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 some sooner than others
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If you don't trust him so that you have to do this, cut him loose and I wouldn't involve his wife. Let it go and move on.
That is like catching a thief, getting your money back, and not punishing him for it!! It send a clear message that it's okay to do it again! That is no way to stop bad behavior. He NEEDS to know that he will LOSE more than he gains by cheating on a person he made a lifetime commitment to. If you can't handle the heat, stay out of making promises you can't keep. |
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If you don't trust him so that you have to do this, cut him loose and I wouldn't involve his wife. Let it go and move on.
That is like catching a thief, getting your money back, and not punishing him for it!! It send a clear message that it's okay to do it again! That is no way to stop bad behavior. He NEEDS to know that he will LOSE more than he gains by cheating on a person he made a lifetime commitment to. If you can't handle the heat, stay out of making promises you can't keep. Genius, we're going to have to agree to disagree on this one. Unless, you've ever taken part in ruining someone elses life to include collateral damage, you don't know if it's something you can live with or not. |
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Sit down with him, tell him how you feel, what you found and break it off. Bow out of his life,but get out with dignity and your self-respect intact.Be the adult and your not down to his level.
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WOW ARE YOU KIDDING ME? I guess you must have a lot of free time to stick your nose in his life? My first thought was this..I hope he is single and I hope YOU get busted and he kicks your a$$ to the curb. My question is this...if you can't trust him at all, why are you wanting to be with him? How old are you?? 
She has every right to stick her nose in his life. It's her life and happiness that HE is messing with. It sounds to me she is still not 100% he is married, that is why she hasn't taken any action yet. sure she has a right to know - if he's indeed cheating. but surely there's a better way than attempting to befriend the wife, misrepresent yourself to her, and try to gain as much information as you can. that sounds pretty low to me. |
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So ive been dating this guy for like 6 months who said he was legally seperated from his wife. He tells me alot about his life but some of his story sometimes doesnt make rational sense, although they r pretty good excuses. Anyways i just recently made a fake profile on myspace and found out his wife had an acct. i added her as a friend on myspace and ive started to ask her questions about her life. totally playing an innocent tourist. im not trying to be malicious or anything i just want to find out the truth and if hes been lying to me. If he is lying my friend told me i should tell her that her husbands been cheating on her with me. (bcuz He has told me he loves me and hes never felt this way about anyone else before.) Am i wrong for prying into her life? would it be wrong for me to tell her if he IS lying to me? P.S. i found recent family photos taken of him and her and their kids...does that mean anything?  There are people around here that will run mind games on you. I basically consider them to be scammers
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I think she deserves to know the truth. Would you like to know the truth if you were the wife? Let her make the decision to live with a liar, or not.
i'd like to know, but i'd prefer to hear it from him, and not have to be humiliated by receiving a personal call from his lover. if you don't trust him, maybe you should stay out of his life? i wonder how he'd feel, if he were telling you the truth, after he finds out you've been meddling in the lives of his family (whether they are ex or not)? he has told me that we would be together forever and has promised me things. I did trust him until recently and if he is telling the truth he would never know i was meddling. I also havent really gone into detail about the whole situation |
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i guess you have to do what you feel you must.
however, i'd lean more to following HIM around , and see what HE is up to, and leaving his wife alone (she's an innocent party, but you're lying to her, about who you are and what you want, and i guess i just find that pretty scummy) |
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If you don't trust him so that you have to do this, cut him loose and I wouldn't involve his wife. Let it go and move on. Agree, even if she shouldn't be involve with such a man, it is not your place to ruin her life. The temptation to hurt him might be there but like others said they are others involve in this (children). |
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I'm sure the divorce is published in public record down at the local courthouse. Why don't you go down there to get the answer for 100% certain.
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I'm sure the divorce is published in public record down at the local courthouse. Why don't you go down there to get the answer for 100% certain. Now that's a great idea. |
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So ive been dating this guy for like 6 months who said he was legally seperated from his wife. He tells me alot about his life but some of his story sometimes doesnt make rational sense, although they r pretty good excuses. Anyways i just recently made a fake profile on myspace and found out his wife had an acct. i added her as a friend on myspace and ive started to ask her questions about her life. totally playing an innocent tourist. im not trying to be malicious or anything i just want to find out the truth and if hes been lying to me. If he is lying my friend told me i should tell her that her husbands been cheating on her with me. (bcuz He has told me he loves me and hes never felt this way about anyone else before.) Am i wrong for prying into her life? would it be wrong for me to tell her if he IS lying to me? P.S. i found recent family photos taken of him and her and their kids...does that mean anything? Na.It just makes you a cyber stalker. Thats why I hate Myspace, Facebook,Ect. |
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  Now this is drama
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Edited by
scotty1964
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Wed 01/07/09 04:51 PM
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im just gonna hang with dubz
 i really dont know anything cause it was too long.......and i cant read so muck....i meant much.but muck will be ok.....
i dont mene to be mene........i dont wanna be banned again......do what u things rite ang......el |
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There is nothing wrong with research to cover your own ass. The United States and et al... have people that do this professionally called spies. It's the only way to get legitimate information that otherwise would be compromised if your mission was exposed.
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Edited by
GeniuSxBoY
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Wed 01/07/09 04:56 PM
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I wish an STD upon each and everyone one of you whom could have prevented an innocent woman from catching such a disease by simply letting her know that her husband had been sleeping around.
ha ha ha |
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He is just using you, and probably lying to you as about most everything. Get rid of him while you can, before you are even more hurt. That's one reason I won't get involved with someone in the middle of a separation. I want if over and done with.
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I'm sure the divorce is published in public record down at the local courthouse. Why don't you go down there to get the answer for 100% certain. they arent divorced they r seperated |
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Wow talk about infiltrating the camp.........what is the point of this..........if you think he is lying why the hell are you with him.............you are going to be a rebound regardless......so let the chips lay where they may and leave that woman ALONE...........
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Telling her will only hurt her and could cause some major issues... What if she's not stable and takes him out, the kids and herself? You don't know either well enough to know that she won't...
without trust you have nothing, since you don't trust him, why be with him? |
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