Topic: Phone Call
Winx's photo
Sun 12/28/08 01:14 PM




This afternoon I received an interesting phone call. She asked me if I knew so and so. I did.

I dated this man. I haven't seen him in over 9 mths. I met him online (not this site).

Well, she tells me that she's been his gf for 4 yrs.shocked

She found his pass word and read our emails.

I'm too old for this kind of crap.sad


this is kinda like how I found out my ex husband was cheating on me.

Sorry Winx


I'm so sorry, Plk.:cry: flowerforyou


at least yours was on the phone, mine was a friend invited me somewhere and introduced me to her friend. When she found out my name she thought I was my husbands sister. When I told her that I was his wife **** really hit the fan. She had no idea, I didn't blame her but I took her home with me that day, and yes that was the day I moved out


That is so rough. That had to be horrible.flowerforyou

Winx's photo
Sun 12/28/08 01:15 PM


This afternoon I received an interesting phone call. She asked me if I knew so and so. I did.

I dated this man. I haven't seen him in over 9 mths. I met him online (not this site).

Well, she tells me that she's been his gf for 4 yrs.shocked

She found his pass word and read our emails.

I'm too old for this kind of crap.sad
so sorry to hear that Winx, flowerforyou Be thankful it wasn't his wife. Did you tell her about all the nice guys on here?


Oh, gosh, what a horrible thought - his wife!!

Yes, there are nice guys on here.happy flowerforyou

I mostly listened to her. She knew a lot about me from the emails.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 12/28/08 01:18 PM

This afternoon I received an interesting phone call. She asked me if I knew so and so. I did.

I dated this man. I haven't seen him in over 9 mths. I met him online (not this site).

Well, she tells me that she's been his gf for 4 yrs.shocked

She found his pass word and read our emails.

I'm too old for this kind of crap.sad




laugh dude got bustedlaugh

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Sun 12/28/08 01:23 PM
I just don't understand the mentality of these people. If someone isn't happy in a current relationship, deal with it to fix it or GET OUT. No excuses or "it's complicated". Don't do this type of crap to innocent people. If it's that complicated, at least let those people, (the spouse or one who is to be cheated on AND the ones with whom you wish to cheat), know SO THEY CAN TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES instead of just taking care of numero uno ego.
I cringe when I see some profiles here that say they are married and looking for an intimate encounter, but they get snaps on THIS end for being upfront about it. It just sucks if their mates don't know what they are up to.

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Sun 12/28/08 01:28 PM


Sounds ly is a jerk off for not being truthfulnoway


I didn't see it coming. He was so nice. Yep, a jerk.:angry:

If what she said is true, he did it when he was married too.

They've been together 4 yrs. and he's been divorced 3 yrs.


It's terrible about all that happened to you and his G/F, but be thankful you/she found out now, instead of later! spock

Winx's photo
Sun 12/28/08 01:29 PM


This afternoon I received an interesting phone call. She asked me if I knew so and so. I did.

I dated this man. I haven't seen him in over 9 mths. I met him online (not this site).

Well, she tells me that she's been his gf for 4 yrs.shocked

She found his pass word and read our emails.

I'm too old for this kind of crap.sad




laugh dude got bustedlaugh


Yeah, with me.:angry:

Winx's photo
Sun 12/28/08 01:31 PM

I just don't understand the mentality of these people. If someone isn't happy in a current relationship, deal with it to fix it or GET OUT. No excuses or "it's complicated". Don't do this type of crap to innocent people. If it's that complicated, at least let those people, (the spouse or one who is to be cheated on AND the ones with whom you wish to cheat), know SO THEY CAN TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES instead of just taking care of numero uno ego.
I cringe when I see some profiles here that say they are married and looking for an intimate encounter, but they get snaps on THIS end for being upfront about it. It just sucks if their mates don't know what they are up to.


I told her that I don't understand why people do that. I'm not like that. I can't relate to it.

She's going to get tested for diseases now.

Winx's photo
Sun 12/28/08 01:33 PM



Sounds ly is a jerk off for not being truthfulnoway


I didn't see it coming. He was so nice. Yep, a jerk.:angry:

If what she said is true, he did it when he was married too.

They've been together 4 yrs. and he's been divorced 3 yrs.


It's terrible about all that happened to you and his G/F, but be thankful you/she found out now, instead of later! spock


Yes, I'm thankful. I was going to see him again. Now, I'm not.

I'm going to go over how he was in my head and look for signs for future reference.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 12/28/08 01:35 PM
Edited by MirrorMirror on Sun 12/28/08 01:38 PM


I just don't understand the mentality of these people. If someone isn't happy in a current relationship, deal with it to fix it or GET OUT. No excuses or "it's complicated". Don't do this type of crap to innocent people. If it's that complicated, at least let those people, (the spouse or one who is to be cheated on AND the ones with whom you wish to cheat), know SO THEY CAN TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES instead of just taking care of numero uno ego.
I cringe when I see some profiles here that say they are married and looking for an intimate encounter, but they get snaps on THIS end for being upfront about it. It just sucks if their mates don't know what they are up to.


I told her that I don't understand why people do that. I'm not like that. I can't relate to it.

She's going to get tested for diseases now.
:cry:

plk1966's photo
Sun 12/28/08 01:37 PM
The very first thing I did was get tested, you should as well

Winx's photo
Sun 12/28/08 01:37 PM



I just don't understand the mentality of these people. If someone isn't happy in a current relationship, deal with it to fix it or GET OUT. No excuses or "it's complicated". Don't do this type of crap to innocent people. If it's that complicated, at least let those people, (the spouse or one who is to be cheated on AND the ones with whom you wish to cheat), know SO THEY CAN TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES instead of just taking care of numero uno ego.
I cringe when I see some profiles here that say they are married and looking for an intimate encounter, but they get snaps on THIS end for being upfront about it. It just sucks if their mates don't know what they are up to.


I told her that I don't understand why people do that. I'm not like that. I can't relate to it.

She's going to get tested for diseases now.
scared Are you gonna have to get tested too?:cry:


I'll never tell.blushing

Winx's photo
Sun 12/28/08 01:38 PM

The very first thing I did was get tested, you should as well


I'm all good. Had my check-up.bigsmile

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Sun 12/28/08 01:44 PM
Yeah, this is a WTF kinda deal for sure.
Sorry that it happened to you Winx.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 12/28/08 01:45 PM
:smile: I know what its like to get decieved by a person you meet on here. :smile: It has happened to me too.:smile:

Winx's photo
Sun 12/28/08 02:03 PM

Yeah, this is a WTF kinda deal for sure.
Sorry that it happened to you Winx.


Thanks, M. Michiganman.flowerforyou

Winx's photo
Sun 12/28/08 02:03 PM

:smile: I know what its like to get decieved by a person you meet on here. :smile: It has happened to me too.:smile:


Sorry it happened to you, Mirror.flowerforyou

But..I do have to say that I met him on another site.

Redshirt's photo
Sun 12/28/08 02:06 PM
Winx,

You have every right to be POed. He sounds like a "player".


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AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 12/28/08 02:08 PM
I've gotten calls from more than 1 wife...

The last time I met her, took her to my house and called him to come over. I just stood back and watched the fireworks.

Redshirt's photo
Sun 12/28/08 02:11 PM
The more I think about this...the more me thinks he needs to be taken out behind a woodshed for a "conversation" on how you treat women. mad

Winx's photo
Sun 12/28/08 02:12 PM

Winx,

You have every right to be POed. He sounds like a "player".


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I didn't see it, Redshirt.flowerforyou