I will drink socially. But I have a rule. Never date a man you meet in a bar.

well i have been here for a while

and on other sights as well

as most know mingle was formerly just say hi but

JustSayHi has experienced tremendous growth over the past year and our website has gone from being a small dating website to a massive online community,

so actually this is more than a dating site

there are may friends a few enemies

and a lot of acquaintances

and a lot of unknowns as well

so this question does not really a fitting question for this sire in particular

but seeing as i have meet people form this site

and people from other sites

just consider it a community no matter what site you use

and do not expect anything

and

if something happens

consider it a bonus

Wholeheartedly agree.

I moved to a big city and did not know a soul. Too scared to go to a bar or much anywhere alone. It was just me and my computer one Saturday night... and I just did it.

Exactly why I did it. Moved to New York City for a new job and wanted to meet some people male and female. I was on a site similar to this before and made some great friends. I am still friends with them today. Too bad they don't live in NYC. ;)

I tried it cause it said "FREE".

That too...

Too many psycho chicks out their. This way, I am at home, safe and sound, and can find out that a chick might be psychotic. Safety first. I believe Mingle is OSHA approved.

LOL! I feel popular.

As well you should. Judging by the topic you started, wondering why men have reading disabilities and all. And don't forget the ones who write like this......."Hey babe. I'm in 2 u. Wat it is! Me lieky!"

did you know that popular is a wood

I just stumbled into on-line dating...but now it's like I'm caught in one of those Chinese finger torture things...

I've never intentionally tried online dating it just sorta happens. You develop friendship through writing, laughter, and becoming personable with someone that brings you closer than you're with just normal friends. It's that kind of kinship that is much easier to evolve on the internet rather than in real life. Plus it also allows you to develop a means of understanding without getting the wrong idea. It's so much harder to talk in person because of peoples behavior. Like they're flipping out and yelling at you but when you're just reading words it doesn't evoke that kind of response :). It's so much more awesome.

Now that I keep moving around the world and not knowing anyone or anything and pretty much everyone stays inside nowadays unless you have money to go out and buy stuff or go out and just spend money it's much easier to look for a pretty girl online and see if we connect rather than having to find someone who isn't busy on the street to talk to you. It's also much easier to communicate without being nervous or uncomfortable :). Plus you don't get the whole oh I don't like the way you look or being completely ignored. You kind of forget who you message online if they don't reply :).

Wow. Great pic. Great profile. BTW, "Poplar" is the wood - not "popular."

RKSIT, is there nothing between average and athletic? or whatever they offer 'cause I just checked your profile and you're well above average. No, me not gay - not that there's anything wrong with that (?) - just wonderin'.

ROFL. I'll leave it there but you got the point. You have to see what popped up on this end. My grandparents would come out of the grave and yell at me.

so have I and thats when I met Mrs. Doubtfire's twin

I dont drink for the reasons I have actually discussed with you. However I will go to a local dive here to play pool and darts. I must admit to that.

that is poplar

it is a medium grade wood

used in a lot of cheaper wood framing in furniture

harder than pine but softer than oak hickory and ash