Topic: The Broken Heart's Club
romeo1975's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:08 PM
now see, that is the reason that i have such a difficult time, most women do think that the men are the players and the dogs of civilization.... therefore all are placed in one category, the only trait i have with a dog is my loyalty... have been compared to a big ol basset hound

SharonM45458's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:09 PM



AMEN TO THAT, i am Lowell, and i am a true member of the broken heart club
So Romeo, any recent events you feel like venting about?
Well lets see, love stinks, cause no one will give me a chance..... women take one look at me and turn their noses up...
Somewhere out there is someone just for you Romeo. Don't give up!

zman000081's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:09 PM



AMEN TO THAT, i am Lowell, and i am a true member of the broken heart club
So Romeo, any recent events you feel like venting about?
Well lets see, love stinks, cause no one will give me a chance..... women take one look at me and turn their noses up...


There is always hope. First thing is to have a confident attitude. If you project negative more than likely that is what you will recieve. I have always found something when I wasnt looking for it. It dose take time and each day one never knows what the wind shall blow in.

traciann85's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:09 PM
thanks

AllenAqua's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:10 PM
trust me...you can't really get your heart broke...only bruised or stunned...it'll begin working again as soon as you begin believing in yourself...

SharonM45458's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:10 PM

now see, that is the reason that i have such a difficult time, most women do think that the men are the players and the dogs of civilization.... therefore all are placed in one category, the only trait i have with a dog is my loyalty... have been compared to a big ol basset hound
I know plenty of female players too, from personal experience. I didn't say he was a player, I just said they are out there.

SharonM45458's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:10 PM

trust me...you can't really get your heart broke...only bruised or stunned...it'll begin working again as soon as you begin believing in yourself...
Very True Allen, I am in a mending phase right now.

romeo1975's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:11 PM
yea i know, and about the confidence thing, my confidence has been so shaken its like a blender whirring around, i have been dumped on 2 major holidays, and my birthday, so not much for me to look forward too.tears tears

SharonM45458's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:12 PM
Edited by SharonM45458 on Thu 12/04/08 06:12 PM
Demmit!!!!

zman000081's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:12 PM
I have to say that in order to find someone the first step is to find yourself. If you dont know who you are then how can you expect to know what it is you want. bigsmile

zman000081's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:12 PM

thanks


No problem.

romeo1975's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:13 PM
I just hide a lot of my pain through laughter and making other people laugh

SharonM45458's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:15 PM

I just hide a lot of my pain through laughter and making other people laugh
I've done that too. You should practice mindfulness. Living and being in the moment.

no photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:16 PM
Well.........my heart got broke for the millionth time this past summer, and it's been broke most of my life for other reasons, too.........


I have no comfort to offer, and I seek no advice.......


.......I just agree - at least right now - with what Hank Williams wrote, "....for a living death is all that's left for Men With Broken Hearts..."

zman000081's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:16 PM

yea i know, and about the confidence thing, my confidence has been so shaken its like a blender whirring around, i have been dumped on 2 major holidays, and my birthday, so not much for me to look forward too.tears tears


Trust me I understand where you are comming from. I caught my ex wife in bed with another man on Valentines day. I was overseas and came home 2 days early to surprise her but as luck would have it I was the one surprised... But even still It hurt I thoght it was the end but hey I relized hey I did nothing wrong so why should i be the one suffering.. Yeah 8 yrs later it still tingles my heart but hey you cant give up and it has made me a better person..( SO i figure) bigsmile

no photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:17 PM

brokenheart It happens to the best of us, and misery loves company, so come on it, do some venting, some supporting, and hopefully some day you will leave and never have to come back. Best of Luck! brokenheart


Thank you, Sharon. This sounds like an excellent idea right about now....



romeo1975's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:20 PM


yea i know, and about the confidence thing, my confidence has been so shaken its like a blender whirring around, i have been dumped on 2 major holidays, and my birthday, so not much for me to look forward too.tears tears


Trust me I understand where you are comming from. I caught my ex wife in bed with another man on Valentines day. I was overseas and came home 2 days early to surprise her but as luck would have it I was the one surprised... But even still It hurt I thoght it was the end but hey I relized hey I did nothing wrong so why should i be the one suffering.. Yeah 8 yrs later it still tingles my heart but hey you cant give up and it has made me a better person..( SO i figure) bigsmile
that may be the case, but for some reason, i guess i am still either a little skeptical or a little skittish about bringing out my feelings

SharonM45458's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:21 PM


yea i know, and about the confidence thing, my confidence has been so shaken its like a blender whirring around, i have been dumped on 2 major holidays, and my birthday, so not much for me to look forward too.tears tears


Trust me I understand where you are comming from. I caught my ex wife in bed with another man on Valentines day. I was overseas and came home 2 days early to surprise her but as luck would have it I was the one surprised... But even still It hurt I thoght it was the end but hey I relized hey I did nothing wrong so why should i be the one suffering.. Yeah 8 yrs later it still tingles my heart but hey you cant give up and it has made me a better person..( SO i figure) bigsmile

Wow Zman, sorry to hear about that. Most people would've gone Rambo.

SharonM45458's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:21 PM


brokenheart It happens to the best of us, and misery loves company, so come on it, do some venting, some supporting, and hopefully some day you will leave and never have to come back. Best of Luck! brokenheart


Thank you, Sharon. This sounds like an excellent idea right about now....



Oh my pleasure Lex, I need it now as much as anyone else.

zman000081's photo
Thu 12/04/08 06:22 PM
rofl

Wow Zman, sorry to hear about that. Most people would've gone Rambo.


I never said how I initially reacted.. rofl