I know, that's just so much easier said than done.Specially wen he was all I had, and he could care less wat he has taken from me.

Find someone new.You will forget all about him.Don't stay friends with ex's it's a bad idea.

dont worry.......be happy

Lot's of these people are right, just find someone new if he dosen't want you, just go get someone for yourself like a new pair of shoe's

Your 20 years old!!! Save your self alot of pain and hassle and say fukc it!!! Get out!!! Dial a date geeeeeeez its easy when youre 20!!!

I wouldnt stay with anyone who didnt love me and didnt treat me like gold.

Go out there......life is waiting!!!

The reality is that relationships end . Earlier for some than others . The best thing is to move past the drama and co something fun , it is hard during the holidays , but it is hard any time of the year . Dont let the timing worry you . Before long you will be glad to be single .
Its fun to look .
Find a project or hobbie that will get you out of the house and be pro active . I will take my own advice and do the same .

Get on with your life. Don't try to hang onto something that's not there.

Its hard, but Im tryin to. What makes it even tougher, is that he done this a few weeks after I started college, which has hurt me there, BAD! I know this is also weird, but about 3 months before we broke up, we went and got new cell phones, ofcourse, in his name, and he won't take mine back. And he still pays for it. This is soo confusing.

Move on. If you can't respect his independence your codependence will rue your life.

Really? He was all you had? And he has taken what from you?

Truly for your own wellbeing, I would suggest that you get in touch with you and build a life worthy of remembering...

Just like the person who has only their work ... if their work goes away, they are lost ...

Build a beautiful, rich, full life all on your own ... then if one piece of it goes away, you still have enough substance left...

Imagine a pie being your life. If this person represents the whole pie and goes away it is pretty devastating. But if that relationship represents one piece, friends another, work another, family another, hobbies another, causes you believe in another ... losing one piece may hurt but won't be so consuming ...

Placing your happiness and wellbeing in the hands of another is unfair. Others will never be able to give us everything we want in the way we want it ... nor is it fair to place the burden on them.

Your happiness is your responsibility.

I know it is not what you want to hear, but trust me, it is what you need to hear.

I wish you well.

Move on. He already has.

Hey,That what friends are for,to tell you the truth,tell you when you are right and wrong. Don't get mad,someone is always on my case about spelling or how I forget to take my caps off. They really are a great group of people.

maybe this seems too direct maybe you are afraid of what you might hear ,but you are still in contact with him,rather than come here and ask a site full of random strangers why dont you ask him,the answes here will vary from intelligent to well ignorant ..and we dont know that much about your past so..ask him but prepare yourself ...after you get the answer that will help you decide on what to do next ..even if it means movin'on ..good luck and take care...

I agree

There's so much more to this story that I really don't want to know. Something happened. I'd sure like to hear his side of the story that we will never hear. What would he say? Clingy neurotic codependent that smothered him and absorbed all his freedoms beyond normalcy and became an overbearing deficit instead of a valuable asset? He couldn't even enjoy his morning constitutional in peace without her interrupting, barging in, and pestering him for gas money for the day?

Hanging on is only going to draw out the inevitable and make it more uncomfortable. I think you should cut out contact other than strictly "friend" stuff and move on. Cold turkey is difficult but you get over it faster and don't wake up a year from now realizing you're in the same position and he's moved on.

Two plus two aint adding up to four here if you get my drift. Anyone ever see the movie 'Better off dead'? The unrelentless paperboy that pesters john cusack through the whole movie? "I WANT MY TWO DOLLARS!!! GIMME MY TWO DOLLARS!!! TWO DOLLARS!!!" Didn't realize the paperboy had an older sister.

Unrelentless pestering exes make great stalkers.

Advice? Seek professional medical help- counceling. And then move on. Good luck!

don't worry about whether or not he is seeing someone else. If he wants to leave, let him go. Go through the pain and you'll come out on the other side okay. I promise.