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Topic: Why Men Cheat ??????
lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 12/08/08 11:08 AM
Sociopaths are not charming and do not have a conscious, therefore, the term sociopath, and if they are charming at all it is for their own gain. Nothing charming about that. Um, they most certainly are charming. And if they are smart, you have no idea what they are until you're smitten. Or worse, married. Their lack of conscience has nothing to do with their charm. Are you familiar with the term? Or just as an adjective....

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Mon 12/08/08 11:08 AM
So seakalony is correct when she says 10% of it is your fault for being there in the first place and picking the idiot to begin with. I agree with others in saying there is risk in everything in life. If you stay home- you can't get hurt. But you will be bored and alone. But safe and drama free. But relegated to less challenges. But sad when you see the happiness of other couples sharing a life. But happy because the bed is all yours and noone eats all your cheese and chocolate and uses up all the toilet paper and leaves you that empty tube. We can each have our OWN cheese!!!! DONT TOUCH MY CHEESE!!!! You can have the chocolate but Im hogging the bed and beehiving the toilet paper behind your back!!!

SamaraNJ Joined Fri 08/01/08 Posts: 788	Mon 12/08/08 11:12 AM
So seakalony is correct when she says 10% of it is your fault for being there in the first place and picking the idiot to begin with. I agree with others in saying there is risk in everything in life. If you stay home- you can't get hurt. But you will be bored and alone. But safe and drama free. But relegated to less challenges. But sad when you see the happiness of other couples sharing a life. But happy because the bed is all yours and noone eats all your cheese and chocolate and uses up all the toilet paper and leaves you that empty tube. We can each have our OWN cheese!!!! DONT TOUCH MY CHEESE!!!! You can have the chocolate but Im hogging the bed and beehiving the toilet paper behind your back!!! beehiving the toilet paper??? I'm trying to picture in my mind.. shaping it like beehive.. hiding it in a hive.. I dun gettit.... and I believe the nutjobs are some of the nicest ones to start off.. after my experiences I don't trust a guy that is way 'too' nice.. means to me he is not just being himself and there might be something else he is hiding.. Im not saying being a jerk is better.. so don't bother.. Im saying I trust someone who is normal and being theirself and considerate and not overly nice...

Seakolony Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 11968	Mon 12/08/08 11:15 AM
They psychologically and mechanically go out of there way to act charming, to decieve. That is not being charming. You think that is charming? i.e. were you actually charmed in the inevitabilty or long run? What exactly did you find charming about being decieved?

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Mon 12/08/08 11:16 AM
Shaping it like a bee hive. Try it sometime!!!

therapy30 Joined Sat 11/15/08 Posts: 1799	Mon 12/08/08 11:16 AM
Sociopaths are not charming and do not have a conscious, therefore, the term sociopath, and if they are charming at all it is for their own gain. Nothing charming about that. Um, they most certainly are charming. And if they are smart, you have no idea what they are until you're smitten. Or worse, married. Their lack of conscience has nothing to do with their charm. Are you familiar with the term? Or just as an adjective.... Antisocial Personality Disorder is also known as psychopathy or sociopathy. Individuals with this disorder have little regard for the feeling and welfare of others. As a clinical diagnosis it is usually limited to those over age 18. It can be diagnosed in younger people if the they commit isolated antisocial acts and do not show signs of another mental disorder. Antisocial Personality Disorder is chronic, beginning in adolescence and continuing throughout adulthood. There are ten general symptoms: not learning from experience no sense of responsibility inability to form meaningful relationships inability to control impulses lack of moral sense chronically antisocial behavior no change in behavior after punishment emotional immaturity lack of guilt self-centeredness And now......do you know what charming means...or just as an adjective

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 12/08/08 11:17 AM
They psychologically and mechanically go out of there way to act charming, to decieve. That is not being charming. You think that is charming? i.e. were you actually charmed in the inevitabilty or long run? What exactly did you find charming about being decieved? Why are you assuming I found it charming I was deceived? That I was aware it was a deception? What is wrong with you?

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Mon 12/08/08 11:18 AM
They psychologically and mechanically go out of there way to act charming, to decieve. That is not being charming. You think that is charming? i.e. were you actually charmed in the inevitabilty or long run? What exactly did you find charming about being decieved? Ive lived with a psycho/sociopath before. That is why Im always listening, watching actions.....thinking.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 12/08/08 11:18 AM
Sociopaths are not charming and do not have a conscious, therefore, the term sociopath, and if they are charming at all it is for their own gain. Nothing charming about that. Um, they most certainly are charming. And if they are smart, you have no idea what they are until you're smitten. Or worse, married. Their lack of conscience has nothing to do with their charm. Are you familiar with the term? Or just as an adjective.... Antisocial Personality Disorder is also known as psychopathy or sociopathy. Individuals with this disorder have little regard for the feeling and welfare of others. As a clinical diagnosis it is usually limited to those over age 18. It can be diagnosed in younger people if the they commit isolated antisocial acts and do not show signs of another mental disorder. Antisocial Personality Disorder is chronic, beginning in adolescence and continuing throughout adulthood. There are ten general symptoms: not learning from experience no sense of responsibility inability to form meaningful relationships inability to control impulses lack of moral sense chronically antisocial behavior no change in behavior after punishment emotional immaturity lack of guilt self-centeredness And now......do you know what charming means...or just as an adjective Therapy... I work in forensic psychology, thanks.

quiet_2008 Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 11138	Mon 12/08/08 11:18 AM
Sociopaths are not charming and do not have a conscious, therefore, the term sociopath, and if they are charming at all it is for their own gain. Nothing charming about that. Um, they most certainly are charming. And if they are smart, you have no idea what they are until you're smitten. Or worse, married. Their lack of conscience has nothing to do with their charm. Are you familiar with the term? Or just as an adjective.... Antisocial Personality Disorder is also known as psychopathy or sociopathy. Individuals with this disorder have little regard for the feeling and welfare of others. As a clinical diagnosis it is usually limited to those over age 18. It can be diagnosed in younger people if the they commit isolated antisocial acts and do not show signs of another mental disorder. Antisocial Personality Disorder is chronic, beginning in adolescence and continuing throughout adulthood. There are ten general symptoms: not learning from experience no sense of responsibility inability to form meaningful relationships inability to control impulses lack of moral sense chronically antisocial behavior no change in behavior after punishment emotional immaturity lack of guilt self-centeredness And now......do you know what charming means...or just as an adjective don't you just love google?

Seakolony Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 11968	Mon 12/08/08 11:21 AM
Absolutely nothing wrong with me, but there is a psychological viewpoint that has a concept of, We know everything that happens to us is intentional. From "accidently" burning your hand, to tripping to being decieved. And that viewpoint is that even though it is unconscious we know what we are doing and do it intentionally to ourselves.

therapy30 Joined Sat 11/15/08 Posts: 1799	Mon 12/08/08 11:21 AM
Sociopaths are not charming and do not have a conscious, therefore, the term sociopath, and if they are charming at all it is for their own gain. Nothing charming about that. Um, they most certainly are charming. And if they are smart, you have no idea what they are until you're smitten. Or worse, married. Their lack of conscience has nothing to do with their charm. Are you familiar with the term? Or just as an adjective.... Antisocial Personality Disorder is also known as psychopathy or sociopathy. Individuals with this disorder have little regard for the feeling and welfare of others. As a clinical diagnosis it is usually limited to those over age 18. It can be diagnosed in younger people if the they commit isolated antisocial acts and do not show signs of another mental disorder. Antisocial Personality Disorder is chronic, beginning in adolescence and continuing throughout adulthood. There are ten general symptoms: not learning from experience no sense of responsibility inability to form meaningful relationships inability to control impulses lack of moral sense chronically antisocial behavior no change in behavior after punishment emotional immaturity lack of guilt self-centeredness And now......do you know what charming means...or just as an adjective don't you just love google? No...becoz it has not yet given me anything which can make you quiet

SamaraNJ Joined Fri 08/01/08 Posts: 788	Mon 12/08/08 11:22 AM
Therapy... I work in forensic psychology, thanks. that's awesome.. Im taking psych next semester.. just a simple psych101 requirement.. but Im looking forward to it..

therapy30 Joined Sat 11/15/08 Posts: 1799	Mon 12/08/08 11:26 AM
Therapy... I work in forensic psychology, thanks. that's awesome.. Im taking psych next semester.. just a simple psych101 requirement.. but Im looking forward to it.. see what I've created

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Mon 12/08/08 11:27 AM
not learning from experience no sense of responsibility inability to form meaningful relationships inability to control impulses lack of moral sense chronically antisocial behavior no change in behavior after punishment emotional immaturity lack of guilt self-centeredness intresting,

therapy30 Joined Sat 11/15/08 Posts: 1799	Mon 12/08/08 11:29 AM
Sociopaths are not charming and do not have a conscious, therefore, the term sociopath, and if they are charming at all it is for their own gain. Nothing charming about that. Um, they most certainly are charming. And if they are smart, you have no idea what they are until you're smitten. Or worse, married. Their lack of conscience has nothing to do with their charm. Are you familiar with the term? Or just as an adjective.... Antisocial Personality Disorder is also known as psychopathy or sociopathy. Individuals with this disorder have little regard for the feeling and welfare of others. As a clinical diagnosis it is usually limited to those over age 18. It can be diagnosed in younger people if the they commit isolated antisocial acts and do not show signs of another mental disorder. Antisocial Personality Disorder is chronic, beginning in adolescence and continuing throughout adulthood. There are ten general symptoms: not learning from experience no sense of responsibility inability to form meaningful relationships inability to control impulses lack of moral sense chronically antisocial behavior no change in behavior after punishment emotional immaturity lack of guilt self-centeredness And now......do you know what charming means...or just as an adjective Therapy... I work in forensic psychology, thanks. Donot take the exam now...you are not ready for it...you will fail

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Mon 12/08/08 11:29 AM
Absolutely nothing wrong with me, but there is a psychological viewpoint that has a concept of, We know everything that happens to us is intentional. From "accidently" burning your hand, to tripping to being decieved. And that viewpoint is that even though it is unconscious we know what we are doing and do it intentionally to ourselves. Hmmmmmmmm I think I agree with this. There are many variables to the human psyche!!!! Gaaaaaaaaaaawd I love psychology!!!

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Mon 12/08/08 11:30 AM
Mr organized <---thats me; trusts his own decisions because they are well thought out, planned, and tried and true honest to the best of my ability. Really??? You trust your own decisions even with all of your loser ex gfs????? Were you not organized then?? ...yes I still do trust my decisions. Why? Even though it was 10% my fault for being involved with the losers in the first place I reaped much education and benefits in learning from the experiences. What did I learn? To be careful. In most cases I didn't know they were losers until after I was in a relationship with them. So now I'm UBERULTRA CAREFULMAN!!! Superhero!! Echo echo echo.... Defender of myself. To the point of being neurotic about it. So I want to really want to know who I'm dating before I decide to get involved. Background checks. Family background and history. Health records. Driving record. Work record. And relationship history. Never forget the cordial dinner date that ended with me dropping her off at her front door with a peck on the cheek with the stalker that had a criminal record that legally changed her name, and that ended with her trying to burn my house down caught on neighbors surveillance camera and a nice yearlong restraining order. Yeah I love women who are offended by someone doing a background check before getting into a relationship with them. They usually got a nice- wait a minute! Hmmmm says here you stuck a knife in your ex boyfreinds back? Second degree murder knocked down to negligent homicide? And charges of meth distribution? You did two years in estherville iowa women correction? Date you? No f*cking thanks! I'm not throwing my life away. Only get one.

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Mon 12/08/08 11:30 AM
Darn it I have to go to work. I'd rather pop some corn & watch this.

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Mon 12/08/08 11:34 AM
not learning from experience no sense of responsibility inability to form meaningful relationships inability to control impulses lack of moral sense chronically antisocial behavior no change in behavior after punishment emotional immaturity lack of guilt self-centeredness intresting,