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Topic: *sigh* Major conundrum here....
longhairbiker's photo
Tue 11/11/08 09:42 AM
Edited by longhairbiker on Tue 11/11/08 09:44 AM
I'm glad I don't have revolving door love syndrome. I'd be in trouble. Everytime I see someone new- I fall in love and get all mushy wierd.

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 11/11/08 09:47 AM
<----Sees hasidicenforcers eyes and goes ga ga. Knees go weak. I love you.

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 11/11/08 09:48 AM
*sigh*

HasidicEnforcer's photo
Tue 11/11/08 09:49 AM
LOL, These eyes are on E at the moment.

Get back to me when we get a divorce.

missy51970's photo
Tue 11/11/08 09:53 AM

Never cammed with E, but I am flying out there to meet him when I can.

Never cammed with Mindsi and we are good friends, never cammed with HMontana or MirrorMirror or Rapunzel or any of the other countless friends I have met and made here, but I would still go and help them if they needed me.


In fact, never cammed with my ex boyfriend and we met on Match.com and lasted for 8 months before it was over because I couldn't handle the stress of having to keep him a secret from my ex or have the ex continuously yell at me for moving on before he did. (Oh and assuming that Tshian and I would sleep together in front of my daughter. That was a funny one he came up with. Especially seeing as my daughter has her own room in both my house and Tshian's.)


Never cammed with my ex-husband and we lasted 4 years. In fact, I only knew him a week before moving in and 2 months before we married. 3 months after that we conceived our princess and 2 3/4 years later we divorced due to some seriously phucked up addictions he had that developed after parenthood stresses.


HMontana mentioned she met you

HasidicEnforcer's photo
Tue 11/11/08 09:58 AM
she was a blast! she is a good person and very funny!

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 11/11/08 10:02 AM
Sees missy51970s smiling face. Knees go weak. *sigh*. I love you.

myssfytz's photo
Tue 11/11/08 10:14 AM
Why would you even consider meeting someone else or talking to him as much as you do if you and Ace are trying to possibly build something together ???

He is truly the most wonderful man I have ever gotten the opportunity to get to know. Why talk to someone else if you TRULY want to pursue something with him ?


He deserves only the best for him and his sons.

missy51970's photo
Tue 11/11/08 10:20 AM

Sees missy51970s smiling face. Knees go weak. *sigh*. I love you.



Aww you sweet talker you !!!!

missy51970's photo
Tue 11/11/08 10:21 AM

she was a blast! she is a good person and very funny!


Yep she sure is... went out with her and beachfarmer Friday night had a blast!!

HasidicEnforcer's photo
Tue 11/11/08 10:26 AM

Why would you even consider meeting someone else or talking to him as much as you do if you and Ace are trying to possibly build something together ???

He is truly the most wonderful man I have ever gotten the opportunity to get to know. Why talk to someone else if you TRULY want to pursue something with him ?


He deserves only the best for him and his sons.


Because me and Ace split ways. But after a long talk we are going to give it one more try.

And he knows that if we work, I would love his sons just as much as I love my daughter.

He knows how much his sons mean to me, because I told him that if we work, I will move to him so he doesn't have to be separated from them.

I had been planning this meet with DC for a while now. Since August to be exact. Life just gets in the way.

And I am waiting.

I have already told Ace that if we work, I would only have eyes and my heart for him.

But I know he talks to other women.

After all, we are not committed yet.

I am not going to deny him the chance to find someone better than me.

You never know.

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 11/11/08 10:32 AM
Sees myssfytz smiling face. Gets all ga ga. Knees get weak. Gets all starry eyed. I love you.

pyrochik's photo
Tue 11/11/08 10:56 PM
Edited by pyrochik on Tue 11/11/08 11:44 PM

I'm curious, with all the online security, how does someone pay your phone bill?
with a lot of companies, you can pay the bill by number, without being able to access anything else on that account. I do it for my daughter sometimes, give her a "happy" for the month....that's with Alltel, btw.

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 11/11/08 11:14 PM
Sees pyrochic. Knees go weak. Gets starry eyed. Goes all ga ga. I love you.

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Wed 11/12/08 12:18 AM
Edited by keepthehope on Wed 11/12/08 12:19 AM

Good point. That is why my best friend, whom I trust with not just my life but my daugter's, already has ALL that info and then some.

We already tried to get him into my territory, but the surgery is canceling that out for now.

Also, do y'all realise that I am having to take that same chance with E? That when I fly out there to meet him for the first time, I am putting myself in the same risk? He might be all sweet here, but who knows what he is like in the non-Mingle world?

Same goes for me. Only those whom have met me can vouch for the fact that who I am here is the same off line.

Life is full of risks and chances you have to take.

I have spoken with DC since before my daughter left for Israel. I have spoken with E since I first joined Mingle. problem? neither of them have actually met me yet. I could be some fat guy with no money that is stealing some poor chick's pictures and posting them as my own.

Online life is like that. I am sure that many of you are not blue Mingle boxes or Cartoon characters...



The thing about getting him into your territory is that you aren't where you would be taking as much of a chance that he has something set up for you. Women are not physically as strong, and it's just common sense to watch your back.

catwoman96's photo
Wed 11/12/08 12:33 AM
personally I would find it a major turn off when a guy ever tried to pay for my personal things. makes me think hes trying to buy me or something like that. cant buy my time, so i would be offended knowing he tried. and certainly would not let some guy I hadnt met have a passcode to anything. how you know hes not a stalker of some sorts??

catwoman96's photo
Wed 11/12/08 12:43 AM
also if hes setting up trips and canceling them...perhaps i would also be worried if maybe his wife was interfering in his plans. you really never know. Did you meet him online?

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