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he could of just as easily said I had a myspace account a"sometime ago" and continued with looking to find it and then said oh look its still there....but he didn't so your foundation is built on mistrust now..run this is the second post of your that I have read and I agree with both! keep posting! you're a smart one! 
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So accept his friend invite and see if theres some activity going on, or did he not really send you an invite yet? To be honest this sounds kinda like a situation I was in but different in a way, I had a myspace and me and my recent girlfriend parted ways, well needless to say she was a myspace freak and posted on my page every single day, soooo i had ALOT of post of "hey baby i miss you love ect ect" so this girl who wanted me to add her IMMEDIATLEY got kinda put off cause I was like well your gonna have to wait cause i got some myspace house cleanin to do, plus I didnt want any of my ex's old friends snooping on my page drying to drop hate bomb son my new girl, hence the reason from my departure from myspace in general, just makes everything so much more public than I like. Anyways hope this helps alittle.
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he could of just as easily said I had a myspace account a"sometime ago" and continued with looking to find it and then said oh look its still there....but he didn't so your foundation is built on mistrust now..run Yep, I agree on that. |
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Easy way to determine if that is a lie aswell is just look at his comments and the comments of his friends (if their not set to a private profile) and see if hes been responding to comments ect ect, just any type of activity on his part. Other than that, Proceed with caution. ;) And hello daydreamer!  tj the page of his only friend besides "Tom" and myself is private *cough*liar/player/scammer/married/gf*cough* yeah i'd jump ship on that one. yeah so now I just have to call him and say "let's not." why can't people just be friggin normal???? If I knew the answer to that question, I wouldn't keep reactivating my profile on here, LOL |
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hehe I like you guys better as friends than lovers anyways, keeps me from having to deactivate my account har har har! :P
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So accept his friend invite and see if theres some activity going on, or did he not really send you an invite yet? To be honest this sounds kinda like a situation I was in but different in a way, I had a myspace and me and my recent girlfriend parted ways, well needless to say she was a myspace freak and posted on my page every single day, soooo i had ALOT of post of "hey baby i miss you love ect ect" so this girl who wanted me to add her IMMEDIATLEY got kinda put off cause I was like well your gonna have to wait cause i got some myspace house cleanin to do, plus I didnt want any of my ex's old friends snooping on my page drying to drop hate bomb son my new girl, hence the reason from my departure from myspace in general, just makes everything so much more public than I like. Anyways hope this helps alittle. yeah but it seems that if you were really done with your girlfriend you would have already cleaned house. even if you just hadn't done it yet, the dates on the comments are clearly displayed. |
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flee from the perjuors
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flee from the perjuors indeed. |
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Yup, but making her feel weird or uncomfortable with them on my site wasnt something I wanted to happen. Yea I should of been quicker to delete them as soon as me and my ex were done but cleaning myspace comments wasnt really high on my priority list at the time haha but i do get what you mean.
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hiding something is the issue.
his initial response was "it's not really a big deal" but it is. it is a symptom of how little value he places on honesty. maybe everything he told me about his life is true aside from that one detail but when the pressure is on his default reaction is to fib a little. very not cool. |
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Depends on how big of a lie. If its like shoe size or spelling of their name then IDC.
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Depends on how big of a lie. If its like shoe size or spelling of their name then IDC. so you aren't bothered by the lie itself? |
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Depends on how big of a lie. If its like shoe size or spelling of their name then IDC. so you aren't bothered by the lie itself? Yea, a little bit. My ex used to lie to me a lot, so I'm kinda used to compulsive lying. |
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Edited by
Shagwell
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Fri 01/09/09 03:58 PM
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Depends on how big of a lie. If its like shoe size or spelling of their name then IDC. so you aren't bothered by the lie itself? Yea, a little bit. My ex used to lie to me a lot, so I'm kinda used to compulsive lying. and you would accept the same behavior from someone new? |
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Well I know I had a myspace account along time ago and thought I had deleted it, I was sick of the crap over there even after I put it private. Well I totally forgot about it till I went to make another one to show some friends some pictures of Sitka when lo and behold the damn thing didn't delete and I was told I had an active account. I am not saying this is the case but it could be. I now have zero accounts on Myspace nor will I.
I think before I kicked someone to the curb for this lie I would think long and hard if there were any other litle lies. I would have also called him on it. I would also lay the ground rules in black and white. If I catch you in any other lie I don't care what color it is, we are done. There will be no second chances period. good luck |
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hiding something is the issue. his initial response was "it's not really a big deal" but it is. it is a symptom of how little value he places on honesty. maybe everything he told me about his life is true aside from that one detail but when the pressure is on his default reaction is to fib a little. very not cool. I want to play the devil advocate here, I don't think there is a perfect human being out there(except for me  ), that's been said...you probably like this person and you are talking to him because you saw some qualities in him that attracted you to him in the first place, and maybe like his conversation, I know he lied but if you really like him you should let this one go and get to know him more!  I don't intend to offend you but I don't think the devil has received adequate representation in your post. |
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Edited by
Shagwell
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Fri 01/09/09 03:59 PM
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Well I know I had a myspace account along time ago and thought I had deleted it, I was sick of the crap over there even after I put it private. Well I totally forgot about it till I went to make another one to show some friends some pictures of Sitka when lo and behold the damn thing didn't delete and I was told I had an active account. I am not saying this is the case but it could be. I now have zero accounts on Myspace nor will I. I think before I kicked someone to the curb for this lie I would think long and hard if there were any other litle lies. I would have also called him on it. I would also lay the ground rules in black and white. If I catch you in any other lie I don't care what color it is, we are done. There will be no second chances period. good luck neighbor. I can see what you're saying. and I know when you delete a myspace account you have to confirm it through your email for it to be deleted. that makes sense to me. but the point is he discovered that what he said wasn't true and instead of correcting it he made something up to confirm what he already new to be untrue. and he did it thinking I would never know. you say "no second chances" but would this not be a second chance? |
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Facebook, Myspace? Thats for Kids. Kix are for Kids.
I agree with Shagwell. It all started with a little white lie. You know if you feel bothered by his moves I would say move on. But first hit him with a little white lie of your own. Back attcha. |
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