Of course not. Most women I know that has had someone cheating on them knew it in their hearts but didn't really want to "see" it. It takes two to tango and if a woman is willing to let a man get away with it then he'll do it. Not all men cheat of course, me and quiet_2008 are the only two that don't. Maybe Dan99 too (is it cheating if he sleeps with men without his girlfriend knowing it?!)

I will take raging engorged boners for three hundred alex.

Thats one creamy filling my cake can do without...

Sooooooooooo we are all cheaters except you 3??????????

Did he forget to creamy fill something else!?! The bastich!

Puts things in his nose dan99? CORRECT! Ok alex I will take overweight women comedians who are not funny for two hundred.

You could write a song about it, it could be a hit, LMAO.

nAHHHHHHHHH dan99 isnt a cheater!!! He gave some floozy on here sh*t!!!

Awww don't tell me he was giving Lisa a hard time again!

I have never cheated or been cheated on...

why???

I believe because I leave the lines of communication so open in my relationships...

I always tell my man.."No matter what it is, how horrible, just bring it to the table, babe, and we'll deal with it....

but if I catch you lying or cheating...

there is no discussion...

case closed...

WE ARE DONE...PERIOD!!".


And I back those words 100%!

samaranj is right.it's genetic imperative.the desire of the species to mate with the best of the species they can.in their mind.or in the case of SOME women it's the BBD.the bigger,better deal.if,for example,she is eating top ramen for dinner,and another guy offers her a big mac?please.guys do it all the time...(myself excluded,i'll help you pack your sh*t)i think it just hurts more when women do it.god...i hope i didn't just offend anyone.

I can only speak for myself. I haven't cheated since I kissed a girl on vacation while my girlfriend was in Hawaii. I was 16. It sucked.

I have been cheated on. I don't cheat. I value my self-respect too much . . . so much, in fact, that if you cheat on me there won't be any drama but we are through. No second chances.

I don't know if the OP is simply citing the reference by Neumann or endorsing it. It seems to me that there are as many opinions as "qualified" authors. I like what Dr. Drew Pinksi says: Men cheat because they can, women cheat because they aren't getting emotional fulfillment, but these are generalities at best. Each person is unique.

My free, unsolicited advice: don't cheat . . . but fantasize like a pervert and masturbate like a crazed monkey.

LOL

Bry

Nope the floozy was probably me!!

My dumb azz was flirting with him (all in fun of course) BEFORE I read his profile and discovered he had a woman in his life already!

I quickly appologized for it, and told him, and his lady, I meant no disrespect!

But yeah...im definitely an internet floozy, and for that I dont appologize...

thats just me!

But I dont go after other womans men...

NOW THATS NOT ME!

Sex just isn't exciting with the wife anymore.



If the wife is cheating, the guy is failing to give good sex, if the man is cheating, then it's the wife. Essentially it's both's fault, one is not telling the other is not noticing.

Time to spice up your sex life.

*Ahem?*

oh you're smart.. if only all men would just say that...
:)

Communication is key, but if you didnt have communication to begin with then your relationship started on the wrong foot anyways.

You really need to get some medicine for that cough Keith!

which reminds me of another thread.. if your not ashamed of sex or embarassed.. you'd be willing to talk to your partner about what you like and be more comfortable to make it fun and interesting.. no need to wander elswhere to find someone else willing... there are plenty of people who like this or that and they think their sig. others just think it's dirty..