Topic: Married women on dating sites
MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 12/18/08 11:37 AM

trust.. till a given reason not to trust is there, and if it becomes a distrust facter, why bother to waste your time being miserable? distrust is not a nice feeling to have..
drinks So trueflowers

bad_girl's photo
Thu 12/18/08 11:50 AM
No need, I am here and I am marriedbigsmile

CRAP! I better get outta here!!!!!shocked

bad_girl's photo
Thu 12/18/08 11:51 AM
I am here for the friends I have made and no a married person's life shouldn't be over, but sad as it is, some people think it shoulddrinks

From what I've seen thus far on this thread, it's apparently taboo for a person who is married to come onto a socialization site to share some time with friends. I guess once you're married, your life is over.

bad_girl's photo
Thu 12/18/08 11:52 AM
laugh Shhhhh don't tell


I am married and I am on here. What is not to trust as long as they are honest from the get go. And my husband trusts me:heart:

:smile: What do you think about married women on dating sites?:smile:

flowerforyou Do you trust them?flowerforyou

pitchfork We won't tell him our little secretpitchfork

bad_girl's photo
Thu 12/18/08 11:53 AM
{{{ed}}}:heart: smooched

First of all, let me set my side of the record straight.

I am a widower. I was married for almost 24 years and my wife and I were together for 26 years.

In my circle of friends in my off-line life, almost all of my friends are married. I am a very close friend of a lot of my buddies wives.I am also a close friend to some of the women that were in my wifes life before we got married. I would not trade that for the world. My friends wives have helped me through a very transitional time of my life. Yes, even married people need friends of the opposite sex. You can be friends with a woman and there not be a sexual relationship involved. You have to think with your brains upstairs, not the brains between your legs. There is such a thing as accountability. To thine own self be true.

Now as for my married lady friends on here. Yes, I do have married lady friends on here also. I would not trade their friendship for anything in the world.These ladies are very special and dear to me.They also have helped me out through my time of grieving my wifes passing. All we are is friends. We all need friends whether they are married or not.

So , as far as I`m concerned, if you have a problem with a married woman being on this site. You need to check your own situation out and keep your nose out of other peoples business. Keep your act straight and you won`t have to worry about what other people are doing.

Thanks for letting me use the soapbox to air my opinion about this.

You may disagree with what I have posted, but that again is your right. As I also have the right to post my opinion on the subject. We may not agree with each other, but that is why we live in a free country, and can have our own opinion without someone else trying to interfere with our stating so.

Thanks again. rara777

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 12/18/08 12:06 PM

laugh Shhhhh don't tell


I am married and I am on here. What is not to trust as long as they are honest from the get go. And my husband trusts me:heart:

:smile: What do you think about married women on dating sites?:smile:

flowerforyou Do you trust them?flowerforyou

pitchfork We won't tell him our little secretpitchfork

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rara777's photo
Fri 12/19/08 06:05 AM

{{{ed}}}:heart: smooched

First of all, let me set my side of the record straight.

I am a widower. I was married for almost 24 years and my wife and I were together for 26 years.

In my circle of friends in my off-line life, almost all of my friends are married. I am a very close friend of a lot of my buddies wives.I am also a close friend to some of the women that were in my wifes life before we got married. I would not trade that for the world. My friends wives have helped me through a very transitional time of my life. Yes, even married people need friends of the opposite sex. You can be friends with a woman and there not be a sexual relationship involved. You have to think with your brains upstairs, not the brains between your legs. There is such a thing as accountability. To thine own self be true.

Now as for my married lady friends on here. Yes, I do have married lady friends on here also. I would not trade their friendship for anything in the world.These ladies are very special and dear to me.They also have helped me out through my time of grieving my wifes passing. All we are is friends. We all need friends whether they are married or not.

So , as far as I`m concerned, if you have a problem with a married woman being on this site. You need to check your own situation out and keep your nose out of other peoples business. Keep your act straight and you won`t have to worry about what other people are doing.

Thanks for letting me use the soapbox to air my opinion about this.

You may disagree with what I have posted, but that again is your right. As I also have the right to post my opinion on the subject. We may not agree with each other, but that is why we live in a free country, and can have our own opinion without someone else trying to interfere with our stating so.

Thanks again. rara777



flowerforyou love :heart: smooched ((( Merle ))) smooched :heart: love flowerforyou

njmom05's photo
Fri 12/19/08 06:08 AM

Not sure what to think, but there sure appears to be a lot of them. We all have needs

Sure we all have needs, but married women can go buy a damn vibrator and married men can get some lube and use their hand.

Krimsa's photo
Fri 12/19/08 06:19 AM
Edited by Krimsa on Fri 12/19/08 06:20 AM

:smile: What do you think about married women on dating sites?:smile:

flowerforyou Do you trust them?flowerforyou


Well lets be fair here Mirror. There are also several married men on forum. I might even venture to say more married men than married women. Im just saying I have seen more married men on forum than women.

In both cases I am a little suspicious. I of course have no right to judge or condemn. Many simply make the claim that they are looking for someone of the opposite sex in order to "befriend" and that their spouse is aware of this and quite approving.

That may or may not be true. Hmm. I certainly will not consider a married man in any romantic sense. A friend or debate partner I have no objection to. I trust that the individual is well aware of what they doing and they understand fully the possible repercussions that they may face by being on a site of this designation.

adj4u's photo
Fri 12/19/08 06:30 AM

why assume they are not here just to make friends winking why automatically assume they are looking for sex, relationships, intimate encounters???

Good thing I'm single


yer not single

yer just not married


there is a difference

:wink: :wink:

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franshade's photo
Fri 12/19/08 06:39 AM
Edited by franshade on Fri 12/19/08 06:41 AM


why assume they are not here just to make friends winking why automatically assume they are looking for sex, relationships, intimate encounters???

Good thing I'm single


yer not single

yer just not married


there is a difference

:wink: :wink:

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take that {{adj}} tongue2


and I am single

Rono1957's photo
Sat 01/10/09 08:51 PM
Married woman on dateing sites are fine with me, as long as they are upfront about it

tessa68's photo
Sat 01/10/09 10:00 PM
its ok...maybe they just got bored with their husband and looking for a change from their daily routine.....

Monier's photo
Sat 01/10/09 10:11 PM
Edited by Monier on Sat 01/10/09 10:12 PM

:smile: What do you think about married women on dating sites?:smile:

flowerforyou Do you trust them?flowerforyou



If I found out that they were really married, I'd tell them that 'I'm better than their ex and better than their next' and to go find somebody else to define their pathetic existence.


rant rant rant

Averageguy1964's photo
Sat 01/10/09 10:12 PM

Married woman on dateing sites are fine with me, as long as they are upfront about it


I agree 100% We all like meeting new people and shooting the ****,Let em stay.

no photo
Sat 01/10/09 10:18 PM

:smile: What do you think about married women on dating sites?:smile:

flowerforyou Do you trust them?flowerforyou
I personally feel that ANY man or woman who is still married shold be on here TOGETHER, if their still together and happy.
Now if their split up then they SHOULDN'T be trying to get anyone to fall into a romance with them.
Until they get divorced...So they should just be wanting friends here.
But THIS is my thoughts.drinker

Krimsa's photo
Sun 01/11/09 03:04 AM
Lee I just noticed you have two threads going. This one about married women on dating sites and another about Christian married men and women on dating sites. Im sensing some sort of an issue here? huh

no photo
Sun 01/11/09 03:10 AM


:smile: What do you think about married women on dating sites?:smile:



No thanks. Not into sloppy seconds.
surprised noway

Krimsa's photo
Sun 01/11/09 03:20 AM



:smile: What do you think about married women on dating sites?:smile:



No thanks. Not into sloppy seconds.
surprised noway


Yes he only has sex with virgins. happy

no photo
Sun 01/11/09 03:25 AM




:smile: What do you think about married women on dating sites?:smile:



No thanks. Not into sloppy seconds.
surprised noway


Yes he only has sex with virgins. happy


Thats a little tough to pull off!:laughing: