Topic: The Broken Heart's Club
SharonM45458's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:23 PM
I gotta take off for awhile. Hope to chat with ya'll again soon. Zman maybe u could give me a bit of advice on how to get over a cheating significant other later.

Blaze1978's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:24 PM
Even though I have never been in a relationship, I swear my heart breaks every time I dwell on the subject for too long.

SharonM45458's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:24 PM

rofl

Wow Zman, sorry to hear about that. Most people would've gone Rambo.


I never said how I initially reacted.. rofl
lol, well my reaction wasn't so bad, but I got so many people tellin me I screwed up big time. WTF???

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Thu 12/04/08 06:25 PM



yea i know, and about the confidence thing, my confidence has been so shaken its like a blender whirring around, i have been dumped on 2 major holidays, and my birthday, so not much for me to look forward too.tears tears


Trust me I understand where you are comming from. I caught my ex wife in bed with another man on Valentines day. I was overseas and came home 2 days early to surprise her but as luck would have it I was the one surprised... But even still It hurt I thoght it was the end but hey I relized hey I did nothing wrong so why should i be the one suffering.. Yeah 8 yrs later it still tingles my heart but hey you cant give up and it has made me a better person..( SO i figure) bigsmile
that may be the case, but for some reason, i guess i am still either a little skeptical or a little skittish about bringing out my feelings


It takes time to find yourself just focus on your strenghts. They build confidence. In order to talk about your feelings one has to know how to express them. Just relaxe and I saw your other thread. There is some good advice mentioned in there.

zman000081's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:26 PM

I gotta take off for awhile. Hope to chat with ya'll again soon. Zman maybe u could give me a bit of advice on how to get over a cheating significant other later.


ohhh trust me there are ways to deal with CHEATS .. Chapter 2- 5 on my book will explain..rofl

zman000081's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:27 PM
I'll get back with ya just send me an email .shades

whatssuup's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:32 PM
ZMAN I know exactly how you feel, my side of the bed didn't even get cold before she had someone else in there. And women say men are heartless.

zman000081's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:36 PM

ZMAN I know exactly how you feel, my side of the bed didn't even get cold before she had someone else in there. And women say men are heartless.


Both parties can be so called heartless. Its how you use your heart. And when You give someone your heart how they use it. Like I said I wish it was just the ex wife that only hurt me. I can only say what hasnt killed me has made me stronger or is some cases smarter...

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Fri 12/05/08 04:52 AM



Hi Dreamerflowerforyou

Hi:)

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Fri 12/05/08 05:16 AM
Edited by bad_girl on Fri 12/05/08 05:20 AM
{{{sharon}}} Here for support dollflowerforyou :heart:



SharonM45458's photo
Fri 12/05/08 06:46 AM

{{{sharon}}} Here for support dollflowerforyou :heart:



Thanks sweetie. I couldn't tell you from one day to the next what is going on with us, but the communication lines are open. Takes swallowing some pride to get them open, but we both are a work in progress, individually and hopefully perhaps "as one."


:wink: rofl

fairycatcher31's photo
Fri 12/05/08 07:56 AM
It hurts but like they say time heals all wonds! brokenheart

Just keep hopeing! I know I will!:heart:

SharonM45458's photo
Thu 12/11/08 11:23 PM
For anyone who has been cheated on, I found this awesome website:

survivinginfidelity.com

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Fri 12/12/08 04:31 PM
brokenheart Walks in....

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Fri 12/12/08 04:31 PM
Edited by angelindarkness on Fri 12/12/08 04:33 PM
submit button is so sensitive with my computer

burgundybry's photo
Fri 12/12/08 04:33 PM
waving

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Fri 12/12/08 04:34 PM

trust me...you can't really get your heart broke...only bruised or stunned...it'll begin working again as soon as you begin believing in yourself...

AllenAqua, that sounds good; and I only wish I could believe in it.

SharonM45458's photo
Fri 12/12/08 06:42 PM
Hi Angel, ltns flowerforyou

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Fri 12/12/08 06:48 PM
Hi sweetie. :cry:

SharonM45458's photo
Fri 12/12/08 06:50 PM

Hi sweetie. :cry:
Sorry to find you in a thread like this though. tears