Topic: Childrens pictures on Mingle?
adj4u's photo
Fri 11/14/08 10:36 AM

Personally, I think it's a very bad idea. And because I don't even believe I have to explain why, it is even more perplexing why someone would do it.....unless, of course, they are very naive.

But let's forget for a moment the whole "lurking pedophile" factor. What other reason would a person have to post pictures of their children on a grown-up dating site? It's just....well, I just don't get it.




you could say this about you own personal picture as well

Rapunzel's photo
Fri 11/14/08 10:40 AM


Personally, I think it's a very bad idea. And because I don't even believe I have to explain why, it is even more perplexing why someone would do it.....unless, of course, they are very naive.

But let's forget for a moment the whole "lurking pedophile" factor. What other reason would a person have to post pictures of their children on a grown-up dating site? It's just....well, I just don't get it.




you could say this about you own personal picture as well




flowerforyou ohhh come on now....drinker adjdrinker ....lighten up sweetie flowerforyou

huh where is your picture too :wink: , by the way. :wink: mr.elusive huh




choclablover's photo
Fri 11/14/08 10:42 AM



Sorry I know this is off topic, but why are pet photos disturbing? If you don't like pets or might be worried about sharing attention with them, then just pass that member by.


Thanks for the reply, I apologize for getting heated, talking of pics online got me thinking again of that day, I just wanted to share my experience of what happened to my community, my pictures of my pet had nothing to do with anything.frustrated



are you apologizing to me too?

Yes to all I may have offended, words can always be misconstued, my pic is not first due to the fact if someone wants to check out a profile they can. Obviously many people on this site don't want to be considered as just a pic either. Yes, I am apologizing to you also.


for you included me in that verbal attack






lilith401's photo
Fri 11/14/08 10:43 AM
Keep in mind I said PROFESSIONAL pictures.

As in you hired a professional photographer and went to a studio. Come on.

no photo
Fri 11/14/08 10:45 AM
Edited by littleredhen on Fri 11/14/08 11:01 AM
My hens are the same as your Rapunzel in the tower.

What's up with all the flags & religous stuff? Apparently that's important to you & you want to share your interests. It's the same with my pets.


Rapunzel's photo
Fri 11/14/08 10:58 AM

My hens are the same as your Rapunzal in the tower.

What's up with all the flags & religous stuff? Apparently that's important to you & you want to share your interests. It's the same with my pets.






flowerforyou okay...Sweetheart ...drinker point well taken flowerforyou

Rapunzel's photo
Fri 11/14/08 10:58 AM

Keep in mind I said PROFESSIONAL pictures.

As in you hired a professional photographer and went to a studio. Come on.



laugh laugh laugh

Rapunzel's photo
Fri 11/14/08 10:59 AM




Sorry I know this is off topic, but why are pet photos disturbing? If you don't like pets or might be worried about sharing attention with them, then just pass that member by.




Thanks for the reply, I apologize for getting heated, talking of pics online got me thinking again of that day, I just wanted to share my experience of what happened to my community, my pictures of my pet had nothing to do with anything.frustrated


:heart: :heart: :heart: i forgive you...flowerforyou ....thank you Dear :heart: :heart: :heart:





are you apologizing to me too?

Yes to all I may have offended, words can always be misconstued, my pic is not first due to the fact if someone wants to check out a profile they can. Obviously many people on this site don't want to be considered as just a pic either. Yes, I am apologizing to you also.


for you included me in that verbal attack







no photo
Fri 11/14/08 11:00 AM
flowerforyou My hair is waist length. I love the story of Rapunzel & The Little Red Hen too.

choclablover's photo
Fri 11/14/08 11:00 AM
Last response about this subjectfrom me, the discussion never had pics mentioned before yours, and had no place to be included in the subject being discussed, are you a new mingle moderator?

lilith401's photo
Fri 11/14/08 11:06 AM

Last response about this subjectfrom me, the discussion never had pics mentioned before yours, and had no place to be included in the subject being discussed, are you a new mingle moderator?


Who are you talking to? If you want to address yourself to a certain person, either quote them and type below it or use their screen name...slaphead

Rapunzel's photo
Fri 11/14/08 11:06 AM
Edited by Rapunzel on Fri 11/14/08 11:07 AM

flowerforyou My hair is waist length. I love the story of Rapunzel & The Little Red Hen too.






i meant nothing personal to you Sweetie... flowerforyou


i hardly even know you !!! :cry: :cry: :cry:


but i could see how you could be offended.....tears


i am so sorry sad sad sad sad sad


and i love the story of the little red hen...:heart: :heart: :heart:


who took such good care of her chicks flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou


and Henny Penny the sky is fallingflowerforyou



love and hugs :heart: :heart: :heart:



Vanessa flowerforyou





Rapunzel in the tower :wink:




flowerforyou peace and love flowerforyou




drinker :heart: drinker our sweet little Red Hen drinker :heart: drinker









choclablover's photo
Fri 11/14/08 11:14 AM


Last response about this subjectfrom me, the discussion never had pics mentioned before yours, and had no place to be included in the subject being discussed, are you a new mingle moderator?


Who are you talking to? If you want to address yourself to a certain person, either quote them and type below it or use their screen name...slaphead


Must be you the self proclaimed Queen of mingle,
sorry you couldn't follow the thread.

no photo
Fri 11/14/08 11:25 AM
People are proud of their kids. They want others to know how important their kids are to them. Maybe they want potential dating partners to see what they are getting into when they date a person with kids.

Seeing a picture of a dad or mom with their kids, all smiling and happy, shows a happy family and some people look for that.

What's wrong with showing people pictures of those you love and are proud of? If you decide to get involved with a person you may be getting involved with that persons whole life, not just a pretty photo of them standing next to a dirty lake.

Let people put photos of what makes them happy. If their photos don't make you happy then find someone else.

lilith401's photo
Fri 11/14/08 11:28 AM



Last response about this subjectfrom me, the discussion never had pics mentioned before yours, and had no place to be included in the subject being discussed, are you a new mingle moderator?


Who are you talking to? If you want to address yourself to a certain person, either quote them and type below it or use their screen name...slaphead


Must be you the self proclaimed Queen of mingle,
sorry you couldn't follow the thread.

I asked you to make yourself clear. You weren't, and still aren't.


I'm not quite sure what your problem with me is, but I am, same as you, allowed to post what I wish within site rules. I am allowed to differ in my opinion, and state whatever it is. If I don't agree with you, so the heck what?

I don't know why you are so insulting or defensive or fearful.... and I don't care. Grow up. And if you don't know who the moderators are, go find out. Ignorance is not a defense.

choclablover's photo
Fri 11/14/08 11:38 AM
Edited by choclablover on Fri 11/14/08 11:41 AM




Last response about this subjectfrom me, the discussion never had pics mentioned before yours, and had no place to be included in the subject being discussed, are you a new mingle moderator?


Who are you talking to? If you want to address yourself to a certain person, either quote them and type below it or use their screen name...slaphead


Must be you the self proclaimed Queen of mingle,
sorry you couldn't follow the thread.

I asked you to make yourself clear. You weren't, and still aren't.


I'm not quite sure what your problem with me is, but I am, same as you, allowed to post what I wish within site rules. I am allowed to differ in my opinion, and state whatever it is. If I don't agree with you, so the heck what?

I don't know why you are so insulting or defensive or fearful.... and I don't care. Grow up. And if you don't know who the moderators are, go find out. Ignorance is not a defense.


I guess you are the only sarcastic person allowed on this site, I was clear, and repied off your quote, but I will try to avoid your posts if possible, as you are so grown up, and courteous, come on.....You still think your professional pic comment was necessary to this thread, and as you said I am allowed to post my thoughts also, but with you I would just be wasting my time, as it seems you are better than eveyone else.

lilith401's photo
Fri 11/14/08 11:40 AM
:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

Wow....

TGIF.

lilith401's photo
Fri 11/14/08 11:44 AM
I'd reply more specifically but I'd get into trouble... but I totally and completely understand.laugh

breathless1's photo
Fri 11/14/08 11:46 AM

:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

Wow....

TGIF.


WOW is right! Someone needs a beer! Here, Lablover ... drinker laugh

I never have, and never will, post descernible pictures of my three children for public consumption on the internet.

This has nothing to do with lack of pride, but rather being prudent, private and PROTECTIVE! :wink:

breathless1's photo
Fri 11/14/08 11:53 AM
Edited by breathless1 on Fri 11/14/08 11:54 AM
PS: Let it be known I have been hired as a professional photographer on occassion...although, none of the pics I have taken of others will ever be posted on an internet dating site - ever!

Guess I should thank my lucky stars I didn't post a pic of me and my best buddy, Captain (my dog), on here, though, huh? ohwell

He really IS photogenic and much more handsome than me. It might help my odds here. laugh