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Topic: How far would you travel just for a date?
choclablover's photo
Fri 11/21/08 02:13 PM

CCL


Well I Look more like a werewolf, but when covered with mud you wouldn't be able to tell.

bigsmile

You look like your contemplating something.


Good guesspitchfork

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 11/21/08 02:13 PM




what is the purpose of that post (just out of curiosity)

when she sees what she wants is it not up to her to handle it as she wishes

and a far as how soon and how far maybe for mr x she would go 3000 miles after a week

but for mr d she would go 300 miles in a year

relationships are a variable you can not define the way that this post seems to want imo



the purpose is to point out where the confusion lies between her post and her profile.
of course it is up to her to determine what she is comfortable with but the reasoning behind the emails she is talking about in this post is pretty clear to me.
she is getting emails from guys who are far away and want to meet because her profile indicates that she is okay with that sort of thing.
now can you please explain to me the purpose behind you questioning my right to post a completely valid point?

I have found some people are best ignored. Otherwise they will start a fight just to start a fight. Thx for the backup. smile


oh and Mindy, does ignoring my posts include reporting them? I need to know for future reference.


i did not see the post asking why

and after all this is not the rate my profile thread

if you have construcive critics you should email them unless they are asked for such as in the rate my profile threads

to do so in an open thread could be considered baiting and attacking

and no i did not report your post after all there is a mod in the thread







did anyone see this?

I've had some guys offer to travel from across the country (or further) just for a date. I totally don't get this.


I wasn't rating her profile.
even if I was "attacking" her it would be a review and not a rating.
besides, I was nice.
and it's true.
she brings it up in her profile!
guys with the ability to travel are going to ask.



(((DD))) that and a lot of other things... pssst you're being ignored... You'll be baited later...

choclablover's photo
Fri 11/21/08 02:17 PM
Edited by choclablover on Fri 11/21/08 02:18 PM
The planets must be out of alignment againhuh

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Fri 11/21/08 02:18 PM

I have some questions about this but I dont want to badger you. Is this ex involved with another man now or is she single also?


Krimsa -- You've got mail!


adj4u's photo
Fri 11/21/08 02:18 PM





what is the purpose of that post (just out of curiosity)

when she sees what she wants is it not up to her to handle it as she wishes

and a far as how soon and how far maybe for mr x she would go 3000 miles after a week

but for mr d she would go 300 miles in a year

relationships are a variable you can not define the way that this post seems to want imo



the purpose is to point out where the confusion lies between her post and her profile.
of course it is up to her to determine what she is comfortable with but the reasoning behind the emails she is talking about in this post is pretty clear to me.
she is getting emails from guys who are far away and want to meet because her profile indicates that she is okay with that sort of thing.
now can you please explain to me the purpose behind you questioning my right to post a completely valid point?

I have found some people are best ignored. Otherwise they will start a fight just to start a fight. Thx for the backup. smile


oh and Mindy, does ignoring my posts include reporting them? I need to know for future reference.


i did not see the post asking why

and after all this is not the rate my profile thread

if you have construcive critics you should email them unless they are asked for such as in the rate my profile threads

to do so in an open thread could be considered baiting and attacking

and no i did not report your post after all there is a mod in the thread







did anyone see this?

I've had some guys offer to travel from across the country (or further) just for a date. I totally don't get this.


I wasn't rating her profile.
even if I was "attacking" her it would be a review and not a rating.
besides, I was nice.
and it's true.
she brings it up in her profile!
guys with the ability to travel are going to ask.


an email stating that out of the blue i could not get it neither

http://mingle2.com/forum/forum/29 read title

may much good come to you and yours

i am done discussing this all that can come from further discussion is something i will not be a part of it is not worth it

be well




really dislike being last post on page

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 11/21/08 02:18 PM
10 possibly 12 minutes away:wink:

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Fri 11/21/08 02:20 PM
Edited by MindyMindy on Fri 11/21/08 02:21 PM
Never mined.

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Fri 11/21/08 02:20 PM
PatsFan

10 possibly 12 minutes away:wink:

That would not even cover the next town over. lol

adj4u's photo
Fri 11/21/08 02:21 PM

Ohio?

Did you link right? Your link goes to the forums page.


yes it does and what is the title ot=f the forum

review my profile i think not

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Fri 11/21/08 02:22 PM


Ohio?

Did you link right? Your link goes to the forums page.


yes it does and what is the title ot=f the forum

review my profile i think not


I picked up on it late. I get it now. thx

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 11/21/08 02:23 PM

PatsFan

10 possibly 12 minutes away:wink:

That would not even cover the next town over. lol



bigsmile I know , but it's funnylaugh laugh

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Fri 11/21/08 02:23 PM

Does the girl know you wrote two books? Being an author is a little bit of a turn on. It also makes you less of a stranger ...if she reads your books that is. You are no longer just some random guy....you are an author with a reputation to uphold. You sound like you could be exciting. You need to find a friend to somehow drop your name around that girl.

I wish I was there. I would run up to you and ask you to autograph your book for me....I would do it in the check out line right in front of that girl. I would be all over you. She would think....."who is THIS guy."


Ironically, one of my best friends (another ex from many years ago) now owns a business where this same girl applied for a job two years ago (but didn't get hired). My friend claims to know her fairly well but refuses to tell me anything! But then she has never approved of anyone I've ever been interested in (except for herself, back in the late Cretaceous Era).










Winx's photo
Fri 11/21/08 02:23 PM
Edited by Winx on Fri 11/21/08 02:26 PM
Lex said:

Dan99 suggested that maybe some of them are intimidated by the fact that I've written and published two books. That concept baffles me. Anyone who would be intimidated by something that simple, is not someone I would want to be around anyway. It's not like I found a cure for cancer or discovered a new planet. I wrote two books. Some people draw or paint or sculpt or play music or write poetry or take photos. All creative outlets. Is that something to be intimidated by?




I think that it's absolutely awesome that you have published two books.

There was an author in my family. In the later years his works went to calendars and Hallmark cards.

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Fri 11/21/08 02:28 PM
Edited by MindyMindy on Fri 11/21/08 02:29 PM
lexfontane


Ironically, one of my best friends (another ex from many years ago) now owns a business where this same girl applied for a job two years ago (but didn't get hired). My friend claims to know her fairly well but refuses to tell me anything! But then she has never approved of anyone I've ever been interested in (except for herself, back in the late Cretaceous Era).

Maybe your friend wants you for herself.
I am just being silly...don't mind that comment.

Oddly enough....you now come off as kind of shy, in real life anyway. I didn't think that about you.

Only if I were there.......I would have fun getting her to notice you and then be curious about you and then be all jealous of those around you. I am only 3 years out of High School and those type games are what I was good at. It's what we girls did in H.S. We played mind and flirt games to get the right guys to notice us or our friends. devil









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Fri 11/21/08 02:31 PM
Edited by MindyMindy on Fri 11/21/08 02:32 PM
CCL

The planets must be out of alignment againhuh


I am so upset that Pluto is no longer a planet. I did a report about Pluto in 9th grade. it was my favorite planet. Now it's just a big lonely rock floating around in space not getting any invites to all the hip planet parties. sad

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Fri 11/21/08 02:45 PM

Maybe your friend wants you for herself.
I am just being silly...don't mind that comment.


Several people, including her best friend, have told me that same thing.

She's married with two kids. It's not going to happen.


Oddly enough....you now come off as kind of shy, in real life anyway. I didn't think that about you.


It's situational. Normally, I'm more of an arrogant narcissist -- just ask Lilith401. A certain amount of that is just for fun -- plus it tells me a lot about a person if they can see past that. Few can.

But there is a core of shyness when it comes to particular people, particular situations.


Only if I were there.......I would have fun getting her to notice you and then be curious about you and then be all jealous of those around you. I am only 3 years out of High School and those type games are what I was good at. It's what we girls did in H.S. We played mind and flirt games to get the right guys to notice us or our friends. devil


And that is probably the exact thing I need in this situation -- which is unfortunate because there is no one like that around here....!











907daydreamer's photo
Fri 11/21/08 03:02 PM

an email stating that out of the blue i could not get it neither

http://mingle2.com/forum/forum/29 read title

may much good come to you and yours

i am done discussing this all that can come from further discussion is something i will not be a part of it is not worth it

be well


no, not an email out of the blue. she said they had been in contact for a week.

I hardly asked you to discuss it.
As I recall my post was directed at Mindy and you opted to take it up as an argument.

(((DD))) that and a lot of other things... pssst you're being ignored... You'll be baited later...


(((Indn))) alright good. I'll be hungry later!


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Sun 11/23/08 03:11 PM
you said blue waving

beautifulsoul08's photo
Sun 11/23/08 03:23 PM
i went from alabama to nc to see my ex. i wasnt desperate and neither was here. you cant help who your heart falls for. my heart fell for someone far away. could i have gotten someone here? probably could he have gotten someone there? sure but sometimes you do things because its what your heart wants. not because theres logic to it.

jmo

dsvet71's photo
Sun 11/23/08 04:12 PM
I have a hard time with traveling 50 miles, let alone a couple hours....isn't happening.

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