Topic: Phone Call
Winx's photo
Sun 12/28/08 08:21 PM



I got an email from a guy's wife here. She was mad at me! That kind of pissed me off. :angry:


Just from talking on here or we're you dating?


Just emailing. I wasn't interested in him at all and told him that. He would keep trying every couple of weeks. I could tell there was something not right about him. I sent back an email to his wife telling her that he had been emailing me and to read the emails. She never wrote back and his account was deactivated.


Yikes! That's creepy.

Winx's photo
Sun 12/28/08 08:21 PM




This afternoon I received an interesting phone call. She asked me if I knew so and so. I did.

I dated this man. I haven't seen him in over 9 mths. I met him online (not this site).

Well, she tells me that she's been his gf for 4 yrs.shocked

She found his pass word and read our emails.

I'm too old for this kind of crap.sad


Ew, that sucks. I got an angry fiance call one day. I hadn't dated the guy, though. Just knew him from here.


So much for unlisted numbers. frustrated That was my private cell number.

You were lucky. You found out before you met him.


Yeah, it's good that I found out. Those phone calls are not fun at any time, though.


They are NOT fun. It was my first. It shook me up.

Jusy's photo
Sun 12/28/08 08:55 PM
I've had the same thing happen to me, only the other woman involved knew very well that my boyfriend had been in a relationship with me for two years.

That didn't seem to stop her, so I went ape**** on her.

countrybelle6471's photo
Sun 12/28/08 09:05 PM
Oh Sorry hate it when crap like that happens..I've had a Man call me a couple times and ask for some girl.I didnt even know..Turns out her met her in a bar..and she gave me MY NUMBER..LOL..well I could not convince him that she gave heim a wrong number on purpose.....Cause he quoted my #..so he had that write said she wrote it down for him..He went on & on about how much he liked her..He called 4 times within a week & had 2 other people call..Including a small child b4 he gave up...:laughing: slaphead

Want2B5ft's photo
Sun 12/28/08 09:22 PM
(((((WINX))))) You deserve better than that! flowerforyou

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Sun 12/28/08 09:56 PM

Oh Sorry hate it when crap like that happens..I've had a Man call me a couple times and ask for some girl.I didnt even know..Turns out her met her in a bar..and she gave me MY NUMBER..LOL..well I could not convince him that she gave heim a wrong number on purpose.....Cause he quoted my #..so he had that write said she wrote it down for him..He went on & on about how much he liked her..He called 4 times within a week & had 2 other people call..Including a small child b4 he gave up...:laughing: slaphead


That reaks of desperation.Man some people just don't get it! lol

keepthehope's photo
Sun 12/28/08 10:18 PM
I'm sorry. Men can be real jerks.

Winx's photo
Sun 12/28/08 10:35 PM

I've had the same thing happen to me, only the other woman involved knew very well that my boyfriend had been in a relationship with me for two years.

That didn't seem to stop her, so I went ape**** on her.



I'm sorry.flowerforyou

Winx's photo
Sun 12/28/08 10:36 PM

Oh Sorry hate it when crap like that happens..I've had a Man call me a couple times and ask for some girl.I didnt even know..Turns out her met her in a bar..and she gave me MY NUMBER..LOL..well I could not convince him that she gave heim a wrong number on purpose.....Cause he quoted my #..so he had that write said she wrote it down for him..He went on & on about how much he liked her..He called 4 times within a week & had 2 other people call..Including a small child b4 he gave up...:laughing: slaphead


That's just weird.laugh flowerforyou


Winx's photo
Sun 12/28/08 10:36 PM

(((((WINX))))) You deserve better than that! flowerforyou


Thank you.:smile: flowerforyou

Winx's photo
Sun 12/28/08 10:53 PM

I'm sorry. Men can be real jerks.


Thanks.flowerforyou Yes, some men can be jerks. Heavy sigh.

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Sun 12/28/08 10:56 PM
eeeww thats just creepy.

cheating is a cardinal sin and unforgivible in my book. i dont abide by those who cannot face life and either break up or find a way to fix their relationship. no cheating!!!

Winx's photo
Sun 12/28/08 10:57 PM


I just don't understand the mentality of these people. If someone isn't happy in a current relationship, deal with it to fix it or GET OUT. No excuses or "it's complicated". Don't do this type of crap to innocent people. If it's that complicated, at least let those people, (the spouse or one who is to be cheated on AND the ones with whom you wish to cheat), know SO THEY CAN TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES instead of just taking care of numero uno ego.
I cringe when I see some profiles here that say they are married and looking for an intimate encounter, but they get snaps on THIS end for being upfront about it. It just sucks if their mates don't know what they are up to.


When I wanted out of a relationship with a gal after 4 years, I just told her I wasn't happy anymore and wanted out. Thats the only way to do it in my opinion.


That's the only acceptable way to me.

Winx's photo
Sun 12/28/08 10:57 PM

eeeww thats just creepy.

cheating is a cardinal sin and unforgivible in my book. i dont abide by those who cannot face life and either break up or find a way to fix their relationship. no cheating!!!


It is awful to me too. I don't think she plans on breaking up with him either.

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Mon 12/29/08 06:23 AM


eeeww thats just creepy.

cheating is a cardinal sin and unforgivible in my book. i dont abide by those who cannot face life and either break up or find a way to fix their relationship. no cheating!!!


It is awful to me too. I don't think she plans on breaking up with him either.

Does she expect him to change?

Winx's photo
Mon 12/29/08 10:16 AM



eeeww thats just creepy.

cheating is a cardinal sin and unforgivible in my book. i dont abide by those who cannot face life and either break up or find a way to fix their relationship. no cheating!!!


It is awful to me too. I don't think she plans on breaking up with him either.

Does she expect him to change?


Tell me about it. She even said that there were others.slaphead

She said that they were supposed to go to the movies but since she read the emails, she didn't feel like it.


MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 12/29/08 10:20 AM




eeeww thats just creepy.

cheating is a cardinal sin and unforgivible in my book. i dont abide by those who cannot face life and either break up or find a way to fix their relationship. no cheating!!!


It is awful to me too. I don't think she plans on breaking up with him either.

Does she expect him to change?


Tell me about it. She even said that there were others.slaphead

She said that they were supposed to go to the movies but since she read the emails, she didn't feel like it.


:smile: dang:smile:

Winx's photo
Mon 12/29/08 11:16 AM





eeeww thats just creepy.

cheating is a cardinal sin and unforgivible in my book. i dont abide by those who cannot face life and either break up or find a way to fix their relationship. no cheating!!!


It is awful to me too. I don't think she plans on breaking up with him either.

Does she expect him to change?


Tell me about it. She even said that there were others.slaphead

She said that they were supposed to go to the movies but since she read the emails, she didn't feel like it.


:smile: dang:smile:


Maybe they'll go to the movies tonight instead.:tongue:

no photo
Thu 01/01/09 06:06 PM
some people are just full of themselves

I'm sure the guy for you is just around the bend
hang in thereflowerforyou

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Thu 01/01/09 06:13 PM
she needs to tlk to him....i feel for uflowerforyou