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Kinda answers the question why people who have been cheated on are not too easy to commit to a relationship. Aint very trusting.

Another words I'm not a cheater.

Do you consider it cheating when you break up with your bf when your 8 months pregnant and 2 days later he is fukcing his ex gf with which he had a child with from before??? The one that tried to come between you and your bf the entire relationship????

He said.....its not cheating when you are "broken up".......we got back together 4 days later.

I think that killed all love/ trust I had in him....
If you cant trust your partner then there is nothing.

I cheated on my right hand with my left hand. Then my hands got it on one night. I convinced my hands there's enough of me for everybody and we got into 3somes. Now its whoevers in the mood which is usually me and sometimes my right hand. Sometimes my left hand. Sometimes both hands. Sometimes its both hands and one foot macarena style. But its never boring. Imagination and style. That's the key!

Master Bate is my new bf!!! I met him on Just say hi!!!!

...boy we can sure pick some winners can't we?

Its really hard sometimes to even trust your own decisions, when youve picked such idiots in the past.

There is no way I could cheat on gypsy if we were in a dedicated relationship. Not even with any of her multiple personalities such as muriel or ninja or queen barbie. I would feel guilty.

BUT what about ERic???? He may get upset!!!

Yes, but why do we pick the idiots? What is it about our personality that we need to change? Why am I attracted to the idiot? And why do I pick the same guy with a different name?

Mr organized <---thats me; trusts his own decisions because they are well thought out, planned, and tried and true honest to the best of my ability.

This is what Ive been doing for the last 3 years. Alot of soul searching and analyzing myself to death. Ive been codependant in the past and too independant as well. Im striving for interdependance.

Really??? You trust your own decisions even with all of your loser ex gfs????? Were you not organized then??

LOL

Oh Oh Oh.... lemme say this.

Sociopaths are charming guys. They really are. They possess qualities that are very much like an alpha male..... but not until you're hooked do you see it, the pathology. I did it for YEARS.....

Sociopaths are not charming and do not have a conscious, therefore, the term sociopath, and if they are charming at all it is for their own gain. Nothing charming about that.

So seakalony is correct when she says 10% of it is your fault for being there in the first place and picking the idiot to begin with. I agree with others in saying there is risk in everything in life. If you stay home- you can't get hurt. But you will be bored and alone. But safe and drama free. But relegated to less challenges. But sad when you see the happiness of other couples sharing a life. But happy because the bed is all yours and noone eats all your cheese and chocolate and uses up all the toilet paper and leaves you that empty tube.

They sure can ACT charming.