Topic: little white lie
Jess642's photo
Fri 01/09/09 02:55 PM
Edited by Jess642 on Fri 01/09/09 02:55 PM
Did you ask him why? Why he chose to tell a lie?

Have you communicated since?

If so... isn't it being deceptive KNOWING the discrepancies, and judging him on his untruths, without asking him?

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Fri 01/09/09 02:55 PM


If this person is in THIS setting, a safe computer away, and still feels the need to put out little white lies NOW, imagine what would be to come if you got to know him/her in real life. This is one of the SAFEST venues to BE YOURSELF without tooooo much harm or humiliation to ego. If you didn't like something about each other from this platform, it's "no real loss", so WHY LIE, WHITE OR BLACK!!!??? People lie to GET SOMETHING OR SOMEONE.


good advice.
I just don't know how the conversation will go.
I already talked to him about it earlier today.
at first he was defensive, then he apologized
I should have waited to talk to him until I knew how I felt about it
because now I just want to run away!


Run. That's a stupid, creepy lie. Sounds like he's hiding something.

misstina2's photo
Fri 01/09/09 02:57 PM
myspace playersscared scared scared

Tromette's photo
Fri 01/09/09 02:57 PM
You should call him out though, and see what his excuse is.


PATSFAN's photo
Fri 01/09/09 02:57 PM

myspace playersscared scared scared



Yuplaugh laugh

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Fri 01/09/09 02:58 PM

myspace playersscared scared scared


Yeah, I've run into more than a few.

907daydreamer's photo
Fri 01/09/09 02:58 PM
yeah it's a foundation I would rather not chance building on.
uggg. now I have to tell him.

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Fri 01/09/09 02:58 PM

You should call him out though, and see what his excuse is.




so he can lie again to cover up the first one?

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Fri 01/09/09 02:59 PM

yeah it's a foundation I would rather not chance building on.
uggg. now I have to tell him.



not really, when men are done with me, i never hear from them again.laugh

robert1652's photo
Fri 01/09/09 02:59 PM


I'd say Next!!laugh


yeah that's kind of where I'm at.

Another one bites the dust yea

Tromette's photo
Fri 01/09/09 03:00 PM


You should call him out though, and see what his excuse is.




so he can lie again to cover up the first one?


I'm not saying "see what his excuse is and then go home with him and bang him."

She should call him out just because. Why not?

907daydreamer's photo
Fri 01/09/09 03:01 PM
Edited by 907daydreamer on Fri 01/09/09 03:12 PM

You should call him out though, and see what his excuse is.


he said he went to sign up having forgotten that he had an account
and when he put in his email it said that there was already an account with that email
and he didn't remember until then that he had signed up a year ago.
he said this happened while we were on the phone
and he was trying to save face
so he just went with what he originally told me.

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Fri 01/09/09 03:11 PM
he could of just as easily said I had a myspace account a"sometime ago" and continued with looking to find it and then said oh look its still there....but he didn't so your foundation is built on mistrust now..run

Tj806's photo
Fri 01/09/09 03:12 PM
Edited by Tj806 on Fri 01/09/09 03:13 PM
Easy way to determine if that is a lie aswell is just look at his comments and the comments of his friends (if their not set to a private profile) and see if hes been responding to comments ect ect, just any type of activity on his part. Other than that, Proceed with caution. ;) And hello daydreamer! waving

907daydreamer's photo
Fri 01/09/09 03:16 PM

Easy way to determine if that is a lie aswell is just look at his comments and the comments of his friends (if their not set to a private profile) and see if hes been responding to comments ect ect, just any type of activity on his part. Other than that, Proceed with caution. ;) And hello daydreamer! waving


waving tj
the page of his only friend besides "Tom" and myself is private

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Fri 01/09/09 03:16 PM



You should call him out though, and see what his excuse is.




so he can lie again to cover up the first one?


I'm not saying "see what his excuse is and then go home with him and bang him."

She should call him out just because. Why not?


LOL @ at going home and banging him. Well, my point is, usually when I've caught someone in a lie, they just keep lying to cover up the initial lie. And pretty soon we're swimming in a sea of lies. If he has a valid excuse for what he did fine, but if he's like the guys I've known, he'll just keep lying.

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Fri 01/09/09 03:17 PM


Easy way to determine if that is a lie aswell is just look at his comments and the comments of his friends (if their not set to a private profile) and see if hes been responding to comments ect ect, just any type of activity on his part. Other than that, Proceed with caution. ;) And hello daydreamer! waving


waving tj
the page of his only friend besides "Tom" and myself is private


*cough*liar/player/scammer/married/gf*cough*

yeah i'd jump ship on that one.

907daydreamer's photo
Fri 01/09/09 03:18 PM

he could of just as easily said I had a myspace account a"sometime ago" and continued with looking to find it and then said oh look its still there....but he didn't so your foundation is built on mistrust now..run


this is the second post of your that I have read and I agree with both!
keep posting! you're a smart one!

907daydreamer's photo
Fri 01/09/09 03:19 PM



Easy way to determine if that is a lie aswell is just look at his comments and the comments of his friends (if their not set to a private profile) and see if hes been responding to comments ect ect, just any type of activity on his part. Other than that, Proceed with caution. ;) And hello daydreamer! waving


waving tj
the page of his only friend besides "Tom" and myself is private


*cough*liar/player/scammer/married/gf*cough*

yeah i'd jump ship on that one.


yeah so now I just have to call him and say "let's not."
why can't people just be friggin normal????

lisarh91570's photo
Fri 01/09/09 03:20 PM
Girl, Seriously don't feel bad. They're the one that lied. Personally for me a lie is a lie and it makes me wonder what else is being lied about. what someone said earlier was right, NEXT.

Lisa