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Topic: this has been bothering me
Lfer's photo
Tue 12/23/08 06:38 AM
girls, its not just the men, its us too. We also judge a man based on there looks, because lets be honest, we wouldn't talk to the ugliest guy in the room, why? because its a fact we like the hott asshole kind (not that i'm saying all hot guys are asses', but most are.) So all the girls thinking guys just look at the hottest girls in the room, so do we ladies, meaning the hottest guys not girls.


newarkjw's photo
Tue 12/23/08 06:41 AM
I wouldn't let it bother you too much. smokin

Averageguy1964's photo
Tue 12/23/08 06:43 AM
The averageguy (not me but them in general)have as much if not more to offer,they tend to treat women better because they usually do not have luck finding them and when they do they really know how to treat a lady.

lilith401's photo
Tue 12/23/08 06:44 AM
Ummmmm, well usually yes.

One of the nice things about Internet dating is that you have a chance to get to know a person for who they are, before you meet. Even a pic, a one dimensional image, really only gives us an idea of what a person looks like.

The person I'm currently dating I met sight unseen, fixed up by a co-worker. He is not at all my type, nor what I am usually attracted to physically. But he is a wonderful, bright, and all around fantastic person. I see only that, and I'm gaga for him.

DHinkle's photo
Tue 12/23/08 06:44 AM

girls, its not just the men, its us too. We also judge a man based on there looks, because lets be honest, we wouldn't talk to the ugliest guy in the room, why? because its a fact we like the hott asshole kind (not that i'm saying all hot guys are asses', but most are.) So all the girls thinking guys just look at the hottest girls in the room, so do we ladies, meaning the hottest guys not girls.




hey down to earth and reasonable, and hey y not say it, with looks to back it up

MsCarmen's photo
Tue 12/23/08 06:45 AM
I'm not sure where you are getting your facts from, but I for one don't go for "the hott asshole kind".

That's the last guy I'd take a look at!

Averageguy1964's photo
Tue 12/23/08 06:49 AM

Ummmmm, well usually yes.

One of the nice things about Internet dating is that you have a chance to get to know a person for who they are, before you meet. Even a pic, a one dimensional image, really only gives us an idea of what a person looks like.

The person I'm currently dating I met sight unseen, fixed up by a co-worker. He is not at all my type, nor what I am usually attracted to physically. But he is a wonderful, bright, and all around fantastic person. I see only that, and I'm gaga for him.




Best of luck to u and to your(should I say)average guy.

no photo
Tue 12/23/08 06:49 AM
Speak for yourself. I am allergic to assholes and have been known to not only talk with the "ugly" ones, but date them, too. Of course, attraction is important, but it doesn't HAVE to be about looks, per se'. And one's perception of attractive in "looks" is different from another's. Such as, I personally don't find "beefcake" or "muscle man" types attractive whereas other gals go nuts over those types of looks.


DHinkle's photo
Tue 12/23/08 06:49 AM

I'm not sure where you are getting your facts from, but I for one don't go for "the hott asshole kind".

That's the last guy I'd take a look at!


so ur tellin me u walk into a room and u notice two guys paying attention to u, one is "hot" and the other not so much. ur tellin me u wouldn rather talk to the "hot" one..please!!!!

lilith401's photo
Tue 12/23/08 06:50 AM

Best of luck to u and to your(should I say)average guy.


Thank you! But hardly average.... way above average...:tongue:

MsCarmen's photo
Tue 12/23/08 06:51 AM
Edited by MsCarmen on Tue 12/23/08 06:56 AM


I'm not sure where you are getting your facts from, but I for one don't go for "the hott asshole kind".

That's the last guy I'd take a look at!


so ur tellin me u walk into a room and u notice two guys paying attention to u, one is "hot" and the other not so much. ur tellin me u wouldn rather talk to the "hot" one..please!!!!


That's EXACTLY what I am saying! Looks aren't everything my friend. And chances are, the "not so much hot guy" has a better personality and won't be full of himself.

Please, don't pretend to know me or assume that you would know what type of guy I would go for.

Well, I'm off to work for another fun day at Wally World! Have a great day everyone!

DHinkle's photo
Tue 12/23/08 06:54 AM



I'm not sure where you are getting your facts from, but I for one don't go for "the hott asshole kind".

That's the last guy I'd take a look at!


so ur tellin me u walk into a room and u notice two guys paying attention to u, one is "hot" and the other not so much. ur tellin me u wouldn rather talk to the "hot" one..please!!!!


That's EXACTLY what I am saying! Looks aren't everything my friend. And chances are, the "not so much hot guy" has a better personality and won't be full of himself.


i never said looks are everything i no better than that but attraction to certain things is in our "instinct" and unavoidable. if they both had awesome personalities you would pick the "hot" one over the other

Averageguy1964's photo
Tue 12/23/08 06:54 AM
They value what they have more then the hot ones

Averageguy1964's photo
Tue 12/23/08 06:55 AM


Best of luck to u and to your(should I say)average guy.


Thank you! But hardly average.... way above average...:tongue:



U R V W

freeonthree's photo
Tue 12/23/08 06:56 AM
Sure, but after a week, your new hot mate looks average to you, then all you got is an average looking person with a screwed up personality.

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 12/23/08 06:56 AM

I'm not sure where you are getting your facts from, but I for one don't go for "the hott asshole kind".

That's the last guy I'd take a look at!


drinker ME TOO!

MsCarmen's photo
Tue 12/23/08 06:57 AM




I'm not sure where you are getting your facts from, but I for one don't go for "the hott asshole kind".

That's the last guy I'd take a look at!


so ur tellin me u walk into a room and u notice two guys paying attention to u, one is "hot" and the other not so much. ur tellin me u wouldn rather talk to the "hot" one..please!!!!


That's EXACTLY what I am saying! Looks aren't everything my friend. And chances are, the "not so much hot guy" has a better personality and won't be full of himself.


i never said looks are everything i no better than that but attraction to certain things is in our "instinct" and unavoidable. if they both had awesome personalities you would pick the "hot" one over the other

Please, don't pretend to know me or assume that you would know what type of guy I would go for, you'll never get it right!

DHinkle's photo
Tue 12/23/08 06:57 AM
i believe personality comes before looks, im not arguing with that, you jus cant deny ur attraction to good looks. we are all attracted to them

freeonthree's photo
Tue 12/23/08 06:59 AM

I'm not sure where you are getting your facts from, but I for one don't go for "the hott asshole kind".

That's the last guy I'd take a look at!


50 points ! Bing !

buttons's photo
Tue 12/23/08 07:04 AM
glad i'm "different"

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