chanster456

So then...do you message girls on Mingle that are far away?

Mindy, Mindy....oh where to start??
...your profile indicates that you would move with no reference to how far and how soon.
...in this forum you are talking about guys who want to visit you, or for you to visit them.
...it would seem that a girl willing to eventually move to live closer to the right someone might be also inclined to travel to meet them first.
...we understand the one week stipulation in your post.
...maybe, instead of saying the guy would have to be "pretty special" you should say that you would have to invest a decent amount of time in getting to know them before moving or traveling to meet is a possibility as "pretty special" is too vague a statement in combination with this post.

p.s. only people who play games lose, but I get why you see it that way.

Bravo!

Oh, you have no idea. I could write 1000 pages on the subject and barely scratch the surface. Being a writer, I don't find it all that difficult to write about stuff. But the things I've seen, the things I've heard, the things I've heard garbled adjectives about -- I don't know.

But, alas, the only one I truly love cannot see me, for I am as if invisible to her....

Ohio

Sounds fun. I couldn't do that unless I stayed each night in a hotel. I went to Florida once with my Dad and Uncle in a RV. We lived a week in that thing. ewwwwww.

I am a indoor girl. I am soft. I need real showers and real bathrooms to do my business in.

Alaska? That sounds kinda fun. I would like to go there. On a plane though.

why thank you *bows*

LexFonteyne

Your profile is interesting but intimidating because of it's length. I am guessing that's what you want. You are a writer so you only want a girl that is willing to read your whole profile. I read it. I would have 20 questions about it if we were each others type.

I think you could use more pictures of you that are clearer pictures . To show the the girls the mystery man behind the words.

edit
I know your profile is not the topic here. I just couldn't help mentioning it because it's so unusual.

Man I hope you really don't let that discourage ya.

They can search a map for days on end for there is only one I am willing to travel that distance.

stormmessages


Does he know? Is he reading? Come on fess up

<~~ would like to note that there is not a single shower or bathroom in the state of Alaska. I checked.

how far and how soon-----would that not depend on the other party involved

would that not also depend on scheduling and money availability and if she is the one willing to relocate should not the other involved be will to see what she is willing to give up



would have to be "pretty special" you should say that you would have to invest a decent amount of time in getting to know them------is it not obvious that it would take a decent amount of time to know if someone is special enough to relocate for


"pretty special" is too vague a statement in combination with this post. ---- maybe you have to be special enough to understand it vague is what one does not know


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what is the purpose of that post (just out of curiosity)

when she sees what she wants is it not up to her to handle it as she wishes

and a far as how soon and how far maybe for mr x she would go 3000 miles after a week

but for mr d she would go 300 miles in a year

relationships are a variable you can not define the way that this post seems to want imo

Thank you, I appreciate the feedback. It's nice to know there is at least one person on here who is willing to speak up and say something to try to be helpful....!

The fact is, I've tried all kinds of different things with my profile. It hasn't made a bit of difference.

The other fact is that type of person I'm looking for just doesn't seem to exist on dating sites. And that isn't going to change, regardless of WHAT I do.

Oh yes he knows..Is he reading this? *shrug* I doubt it, maybe later though.

That's the part that is confusing. It says that she'll move. She doesn't say how far. That opens the doors to many situations.

And she was rude to me because I was pointing that out.

nope motel not happening

but am using motorhome for the excursion with my bike aon a trlr as well

I'm guessing wet-naps are popular items then.

lexfonteyne

Where does she exist and why aren't you there? I am not being silly I mean the question seriously. I am not sure what type you are looking for. You profile has hints I see.

Ohio


I suspected that. Just looking at your profile told me that.
lol

I slept in a tent in the backyard once with my girlfriends (I was 13). The mean lake geese asked us to leave. We did.

yeah, and that is exactly why guys are emailing and asking.
duh.