Very gratefully, no. It seems to happen to so many good people, I really count myself fortunate.

I have been cheated on by my ex wife, we ended our relationship hense the ex part. We grew up together and thought we were in love but really only loved certain things about each other. I believe she did this to try and find an easier way out of our relationship, I don't agree with what she had done but she has to bare that cross for the rest of her life.
If you love someone you would never hurt them and would expect the same in return, I guess the real question is, why did it happen?

Not sure it's not better to know and have to recover than to run around not knowing and look like a schmuck to all those people who pity you...
Guess I'm glad I'm in the first catagory, but whaever works for each person.

One thing I learned from the first time, always get tested after (and hell, during) a relationship. Its an honest thing to do for your potential next partners and your own health. So if you don't think you were cheated on, do it anyway - piece of mind.

As far as I'm concerned, there'd be no reconciliation after a partner has cheated

Health first...regardless of what you think has/has not happened!

I concur. No matter what the circumstance is, a condom should be utilized during intercourse. The reason is, you are essentially sleeping with everyone your partner has.

Of course, once you are in a committed relationship I understand the tendency is to let down your guard and discontinue use of condoms but you do so at your own risk. I have in the past actually asked my prospective serious boyfriends to go to the doctor to be checked. This would include men that have tattoos. I, in turn, do the same for them. If a man or woman refuses to do this for you, it speaks volumes about their true feelings and where they prioritize you in their life.