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I just got out of a 3yr relationship. He basically decided 1 day he didnt want 2 date anymore. Every1 tells me he has some1 else, but I dont think so, just because we still r n contact with eachother, n half of the time, he tells me where hes at n wat hes doin. He has his own house, n I lived with him 2 yrs, n he really had no reason 2 break up, so this is extremely hard on me right now. Specially through the holidays. He wasn't with me, n I lost My mother a year n a half ago. He tells me he doesnt want 2 get bac 2gether right now, or date any1, but that doesnt mean we will never get bac 2gether. IV been havin panic attacks thinkin bout him, but he doesnt care at all. He won't even listen 2 me. So, is he goin through a stage n life where he just wants 2 do watever n not have any1 2 answer 2, or could he really have fallen out of love with me that fast?
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Step away from the dead relationship. Keeping in contact with him and sharing with him only builds him up and gives you false hope. It's hard, but no communication is the best medicine. You need to get through this, and it may SEEM easier for now to keep in contact, but in case you didn't notice, you wrote that he is a cold stone. You are filling his need to feel wanted while he makes sure to communicate you are not, but he's sending, or you are receiving, mixed messages of hope to you for a chance at a future.
SO, NOW THAT YOU ARE HERE............. WELCOME ABOARD AND BEST WISHES FOR SOMEONE BETTER!!!  
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I just got out of a 3yr relationship. He basically decided 1 day he didnt want 2 date anymore. Every1 tells me he has some1 else, but I dont think so, just because we still r n contact with eachother, n half of the time, he tells me where hes at n wat hes doin. He has his own house, n I lived with him 2 yrs, n he really had no reason 2 break up, so this is extremely hard on me right now. Specially through the holidays. He wasn't with me, n I lost My mother a year n a half ago. He tells me he doesnt want 2 get bac 2gether right now, or date any1, but that doesnt mean we will never get bac 2gether. IV been havin panic attacks thinkin bout him, but he doesnt care at all. He won't even listen 2 me. So, is he goin through a stage n life where he just wants 2 do watever n not have any1 2 answer 2, or could he really have fallen out of love with me that fast? |
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Use paragraphs. Use more punctuation. Spell your words. Only use text message shorthand when text messaging people. Don't use it online where you have time and space to use real words.
Then maybe it would be easier to read and understand. If he isn't seeing someone else, the it was probably over for him for a long time and he finally realized it was time to end things and get his own place and give you both the opportunity to move on and find what you both need. The only reason he didn't earlier is that it was more of a habit than a relationship. Just my guess. |
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I just got out of a 3yr relationship. He basically decided 1 day he didnt want 2 date anymore. Every1 tells me he has some1 else, but I dont think so, just because we still r n contact with eachother, n half of the time, he tells me where hes at n wat hes doin. He has his own house, n I lived with him 2 yrs, n he really had no reason 2 break up, so this is extremely hard on me right now. Specially through the holidays. He wasn't with me, n I lost My mother a year n a half ago. He tells me he doesnt want 2 get bac 2gether right now, or date any1, but that doesnt mean we will never get bac 2gether. IV been havin panic attacks thinkin bout him, but he doesnt care at all. He won't even listen 2 me. So, is he goin through a stage n life where he just wants 2 do watever n not have any1 2 answer 2, or could he really have fallen out of love with me that fast? Yes, I think they do. |
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i think so too as well...seems as if thats all people do here is ask questions and post forums
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Take him to a lions game
 I just got out of a 3yr relationship. He basically decided 1 day he didnt want 2 date anymore. Every1 tells me he has some1 else, but I dont think so, just because we still r n contact with eachother, n half of the time, he tells me where hes at n wat hes doin. He has his own house, n I lived with him 2 yrs, n he really had no reason 2 break up, so this is extremely hard on me right now. Specially through the holidays. He wasn't with me, n I lost My mother a year n a half ago. He tells me he doesnt want 2 get bac 2gether right now, or date any1, but that doesnt mean we will never get bac 2gether. IV been havin panic attacks thinkin bout him, but he doesnt care at all. He won't even listen 2 me. So, is he goin through a stage n life where he just wants 2 do watever n not have any1 2 answer 2, or could he really have fallen out of love with me that fast? |
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I just got out of a 3yr relationship. He basically decided 1 day he didnt want 2 date anymore. Every1 tells me he has some1 else, but I dont think so, just because we still r n contact with eachother, n half of the time, he tells me where hes at n wat hes doin. He has his own house, n I lived with him 2 yrs, n he really had no reason 2 break up, so this is extremely hard on me right now. Specially through the holidays. He wasn't with me, n I lost My mother a year n a half ago. He tells me he doesnt want 2 get bac 2gether right now, or date any1, but that doesnt mean we will never get bac 2gether. IV been havin panic attacks thinkin bout him, but he doesnt care at all. He won't even listen 2 me. So, is he goin through a stage n life where he just wants 2 do watever n not have any1 2 answer 2, or could he really have fallen out of love with me that fast? Yes, I think they do. |
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I just got out of a 3yr relationship. He basically decided 1 day he didnt want 2 date anymore. Every1 tells me he has some1 else, but I dont think so, just because we still r n contact with eachother, n half of the time, he tells me where hes at n wat hes doin. He has his own house, n I lived with him 2 yrs, n he really had no reason 2 break up, so this is extremely hard on me right now. Specially through the holidays. He wasn't with me, n I lost My mother a year n a half ago. He tells me he doesnt want 2 get bac 2gether right now, or date any1, but that doesnt mean we will never get bac 2gether. IV been havin panic attacks thinkin bout him, but he doesnt care at all. He won't even listen 2 me. So, is he goin through a stage n life where he just wants 2 do watever n not have any1 2 answer 2, or could he really have fallen out of love with me that fast? People can change. Maybe he really does just want time alone. You need to respect that and give him that time. As for the fallen in and out of love comment. One can fall out of love just as quickly as they fell in love with them. "Use paragraphs. Use more punctuation. Spell your words. Only use text message shorthand when text messaging people. Don't use it online where you have time and space to use real words. Then maybe it would be easier to read and understand". ^^ MoonDark is right.... |
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Take him to a lions game I just got out of a 3yr relationship. He basically decided 1 day he didnt want 2 date anymore. Every1 tells me he has some1 else, but I dont think so, just because we still r n contact with eachother, n half of the time, he tells me where hes at n wat hes doin. He has his own house, n I lived with him 2 yrs, n he really had no reason 2 break up, so this is extremely hard on me right now. Specially through the holidays. He wasn't with me, n I lost My mother a year n a half ago. He tells me he doesnt want 2 get bac 2gether right now, or date any1, but that doesnt mean we will never get bac 2gether. IV been havin panic attacks thinkin bout him, but he doesnt care at all. He won't even listen 2 me. So, is he goin through a stage n life where he just wants 2 do watever n not have any1 2 answer 2, or could he really have fallen out of love with me that fast?
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past is past, now is now, and there's hundreds of people on here that would appreciate a good woman, so look to the future, and get what you really want.
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welcome
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wat shuld I do Try typing in English. Is it REALLY that difficult to put the letters " a " and " d " along with the N in and??? |
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I just got out of a 3yr relationship. He basically decided 1 day he didnt want 2 date anymore. Every1 tells me he has some1 else, but I dont think so, just because we still r n contact with eachother, n half of the time, he tells me where hes at n wat hes doin. He has his own house, n I lived with him 2 yrs, n he really had no reason 2 break up, so this is extremely hard on me right now. Specially through the holidays. He wasn't with me, n I lost My mother a year n a half ago. He tells me he doesnt want 2 get bac 2gether right now, or date any1, but that doesnt mean we will never get bac 2gether. IV been havin panic attacks thinkin bout him, but he doesnt care at all. He won't even listen 2 me. So, is he goin through a stage n life where he just wants 2 do watever n not have any1 2 answer 2, or could he really have fallen out of love with me that fast? This seems to happen alot lately |
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Ok, thanks for the ones that helped, and for the cruel folks, you can keep your comments to yourselves.
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Ok, thanks for the ones that helped, and for the cruel folks, you can keep your comments to yourselves.
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Ok, thanks for the ones that helped, and for the cruel folks, you can keep your comments to yourselves. What's cruel about not wanting to have to take a half an hour to translate a post before we can give a decent answer? |
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Ok, thanks for the ones that helped, and for the cruel folks, you can keep your comments to yourselves. What's cruel about not wanting to have to take a half an hour to translate a post before we can give a decent answer? |
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Hey.... all you need to worry about is yourself. Take care of yourself and be happy. Can't worry about things that you can't control. Welocme and take care!
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