea of bringing up a favorite place to eat or activity is a great idea. If he bites... that would show interest. Or as stated already by several others, just ask him if he's interested... it's really not too hard.


It's not "skipping out". I'm quite sure this lady has other things she has missed doing as she is talking to him every night. I'm merely suggesting she do her normal routine and take a day off from being overly available to this guy. There is nothing gamey about that, it's called having a life. If at the same time this guy realizes he wants to see her, well, then he might just ask.

papersmile's photo
Tue 01/13/09 07:09 AM
Edited by papersmile on Tue 01/13/09 07:10 AM

come on no guys call a gal everyday for 2 weeks unless they are interested...... guys dont waste time like that.. hes waiting for a hint of some sort... relationships are two way streaks... not possible to have one when only one is trying....

that's kind of my take on it as well.

i don't think i've ever dated someone where i couldn't tell if there was romantic interest

personally speaking, if he were calling me that often, i would assume interest unless he told, or showed, me something different.

i wouldn't ask. in fact, if i were asked those same types of questions by a guy , i'd probably be turned off slightly, seeing it as hesitation, indecision, and lack of confidence and assuredness.

no photo
Tue 01/13/09 10:28 AM


come on no guys call a gal everyday for 2 weeks unless they are interested...... guys dont waste time like that.. hes waiting for a hint of some sort... relationships are two way streaks... not possible to have one when only one is trying....

that's kind of my take on it as well.

i don't think i've ever dated someone where i couldn't tell if there was romantic interest

personally speaking, if he were calling me that often, i would assume interest unless he told, or showed, me something different.

i wouldn't ask. in fact, if i were asked those same types of questions by a guy , i'd probably be turned off slightly, seeing it as hesitation, indecision, and lack of confidence and assuredness.


drinker

rombump2's photo
Wed 01/14/09 05:58 PM
i been through the same thing, and when you ask you never get a definate answer. i say pull away a bit and see how he responds.

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