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This afternoon I received an interesting phone call. She asked me if I knew so and so. I did. I dated this man. I haven't seen him in over 9 mths. I met him online (not this site). Well, she tells me that she's been his gf for 4 yrs. 
She found his pass word and read our emails. I'm too old for this kind of crap. 
this is kinda like how I found out my ex husband was cheating on me. Sorry Winx I'm so sorry, Plk.  
at least yours was on the phone, mine was a friend invited me somewhere and introduced me to her friend. When she found out my name she thought I was my husbands sister. When I told her that I was his wife **** really hit the fan. She had no idea, I didn't blame her but I took her home with me that day, and yes that was the day I moved out That is so rough. That had to be horrible.
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This afternoon I received an interesting phone call. She asked me if I knew so and so. I did. I dated this man. I haven't seen him in over 9 mths. I met him online (not this site). Well, she tells me that she's been his gf for 4 yrs.
She found his pass word and read our emails. I'm too old for this kind of crap.
Be thankful it wasn't his wife. Did you tell her about all the nice guys on here?
Oh, gosh, what a horrible thought - his wife!! Yes, there are nice guys on here. 
I mostly listened to her. She knew a lot about me from the emails. |
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This afternoon I received an interesting phone call. She asked me if I knew so and so. I did. I dated this man. I haven't seen him in over 9 mths. I met him online (not this site). Well, she tells me that she's been his gf for 4 yrs.
She found his pass word and read our emails. I'm too old for this kind of crap.
 dude got busted
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I just don't understand the mentality of these people. If someone isn't happy in a current relationship, deal with it to fix it or GET OUT. No excuses or "it's complicated". Don't do this type of crap to innocent people. If it's that complicated, at least let those people, (the spouse or one who is to be cheated on AND the ones with whom you wish to cheat), know SO THEY CAN TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES instead of just taking care of numero uno ego.
I cringe when I see some profiles here that say they are married and looking for an intimate encounter, but they get snaps on THIS end for being upfront about it. It just sucks if their mates don't know what they are up to. |
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Sounds ly is a jerk off for not being truthful 
I didn't see it coming. He was so nice. Yep, a jerk. 
If what she said is true, he did it when he was married too. They've been together 4 yrs. and he's been divorced 3 yrs. It's terrible about all that happened to you and his G/F, but be thankful you/she found out now, instead of later! 
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This afternoon I received an interesting phone call. She asked me if I knew so and so. I did. I dated this man. I haven't seen him in over 9 mths. I met him online (not this site). Well, she tells me that she's been his gf for 4 yrs.
She found his pass word and read our emails. I'm too old for this kind of crap.
dude got busted
Yeah, with me.
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I just don't understand the mentality of these people. If someone isn't happy in a current relationship, deal with it to fix it or GET OUT. No excuses or "it's complicated". Don't do this type of crap to innocent people. If it's that complicated, at least let those people, (the spouse or one who is to be cheated on AND the ones with whom you wish to cheat), know SO THEY CAN TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES instead of just taking care of numero uno ego. I cringe when I see some profiles here that say they are married and looking for an intimate encounter, but they get snaps on THIS end for being upfront about it. It just sucks if their mates don't know what they are up to. I told her that I don't understand why people do that. I'm not like that. I can't relate to it. She's going to get tested for diseases now. |
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Sounds ly is a jerk off for not being truthful
I didn't see it coming. He was so nice. Yep, a jerk.
If what she said is true, he did it when he was married too. They've been together 4 yrs. and he's been divorced 3 yrs. It's terrible about all that happened to you and his G/F, but be thankful you/she found out now, instead of later!
Yes, I'm thankful. I was going to see him again. Now, I'm not. I'm going to go over how he was in my head and look for signs for future reference. |
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Edited by
MirrorMirror
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Sun 12/28/08 01:38 PM
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I just don't understand the mentality of these people. If someone isn't happy in a current relationship, deal with it to fix it or GET OUT. No excuses or "it's complicated". Don't do this type of crap to innocent people. If it's that complicated, at least let those people, (the spouse or one who is to be cheated on AND the ones with whom you wish to cheat), know SO THEY CAN TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES instead of just taking care of numero uno ego. I cringe when I see some profiles here that say they are married and looking for an intimate encounter, but they get snaps on THIS end for being upfront about it. It just sucks if their mates don't know what they are up to. I told her that I don't understand why people do that. I'm not like that. I can't relate to it. She's going to get tested for diseases now.
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The very first thing I did was get tested, you should as well
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I just don't understand the mentality of these people. If someone isn't happy in a current relationship, deal with it to fix it or GET OUT. No excuses or "it's complicated". Don't do this type of crap to innocent people. If it's that complicated, at least let those people, (the spouse or one who is to be cheated on AND the ones with whom you wish to cheat), know SO THEY CAN TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES instead of just taking care of numero uno ego. I cringe when I see some profiles here that say they are married and looking for an intimate encounter, but they get snaps on THIS end for being upfront about it. It just sucks if their mates don't know what they are up to. I told her that I don't understand why people do that. I'm not like that. I can't relate to it. She's going to get tested for diseases now.  Are you gonna have to get tested too?
I'll never tell. 
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The very first thing I did was get tested, you should as well I'm all good. Had my check-up. 
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Yeah, this is a WTF kinda deal for sure.
Sorry that it happened to you Winx. |
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 I know what its like to get decieved by a person you meet on here. It has happened to me too.
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Yeah, this is a WTF kinda deal for sure. Sorry that it happened to you Winx. Thanks, M. Michiganman.
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I know what its like to get decieved by a person you meet on here. It has happened to me too.
Sorry it happened to you, Mirror.
But..I do have to say that I met him on another site. |
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Winx,
You have every right to be POed. He sounds like a "player".
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I've gotten calls from more than 1 wife...
The last time I met her, took her to my house and called him to come over. I just stood back and watched the fireworks. |
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The more I think about this...the more me thinks he needs to be taken out behind a woodshed for a "conversation" on how you treat women.
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Winx, You have every right to be POed. He sounds like a "player".
I didn't see it, Redshirt.
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