Why are you SINGLE? what happened? how long have you been single?

Lets talk about it over some drinks sailor

My husband was killed in a horrifying blender accident.





No wait...that only happened in my head.....

All my husbands die after 8 months of marriage .I am looking for the one who can brake the record

Oh boy. The questions every guy loves to ask at the beginning of a conversation.

Lot of chicks I have known were losers

I have been single since mid October, or early December.

That is when circumstances got bad enough to blow me out of my denial and rationalizations.

I chose to be single because it was healthiest for me. I'm single because I wasn't willing to live with that much risk or danger in my life. I wasn't willing to take a chance on losing that much, or "dying for love".

Even though I felt terribly betrayed, angry, resentful, embarrassed, ashamed, guilty, frustrated, deceived (and more) by the other and by myself, I needed to learn to let go with love, with no expectations or investment in the outcome. I still love.

Yes, I know I'm being purposely vague. I need to be.

MY EX,,TOLD ME NO!
So she's in a fruit jar in my cellar now. lol

Females have been taught to ask this question of males fairly early on. But to ask on the first date or two will be sure to scare them away.

really marinating!

I tend to make men move... out of state (that's my story and I'm sticking to it officer).

you really don't wanna know

at least they dont run off to Africa...I think you are in good shape!

sure we do, tell us!

I chose to be single because I am working on my master's degree, working my full time job, and doing a part time internship. I have no time for a relationship until school is done. That is why I am single.

lol.... this is a question i have asked myself. I have three kids and a job. I dont want to date women i work with or friends either. There is a beautiful lady at work too that i know that things work for us. But all the complications make it impossible, besides she is a very good friend but i think about her a lot. My weekends are often with my children and if i dont give them that time then when? I dont dig the bar scene and i'm not looking for a bootie call even though i probably wouldnt have the strength to resist. So basically i'm a divorced man with three kids and wonder if i can even be a good mate? So after a year and half lonely im hoping i find someone that understands. But what are you gonna do i have baggage and thats just a reality. So if there are any nice ladies out there with baggage i hope you conatact me.

You might need to consider somebody with "matching luggage" at this point because everybody has some baggage...but that doesn't mean you won't find someone.

Nope... just Vegas and Memphis... I'll shoot for international next time though!