Doubtful since he use to be a professional weightlifter. You would have to bulk up alittle!

Like i said, perhaps i'm the one living a dream, thinking such games aren't necessary.. meh.

Edit: i need sleep misspelling everything!

games seem to be the way to go, unfortunately. i don't like playing games, gets old after a while.

Life is a game.



Play it or die.

LOL, I think I'd toss my cookies if a guy asked me for that.

THANKS FOR QUOTING ALL THE ERRORS! lol

All good, need sleep so bad... night all!

erm, my eyes were too distracted to notice the errors. night night though!

i have no idea why you intrigue me so...

I think I would just do some thinking on my own and follow my instincts.

If you are having a good time and enjoy the arrangement then relax and let it go where it will.

Sounds like the guy is into you and might be a match.

If your instinct is telling you that this guy is crowding you by calling every night then make plans to do something with family or friends and enjoy that.

If he blows off the relationship because you have exercised some personal choices rather than accounting to him every night I don't see you have lost much.

Asking every guy you date to declare his intentions up front (less than six months to a year); especially at such a young age is falling on your own sword. Most won't know. Or will run the other way. Or if they think it will get them laid will lie.

People rarely think well when they are cornered. If your instincts are telling you to chill then I wouldn't let anyone talk me into something you have learned from experience runs guys off.

Just because some guy or several guys have run a game on you doesn't mean you need to distrust your instinct. If anything it means you need to listen to it more.

My guess is you are a good girl who knows right from wrong. Don't sell yourself short. When it is the right person it will happen.

You could also tell him how you feel about him.

Yikes. A guy who still thinks a man has to be like that?

I would be direct.

"Hey, I know we've been talking alot & recently met. How are you feeling about that? Did you think there was any potential chemistry there? I know you continued to call me, so were you into being more than friends or do you think we should keep it at the friendship level?"

BITE YOUR FINGER NAILS...and the answer will be known to you in 40 seconds or less......

I beleive that he did make the first move... he asked you out right? and you went... he is still calling you every night that is not a move? it is if i ever seen one... dont forget men have fears and feelings too..... he maybe seeing if you have interest in him....time spent together would tell.. he maybe waiting for you to say something about seeing each other again... why not ? its not the first move....

Make a overt flirty (sexual) gesture, to let him know you are interested, most guys are a little awkward with this, if you let it go on like this, you both will end up in the dreaded FRIEND ZONE.

Follow this guys' advice and you'll be spending all your free time here on the forums, instead of being out with your new boyfriend.

Life isn't a game. There is no "prize". It's not about winning and losing, it's about learning and loving.

I'd be up front about it. You don't have to be demanding. But there's no reason he shouldn't be able to tell you he's interested in being more than friends if that's the case. If it isn't, at least you found out early on and can move on.

come on no guys call a gal everyday for 2 weeks unless they are interested...... guys dont waste time like that.. hes waiting for a hint of some sort... relationships are two way streaks... not possible to have one when only one is trying....

since she has the profile on here that i read... and met him on here too.. he obviously read it.. i think if i were a guy id be quite slow too.. as a matter of fact if i were looking myself on here and read a guys profile that said that i would consider him to be "totally unapproachable" time for her to step up to the plate is all im saying... there is old fashoned <that still exists> however we arent in the 30's, but facts are he made the first move and continues to do so... she has to show some interest..

Why do you answer the phone every night?

It's possible you might be too available. Try skipping a night talking to him, see what he says the following night.

If you want him to ask you out, try bringing up a favorite restaurant or activity and see how he responds. If nothing happens, then nothing happens. If you want it to, tell him that. If he runs, he is either scared or a pvssy or both.

I don't reccomend the "skipping out" on him just to see his reaction. Most guys find that to be annoying and a turn off. But the idea of bringing up a favorite place to eat or activity is a great idea. If he bites... that would show interest. Or as stated already by several others, just ask him if he's interested... it's really not too hard.

or simply say.... "maybe we should get together again sometime again soon?"