I wuld say you are too focused on the sex itself, just like a lot of younger americans these days. I grant ya I am still a "young American" myself, but I can honestly tell you, that even though I have been abstinate far longer than yuo have (and this is current), I am going to stay that way for probably another couple years at least even though I have found the lady of my dreams.

This is because sex isnt everything. Yes, it is a wonderful feeling to hold someone in your arms at night and continue on from there; but you know what? It is an even more wonderful feeling to hold someone in your arms at night, and simpy know that you are goiong to wake up with them still in your arms the nnext day and the following day after that for the rest ofyour life.

So kick back and relax. Enjoy life; there is oh so much more to gain out of life than sex.

Oh and trust me, you will KNOW when you have found that right person, as there will be no worries about anything at all except wether or not she (or he) is happy.

The way that sounds is it's all about Sex! Relationships are far from all about Sex you must have the emotional intimacy as well Sex is a part of it all. But anyone can have just sex if that is what they want and nothing else.

Two years hummm without Sex well I can assure you that many more has been without Sex longer then two years at a time. Most the time is is due they have standards and don't want to sleep with what ever is offered. Instead they look for another that has certain standards as well. When the time is right they will find the one they are looking for even though there is no guarantee's in life they will stay together. But till then they will refrain from having sex till it is with someone they desire to be with and want more then just sex.

its more then just sex i miss, i do miss the intimacy part also

Craig's List hookers.

get yourself a blow-up date !

Try " Mutual Match" & Get laid tonight!!

There's the answer!

My only other advice would have been: When in doubt,whip it out

just not here, please.

Jeez havent you ever heard of friends with benefits? They are great until you find what you are looking for.

Hang in there - you will meet someone when the time is right.

Theres a Monestary.....down the road......

For one, don't be so driven merely for sex, jmo.

Well, as the only certified sex therapist on this forum, I was interested in your answers> very clever, and clearly additional evidence about that dumbing down effect in society ie. (excessive hormones and toxic chemicals in the water, too much reality TV, etc.). Some specific responses:Rkisit...forget grad school, try Hamburger U. ; ScotGerman...easily amused,easily distracted,double up the Ritalin; Princessree: your support of James is admirable..but I think u can step off the inversion table now and allow blood to flow to the other body parts; Pat's fan...and I bet u do that at big games too...kinda the foreshortened version of the Tomahawk Chop! Daniel; anybody else notice that abstinent (by choice) men are really nice but cant shut up..it's almost like a side-effect of semen build-up. ; Gypsy..goodpoint..great way to try outa new and more virulent STD or alternately pick up extra community service hours with Boy George for DUI on way home.....; Chevylover...I imagine you keep yours in the back of the truck for those special moments, right next to the tire and rubber cement..just in case. Ghostrider...absolutely brilliant!...monestary..part banking institution, part church! easy tithing! James....come on dude..u know the truth...u get it when u stop trying so hard..and u be tryin' way too hard as evidenced by the cheese smell...also,aside from my momentary sarcasm...u all show unusual support for James..which is kinda cool. katie...i think yours just blew over the top and kept going..ha

Almost 4 years for me.

Shut up and quit whining.

go hoggin of course!

word from the wise, use an alias.

buy some sheep

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