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Topic: dating outside your race... R people afraid?
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Tue 12/30/08 12:54 AM
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I do:cry: n't think dating has anything to do with preference. People tend to do and date what is familiar to them. The problem is if you don't experiment outside the box/race/even ice cream flavors you'll never know if you "prefer" anything else.


Dating has EVERYTHING to do with preference. I date what I find attractive. If I am not attracted to a green man, then I can't make myself be attracted.If the man has a beard, that is a HUGE turnoff and it's my preference that the man I date not have one. That is what makes everyone so different and great.



I have to concur

Dating is like eating.... eat what you like



Eating is part of dating....now chow down!

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Wed 12/31/08 06:32 PM

hello im a single african american woman who is wanting to try something different. Im tired of waiting around for the brothas who are not waiting for us. so tell me why are the white men afraid of dating blk woman? looking in illinois!!!


drool I'm not afraid of dating blk woman, In fact its my preference. Just don't know any sisters who share my intrests.

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They say "the darker the berry the sweeter the juice", I've always said "everything tastes better on a cracker"biggrin

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Wed 12/31/08 06:49 PM


People need to understand, that there is no such a thing as "white" or "black". It's a political labeling system made up back in the day and I don't agree to group people around based on their color. It's the same stuff with the "white vote" or "black vote"...wtf... what about the yellow vote? halfbrown/halfwhite vote? By the way, for the black people out there, if someone claims to be white, just let him know that he is even more mixed than anyone else.

don't beleive me? see this:

http://carnby.altervista.org/troe/troephotos.htm

rant I have 8 nationality in my blood (russian,germany,swedish,french,irish,dutch,blackfoot,and cherokee) do the mutts get a vote......what am I saying, I live in cook county, if I register to vote someone will vote for me...and vote up to 3 times.


WOW!!!


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Thu 01/01/09 12:06 PM



I've always said "everything tastes better on a cracker"biggrin
lol...I have to agree with you on that....

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Fri 01/02/09 04:05 PM
im white and i was married to a black woman for 17 years. its not about race its about culture. obviously if i married a black woman and my three children are part black i can say im not racist. But i know that at times the cultural differences where hard at times. like i aint got no soul but my x-wife could tear up the rug, on the other hand at times when we went out she was a little too loud for me. family members too had issues with race that made it difficult, not to say there where racists on either side just saying the cultural differences made it difficult. so if u would like to attract a white guy i would say to either look for one who has some soul or maybe not syaing u need to tone down but that may be part of it? good luck!

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Fri 01/02/09 05:36 PM

im white and i was married to a black woman for 17 years. its not about race its about culture. obviously if i married a black woman and my three children are part black i can say im not racist. But i know that at times the cultural differences where hard at times. like i aint got no soul but my x-wife could tear up the rug, on the other hand at times when we went out she was a little too loud for me. family members too had issues with race that made it difficult, not to say there where racists on either side just saying the cultural differences made it difficult. so if u would like to attract a white guy i would say to either look for one who has some soul or maybe not syaing u need to tone down but that may be part of it? good luck!
smokin Be loud and proud mama.:laughing:


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Sun 01/18/09 04:47 PM
I'm a brother that's tired of chasing sisters while they play games so I'm open to interracial dating...It's all good

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Thu 01/22/09 09:53 PM
My ex husband was a Ferengi, but outcasted from the family when a deal with his cousin Zek from Kentucky 'soured', there are good Earthling mates available, just keep an open mind when ordering from the menu of life...laugh :tongue: drinker

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Thu 01/22/09 09:56 PM
Not afraid of the inter-racial dating at all. In fact, I'm the product of an inter-racial family (Caucasian daddy+South Korean mommy= dolt typing this forum post out), so there's anything I wouldn't be afraid of, it'd be inter-racial dating.

prisoner's photo
Fri 01/23/09 05:18 AM
:smile: i'm not affraid of dating out of my race..we all belong to one race...the human race...and as soon as people start to realize this...we may be getting somewhere...be seeing you

4latins's photo
Thu 01/29/09 06:00 AM
Hi,..I admire the fact that you are willing to date outside our race..A LOT of African American women young and old seem to have a stigma about venturing out of the race for many reasons..I have NEVER seen race as an issue in to whom I was attracted,when my endorphin level started to jump,it jumped to all different kinds of women from as farback as I can remember!Keep your head up in your dating search and just remember stay a good person AND in shape!Be the best you can offer,peace out!...

rickfw's photo
Thu 01/29/09 10:12 PM
it doesnt matter what race you are as long as you both have the same likes if you click you click if your family doesnt support you then your family isnt worth keeping in touch with

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Thu 01/29/09 10:15 PM

hello im a single african american woman who is wanting to try something different. Im tired of waiting around for the brothas who are not waiting for us. so tell me why are the white men afraid of dating blk woman? looking in illinois!!!


From what I have heard they are not afraid so go for it and see what happens.

We are all the same under the skin anyway so no big deal.

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Mon 02/02/09 04:22 PM
Hi I dated a black lady for about a yr and fell in love with her, wish I would of stayed with here kick myself in the butt everyday for not staying with her...

Petros's photo
Wed 02/04/09 10:33 AM
Individual choice as always. As a European, race or colour was never an issue fo me until I started working in NY for a while. I was made conscious by my then environment what racism and separatism meant. I can't really say that I ever was aware that there is a difference between colours, but there is a difference in personalities.

stonekeeper's photo
Wed 02/04/09 11:39 AM
no fear here.

Nick1970's photo
Wed 02/04/09 10:12 PM
I've got no problem dating outside my race.:)

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