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I have high expectations for myself and my future partner, so I haven't found the 'click' yet!
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i just aint tryed for a relation ship.
 kinda scared to
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how can you summarize why you are single in one sentence?? hmmm i would say by CHOICE.
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how can you summarize why you are single in one sentence?? hmmm i would say by CHOICE. actually, you have a lot of space to write for whatever you want to share with us 
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I used to say I am single because my mate died but now I think I just got used to dealing with my own needs and stopped seriously looking. Sure I put up a profile and talk to people but most people in the forums are a safe distance so it is not likely that it will go anywhere. There are hundreds of people on mutual match but at this age they are generally wanting anything but the M-word and I am too old to play rent-a-rump.
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 Why are you SINGLE? what happened?  how long have you been single?
Single. Her actions brought about my choice. Hmmm 3 1/2 months or so.. dating isn't that bad, just gotta get use to doing it again. |
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I am single cause I am old and don't need kids and don't need sex
 and need some peace
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lol.... this is a question i have asked myself. I have three kids and a job. I dont want to date women i work with or friends either. There is a beautiful lady at work too that i know that things work for us. But all the complications make it impossible, besides she is a very good friend but i think about her a lot. My weekends are often with my children and if i dont give them that time then when? I dont dig the bar scene and i'm not looking for a bootie call even though i probably wouldnt have the strength to resist. So basically i'm a divorced man with three kids and wonder if i can even be a good mate? So after a year and half lonely im hoping i find someone that understands. But what are you gonna do i have baggage and thats just a reality. So if there are any nice ladies out there with baggage i hope you conatact me. 
You might need to consider somebody with "matching luggage" at this point because everybody has some baggage...but that doesn't mean you won't find someone. 
I know! Point her out im looking but when your busy its difficult thats all. The internet has helped a lot cause i can just say hey this is my life and they can decide. In the real world the selection process is much more difficult when your busy. The internet allows me the opportunity to find someone that matches me well. I would rather not go on countless dates to figure this out. So thats why i'm here. I acctually go out a lot it just always has to do with work and clients. I have to act PC and i do! At work my friends know i just went on this site and ask me why? It's embarrasing and i just say hey i need love too. But this is my world and i'll make the best of it. |
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Edited by
heartSoul
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Sat 01/10/09 06:12 PM
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you really don't wanna know
sure we do, tell us! 
nah... it's been so long, I really don't remember the whole story as to why I'm single 
it's more of a choice now, cuts down on the bull and peace of mind is a wonderful thing 
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I used to say I am single because my mate died but now I think I just got used to dealing with my own needs and stopped seriously looking. Sure I put up a profile and talk to people but most people in the forums are a safe distance so it is not likely that it will go anywhere. There are hundreds of people on mutual match but at this age they are generally wanting anything but the M-word and I am too old to play rent-a-rump. rent-a-rump is not necessarily for guys pleasure only, it's a two-way street
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lol.... this is a question i have asked myself. I have three kids and a job. I dont want to date women i work with or friends either. There is a beautiful lady at work too that i know that things work for us. But all the complications make it impossible, besides she is a very good friend but i think about her a lot. My weekends are often with my children and if i dont give them that time then when? I dont dig the bar scene and i'm not looking for a bootie call even though i probably wouldnt have the strength to resist. So basically i'm a divorced man with three kids and wonder if i can even be a good mate? So after a year and half lonely im hoping i find someone that understands. But what are you gonna do i have baggage and thats just a reality. So if there are any nice ladies out there with baggage i hope you conatact me.
You might need to consider somebody with "matching luggage" at this point because everybody has some baggage...but that doesn't mean you won't find someone.
I know! Point her out im looking but when your busy its difficult thats all. The internet has helped a lot cause i can just say hey this is my life and they can decide. In the real world the selection process is much more difficult when your busy. The internet allows me the opportunity to find someone that matches me well. I would rather not go on countless dates to figure this out. So thats why i'm here. I acctually go out a lot it just always has to do with work and clients. I have to act PC and i do! At work my friends know i just went on this site and ask me why? It's embarrasing and i just say hey i need love too. But this is my world and i'll make the best of it. I get it. I raised 2 kids alone and my 2 big prohibitions for dating are 1) no married men and 2) no coworkers. Given the number of hours some of us work, the second is a pretty tough restriction but I've seen disasters that wreck both personal and professional lives. Good luck...it's taken me a long, long time to get into dating mode but I don't regret the rules I set for myself. Survival first 
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i was born single and then she came into my life.
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I was born wet, naked, and hungry.... And then it got worse from there! |
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Why are you SINGLE? what happened? how long have you been single?
I am single cause he was a liar and played games with me. It's been a year, needed that time to sort everything out and give myself some time to heal. |
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I used to say I am single because my mate died but now I think I just got used to dealing with my own needs and stopped seriously looking. Sure I put up a profile and talk to people but most people in the forums are a safe distance so it is not likely that it will go anywhere. There are hundreds of people on mutual match but at this age they are generally wanting anything but the M-word and I am too old to play rent-a-rump. rent-a-rump is not necessarily for guys pleasure only, it's a two-way street
Well that might be true in rare cases but I have found guys who want that option ususally are not very skilled at making it pleasurable. |
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I choose to be.
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I used to say I am single because my mate died but now I think I just got used to dealing with my own needs and stopped seriously looking. Sure I put up a profile and talk to people but most people in the forums are a safe distance so it is not likely that it will go anywhere. There are hundreds of people on mutual match but at this age they are generally wanting anything but the M-word and I am too old to play rent-a-rump. rent-a-rump is not necessarily for guys pleasure only, it's a two-way street
Well that might be true in rare cases but I have found guys who want that option ususally are not very skilled at making it pleasurable.   That's sooo true. 
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rent-a-rump is not necessarily for guys pleasure only, it's a two-way street
Well that might be true in rare cases but I have found guys who want that option ususally are not very skilled at making it pleasurable. then that is definitely a problem!
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yeah ill tell you a story cause i broke the rule of dating co-workers kinda. I went on an appointment for a client to try and make a sale. Half way thru the appointment the girls boss tapped her on the shoulder and took over. She acted very seductive and i was diggin it and we sat in the damn conference room for an hour just flirting. She signed the contract and i left thinkin this is great! I went on a date with her and it was a train wreck. The next thing you know she was causing all kinds of problems with me at work. Keep in mind this is a successful lady with a lot of power. My boss and i are good friends and i love the people at work and they love me so it didint hurt me. But i wouldnt want to make a habit of it because i owe the place i work for more than that. so now i just dont and it is really hard especially when i have had few drinks in me. I take a lot of cold showers lol.....
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Why are you SINGLE? what happened? how long have you been single?
I am single cause he was a liar and played games with me. It's been a year, needed that time to sort everything out and give myself some time to heal. Hasn't been a year for me yet, but cut and paste and that's my story too!
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