Topic: Phone Call
SitkaRains's photo
Sun 12/28/08 02:55 PM


I had all of the bases covered too. I could call him anytime. We emailed for several months before we met. Then we went to the phone.

I thought I did too he would call me all hours I could hear the kids in the background. That was my first experience on the internet now I have become so damn cautious it is pitiful. I found out later he had done that to another woman also on Yahoo. I made it a policy after that to look up public records for marriages and divorces before I would meet and greet men. I also will set them up if I find out they are married.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 12/28/08 03:05 PM
flowerforyou Be careful of who and what you tell flowerforyou

missy51970's photo
Sun 12/28/08 03:05 PM

flowerforyou Be careful of who and what you tell flowerforyou



EXACTLY

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Sun 12/28/08 03:09 PM
In other words, stay safe. Think before you decide and act. And, make sure you have your facts straight....and proof.

alonenotlonely's photo
Sun 12/28/08 03:09 PM
This all just proves that it pays to not be pretty: I can always know if someone's interested in me, it ain't 'cause I'm good-lookin'.

I've not met anyone from a site, but we all know that's not the only place we're deceived. It turns out my last gf just used me to make her ex-husband jealous . . .

Wish I could say I didn't mind being used like that, but I can't. Broke my frickin' heart, but I hope to be ready to try again in a few more months.

Point is: it happens in the real world, too. You never know.

Winx's photo
Sun 12/28/08 03:09 PM



Winx hunny Im too old for it too youd be amazed at the stuff goes on ... had it happen to me and i was just friends with this man... nothing more.. but apparently he played alot of women on here and was married with 4 kids... lied about everything and his WIFE called me... and he was from here


Dang. I thought they would be more mature by now.frustrated frustrated

Sorry that happened to you.flowerforyou



Im osrry it happened to you .. and he fooled alot of people on this site... possibly you too...

Email for more info ..


He's not from this site.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 12/28/08 03:13 PM
:tongue:

cynbro's photo
Sun 12/28/08 03:15 PM


This afternoon I received an interesting phone call. She asked me if I knew so and so. I did.

I dated this man. I haven't seen him in over 9 mths. I met him online (not this site).

Well, she tells me that she's been his gf for 4 yrs.shocked

She found his pass word and read our emails.

I'm too old for this kind of crap.sad


it seems like it is a closed chapter in your life since you havent seen the guy in 9 mnths, I say keep it closed drinks


I'm with you...keep it closed!

Winx's photo
Sun 12/28/08 03:49 PM

This all just proves that it pays to not be pretty: I can always know if someone's interested in me, it ain't 'cause I'm good-lookin'.

I've not met anyone from a site, but we all know that's not the only place we're deceived. It turns out my last gf just used me to make her ex-husband jealous . . .

Wish I could say I didn't mind being used like that, but I can't. Broke my frickin' heart, but I hope to be ready to try again in a few more months.

Point is: it happens in the real world, too. You never know.


Yes, it happens off-line too. I have met some very nice people on-line. I think this guy was the minority.

Winx's photo
Sun 12/28/08 04:42 PM



This afternoon I received an interesting phone call. She asked me if I knew so and so. I did.

I dated this man. I haven't seen him in over 9 mths. I met him online (not this site).

Well, she tells me that she's been his gf for 4 yrs.shocked

She found his pass word and read our emails.

I'm too old for this kind of crap.sad


it seems like it is a closed chapter in your life since you havent seen the guy in 9 mnths, I say keep it closed drinks


I'm with you...keep it closed!


Well, we were making plans again. But..it's closed!!

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Sun 12/28/08 07:21 PM

This afternoon I received an interesting phone call. She asked me if I knew so and so. I did.

I dated this man. I haven't seen him in over 9 mths. I met him online (not this site).

Well, she tells me that she's been his gf for 4 yrs.shocked

She found his pass word and read our emails.

I'm too old for this kind of crap.sad


Ew, that sucks. I got an angry fiance call one day. I hadn't dated the guy, though. Just knew him from here.

Winx's photo
Sun 12/28/08 07:52 PM


This afternoon I received an interesting phone call. She asked me if I knew so and so. I did.

I dated this man. I haven't seen him in over 9 mths. I met him online (not this site).

Well, she tells me that she's been his gf for 4 yrs.shocked

She found his pass word and read our emails.

I'm too old for this kind of crap.sad


Ew, that sucks. I got an angry fiance call one day. I hadn't dated the guy, though. Just knew him from here.


So much for unlisted numbers. frustrated That was my private cell number.

You were lucky. You found out before you met him.

Totage's photo
Sun 12/28/08 07:54 PM

This afternoon I received an interesting phone call. She asked me if I knew so and so. I did.

I dated this man. I haven't seen him in over 9 mths. I met him online (not this site).

Well, she tells me that she's been his gf for 4 yrs.shocked

She found his pass word and read our emails.

I'm too old for this kind of crap.sad


That's terrible. flowerforyou

Winx's photo
Sun 12/28/08 08:08 PM


This afternoon I received an interesting phone call. She asked me if I knew so and so. I did.

I dated this man. I haven't seen him in over 9 mths. I met him online (not this site).

Well, she tells me that she's been his gf for 4 yrs.shocked

She found his pass word and read our emails.

I'm too old for this kind of crap.sad


That's terrible. flowerforyou


Thanks, Totage. flowerforyou

We were planning to see each other again.grumble

freeonthree's photo
Sun 12/28/08 08:09 PM

I just don't understand the mentality of these people. If someone isn't happy in a current relationship, deal with it to fix it or GET OUT. No excuses or "it's complicated". Don't do this type of crap to innocent people. If it's that complicated, at least let those people, (the spouse or one who is to be cheated on AND the ones with whom you wish to cheat), know SO THEY CAN TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES instead of just taking care of numero uno ego.
I cringe when I see some profiles here that say they are married and looking for an intimate encounter, but they get snaps on THIS end for being upfront about it. It just sucks if their mates don't know what they are up to.


When I wanted out of a relationship with a gal after 4 years, I just told her I wasn't happy anymore and wanted out. Thats the only way to do it in my opinion.

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 12/28/08 08:11 PM
I got an email from a guy's wife here. She was mad at me! That kind of pissed me off. :angry:

Winx's photo
Sun 12/28/08 08:13 PM

I got an email from a guy's wife here. She was mad at me! That kind of pissed me off. :angry:


Just from talking on here or we're you dating?

AllenAqua's photo
Sun 12/28/08 08:13 PM

Yeah, it's pretty smarmy when people can't be honest enough to tell you they are in a relationship or married. It's a real disservice to the person they are deceiving. Bless her heart, tooooo!!! :heart:


I love people who use the word "smarmy", but aren't smarmy themselves.flowerforyou :tongue:

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 12/28/08 08:16 PM


I got an email from a guy's wife here. She was mad at me! That kind of pissed me off. :angry:


Just from talking on here or we're you dating?


Just emailing. I wasn't interested in him at all and told him that. He would keep trying every couple of weeks. I could tell there was something not right about him. I sent back an email to his wife telling her that he had been emailing me and to read the emails. She never wrote back and his account was deactivated.

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Sun 12/28/08 08:19 PM



This afternoon I received an interesting phone call. She asked me if I knew so and so. I did.

I dated this man. I haven't seen him in over 9 mths. I met him online (not this site).

Well, she tells me that she's been his gf for 4 yrs.shocked

She found his pass word and read our emails.

I'm too old for this kind of crap.sad


Ew, that sucks. I got an angry fiance call one day. I hadn't dated the guy, though. Just knew him from here.


So much for unlisted numbers. frustrated That was my private cell number.

You were lucky. You found out before you met him.


Yeah, it's good that I found out. Those phone calls are not fun at any time, though.