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Topic: Sooo need a guys point of view....:)
JayLy's photo
Sun 12/28/08 02:08 AM
I'm not able to sleep again!! I need to just get a guys point of view b/c I'm am obviously not going to figure it out. 5 yr realtionship...sudden changes in behavior & others. Yap...ya know what I'm thinking. plz chat

goldenknight22's photo
Sun 12/28/08 02:14 AM
hey whats up.... what you need a point of view on?

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 12/28/08 02:20 AM

hey whats up.... what you need a point of view on?



laugh Thats what I was wondering toolaugh

goldenknight22's photo
Sun 12/28/08 02:22 AM
lol..i mean people change it happens

Peccy's photo
Sun 12/28/08 02:27 AM
I think you need to give a little more info, what sort of changes, who is changing, etc.

wraithme66's photo
Sun 12/28/08 02:32 AM
He might be hiding something...

Peccy's photo
Sun 12/28/08 02:33 AM

I'm not able to sleep again!! I need to just get a guys point of view b/c I'm am obviously not going to figure it out. 5 yr realtionship...sudden changes in behavior & others. Yap...ya know what I'm thinking. plz chat
there may be a rational explanation for what I think you're thinking. don't do anything rash.

onceuponatijm's photo
Sun 12/28/08 02:35 AM
oh just the usual changes .....like calling to change times /dates/place....not as conscious, priorities weaken, no sex since ...? excuses or no excuses for a complete reluctance to engage....sound familiar????

onceuponatijm's photo
Sun 12/28/08 02:36 AM

I'm not able to sleep again!! I need to just get a guys point of view b/c I'm am obviously not going to figure it out. 5 yr realtionship...sudden changes in behavior & others. Yap...ya know what I'm thinking. plz chat



in other words....he's just not that into you anymore..... sorry

Aramazd's photo
Sun 12/28/08 02:45 AM


I'm not able to sleep again!! I need to just get a guys point of view b/c I'm am obviously not going to figure it out. 5 yr realtionship...sudden changes in behavior & others. Yap...ya know what I'm thinking. plz chat



in other words....he's just not that into you anymore..... sorry


um... don't listen noway
although....
yeah you have to be way more specific

onceuponatijm's photo
Sun 12/28/08 02:51 AM



I'm not able to sleep again!! I need to just get a guys point of view b/c I'm am obviously not going to figure it out. 5 yr realtionship...sudden changes in behavior & others. Yap...ya know what I'm thinking. plz chat



in other words....he's just not that into you anymore..... sorry


um... don't listen noway
although....
yeah you have to be way more specific



actually she doesn't....it's a tradition doncha know....
predictable

onceuponatijm's photo
Sun 12/28/08 02:53 AM
if you want to capture his attention ....you're gonna have to stoop to acknowledging that it's a game...use the tactics tried and true...find back your self respect and go after what supports your strength rather than your weakness



:o)

Andre2003s's photo
Sun 12/28/08 03:52 AM
My guess is "mid life crisis", but I hope I am wrong.
This is when a man starts being worried that his woman is getting too old, e.g. approaching menopause. Men start to look around for younger women causing the mentioned attention deficits as side effect. Intentionally I worded it that way: some studies found out that mid life man married to much younger woman do not get this problem because it is not his own age causing the crisis.

no photo
Sun 12/28/08 04:39 AM
:thumbsup:

I think you need to give a little more info, what sort of changes, who is changing, etc.
:thumbsup:

motowndowntown's photo
Sun 12/28/08 06:28 AM

I'm not able to sleep again!! I need to just get a guys point of view b/c I'm am obviously not going to figure it out. 5 yr realtionship...sudden changes in behavior & others. Yap...ya know what I'm thinking. plz chat

Talk to him, talk to him, talk to him.
Ask him, ask him, ask him.
Commuication is the key. If you have been with the guy for five years and you can't figure it out you are not comunicating effectivly.

JayLy's photo
Sun 12/28/08 12:58 PM
Ok...It isn't me yet. My bf is edgy bad! At me only it seems. Not answering the cell, he is ending up places other than I was origionally told, giving me info to particiapate in social things sooo late it could not be possible for me to go, now the big one...he has had a huge loss of memory laely. So ya I have been snooping...

JayLy's photo
Sun 12/28/08 12:59 PM
ya think...lol :p

JayLy's photo
Sun 12/28/08 01:01 PM
right! I agree. otherwise I would had made a huge mess even worse. I know I need solid info....otherwise. He'll just deny. Assuming there is something. There is something- it just may not be what I am thinking ya know...

JayLy's photo
Sun 12/28/08 01:02 PM
oooo ya!

SitkaRains's photo
Sun 12/28/08 01:03 PM

right! I agree. otherwise I would had made a huge mess even worse. I know I need solid info....otherwise. He'll just deny. Assuming there is something. There is something- it just may not be what I am thinking ya know...

Thank you for more info.. Sorry but this sounds like he has found something a bit more interesting and has no guts to say so. My advice is to talk to him.Bluntly and short questions and get blunt and short answers back

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