She want's to know if he is toying with her. Is SHE toying with him????????

Yes, sounds like it.. a lot of things hit too close to home, I'm outta this thread. lol

I am not trying to toy with him. I have even offered to set aside a small amount of cash and fly him out here myself. He keeps refusing, saying that I should keep my money for my daughter, that he can afford to fly me out there.

I am a ***** about sh!t like that and we came to an agreement that I pay for him to come to KS and he can pay for me to come to DC.

He has expressed no fear when I told him that if I pursue this, he would be thrown into a 'ready-made' family. He is actually hoping to have even more kids with me, should we be inseparable.

He has been there for me through the bullcocky that my ex-husband has put me through with my daughter.

He was there for me when I found out something bad had happened to me and then went through surgery to fix it.

He knows he is not the only man I am talking to.

That he is a candidate for my heart and I have not made a permanent decision yet.

I NEVER asked him to spend money on me. He did so willingly and without me knowing.

He had just casually emailed me that he missed talking to me and he didn't know my phone had been shut off earlier that day. (neither had I though. I was in school when it happened.)

Then I *****ed about it and told him what happened and we chuckled over my stupidity and I thought that was the end of it.

I NEVER, EVER asked him to do this.

It's just that this puts a stressor on me, cause I specifically told him not to, but he did it anyway. I feel like I owe him, even though he has not mentioned paying him back, he just merely did it as a good thing to do for someone.

*sigh* why can't life and love be more simpler?

Exactly what I said ... I think she is doing the toying... JMO

I stand by my original statement: He can't pay your phone bill online without your account information.

You are right. You have to have to be able to sign into an account to do so.

I have to agree... with all these ladies.... it sounds a lil fishy to me... ALL of it... JMHO

Okay, I'm just gonna come right out and ask. Did you give him your account information or not?

Also too, if I asked a guy to specifically not do something, and he went behind my back and did it anyway, he'd be gone. Shows he doesn't respect me.

my account number is my phone number. Cricket is funny that way.

But you have to have a password to access the account. Otherwise, anyone could go in and manipulate your account.

On the website under FAQ's

How do I authorize someone else to access my account?

Please call Customer Service at 1-800-***-**** or *** from your Cricket® phone. A Customer Service Representative will assist you in adding an Authorized User to your account.

I have a friend staying with me from Denver, she has Cricket.. she said you have to enter your acct number which is your phone number THEN your 4 digit PIN..

Makes me nervous, I say he comes to you; the frst time.

Keep watch for more red flags.

Just an old man's opinion.

Sage ain't no fool babydoll! Something is amiss.

My opinion...(THis applies strictly to me)

Step away from the prosecutor..........

If things develop and then goes south...those within the legal system can do far more damage than the average abusive ex.

Dated a woman for a short period until I figured out that she controls all legal (law enforcement) paperwork for my county.....When you realize that a lover can delete or create legally credible paperwork without your consent or knowledge....it is time to tread lightly.

oHHHHHHHHHH to be young again and to change your bfs like you change your underwear!!!

didn't know I had a bf. unless you are referring to best friend.

No Im referring to your little play toys!!!

I wish I could play with them all

there is a reason why I like them so far away.

Keeps me from being too naughty.

also makes it hard to fall in love.

But I do.

Still am for one.

Not to mention if he works in financial crimes, he wouldn't be working on the G Bay cases. DOJ is pretty compartmentalized.