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Topic: Still friends?
Ruth34611's photo
Fri 12/19/08 09:02 AM
I guess being friends with someone after you break up is not really possible. Or is it?

MonkeyBob's photo
Fri 12/19/08 09:04 AM

I guess being friends with someone after you break up is not really possible. Or is it?
I'm still friends with my ex-wife.

lcjw's photo
Fri 12/19/08 09:07 AM
I think it would be hard to have a sincere friendship.

MonkeyBob's photo
Fri 12/19/08 09:07 AM

I think it would be hard to have a sincere friendship.
its easier to be sincere when there is kids involved.

robert1652's photo
Fri 12/19/08 09:08 AM
Neither her nor would I want the friendship. She doesn't know the meaning of the word. She just uses people

lcjw's photo
Fri 12/19/08 09:08 AM


I think it would be hard to have a sincere friendship.
its easier to be sincere when there is kids involved.

That is true, but when someone has been in love with someone else, is hard to keep just a simple, sincere friendship.

blueeyeddude's photo
Fri 12/19/08 09:10 AM
After 8 years and 2 kids, we divorced the first year wass hard for us. BUT now we are gret friends, I went to her wedding years later, I golf with her husband.

Our son graduated from basic training this last sept and there we where next to each other cheering for him, best of friends....

If you can look past the pain and see them for who they were when you loved them, you can be friends.

BUT you cant hold a grudge about nothing that kills any relationship, but this type it will kill faster than any other..

good luck its worth it in the end

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 12/19/08 09:24 AM
I guess it takes both people wanting it and working towards it. My ex says he wants to be friends, but then he continually does things or says things to me that he would never do or say to one of his friends.

imsingle951's photo
Fri 12/19/08 09:26 AM

I guess being friends with someone after you break up is not really possible. Or is it?
Im still friends with my ex

RKISIT's photo
Fri 12/19/08 09:33 AM
you can but some people react differently when it comes to break ups.:smile:

no photo
Fri 12/19/08 09:35 AM
Yes, it's possible.

franshade's photo
Fri 12/19/08 09:37 AM
I believe they can be friends, after a little hiatus, getting rid of negative feelings, but can they become friends, sure. jmo

Mayhem_J's photo
Fri 12/19/08 09:54 AM
I dont love them ho's. I'm out the door.

no photo
Fri 12/19/08 09:54 AM
I'm still friends with two of mine. It can be done.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Fri 12/19/08 10:01 AM
One of my ex's is one of my best friends.

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 12/19/08 10:10 AM

I dont love them ho's. I'm out the door.


huh

Mayhem_J's photo
Fri 12/19/08 10:12 AM


I dont love them ho's. I'm out the door.


huh


Exsactly.

Mayhem_J's photo
Fri 12/19/08 10:12 AM


I dont love them ho's. I'm out the door.


huh


Exsactly.

lilith401's photo
Fri 12/19/08 10:29 AM
Edited by lilith401 on Fri 12/19/08 10:29 AM
I'm friends with my most recent ex....we broke up just under two years ago.

Actually, I'm introducing my current boyfriend to my girlfriend next week, and my ex decided it would be fun to hang out and meet him too, as they both shoot pool.

It might be weird.... but no weirder than giving him relationship advice!

Goofball73's photo
Fri 12/19/08 11:54 AM
My ex and I still talk, and have maintained a good friendship. But that is as far as it will go.

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