Topic: dating outside your race... R people afraid?
Atlantis75's photo
Fri 12/05/08 09:18 PM
People need to understand, that there is no such a thing as "white" or "black". It's a political labeling system made up back in the day and I don't agree to group people around based on their color. It's the same stuff with the "white vote" or "black vote"...wtf... what about the yellow vote? halfbrown/halfwhite vote? By the way, for the black people out there, if someone claims to be white, just let him know that he is even more mixed than anyone else.

don't beleive me? see this:

http://carnby.altervista.org/troe/troephotos.htm

no photo
Sat 12/06/08 07:29 AM
did you know Renee Zellweger is "Sami" - i dont know what the hell that is but iam trying to find one !!!!!!!!!

no photo
Sat 12/06/08 07:31 AM
hey atlantis,

when you apply for a job and it says we are a affirmative
action employer, you will find out what race is.

and you my friend, are not part of the affirmative action. LOL

hellkitten54's photo
Sun 12/07/08 06:32 AM
I prefer to date white men. I'm not scared to date outside my race, just not attracted to most men outside my race. Just my preference.

KoolAidWoman's photo
Sun 12/07/08 03:55 PM
There is nothing to fear!but Fear its self!
Now having said that my no#,Is &%&/$%$/%@%@,
Im jus playing no one is going to call anyway,
Kool,,,drinker

Atlantis75's photo
Sun 12/07/08 04:01 PM
most people just fear the unknown, that's all. Different conditions growing up , different cultures, different conditioning, different point of view on things, but at the end, you and me , he and she is the same human being, wants to be happy and successful. That's the end of it, everything else is irrelevant.

KoolAidWoman's photo
Sun 12/07/08 04:29 PM

most people just fear the unknown, that's all. Different conditions growing up , different cultures, different conditioning, different point of view on things, but at the end, you and me , he and she is the same human being, wants to be happy and successful. That's the end of it, everything else is irrelevant.
smooched waving Koolaid,

special_guy's photo
Sun 12/07/08 04:39 PM
I'm not scared

KoolAidWoman's photo
Sun 12/07/08 04:53 PM

I'm not scared
Me neither so who out here?, for the two of us anyway?. Koolaid

hellkitten54's photo
Sun 12/07/08 05:35 PM
Anyhow, people do have preferences about what they are attracted to. Ya know, some like redheaded women, some like asians, some like tattooed freaks like me. But to say someone is scared is a little weird to me, since everyone is different and likes different things.

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 12/08/08 04:14 AM
Human=race; French/Italian/African/Mexican/etc=ethnicity

That being said I date anyone female and between the ages of 21 (preferably) and not dead.

Cloe27's photo
Mon 12/08/08 07:22 AM
I don't think dating has anything to do with preference. People tend to do and date what is familiar to them. The problem is if you don't experiment outside the box/race/even ice cream flavors you'll never know if you "prefer" anything else.

KoolAidWoman's photo
Mon 12/08/08 11:17 AM

I don't think dating has anything to do with preference. People tend to do and date what is familiar to them. The problem is if you don't experiment outside the box/race/even ice cream flavors you'll never know if you "prefer" anything else.
your kool points are so right what were most of them them married to i dont't wonder women
Some of these folks are stuck in a broken record thing!Koolaidwoman im moving on if you will girl!
What you said made good sence to me!Koolwaving :angel:

KAY KAY 's photo
Mon 12/08/08 11:41 AM

People need to understand, that there is no such a thing as "white" or "black". It's a political labeling system made up back in the day and I don't agree to group people around based on their color. It's the same stuff with the "white vote" or "black vote"...wtf... what about the yellow vote? halfbrown/halfwhite vote? By the way, for the black people out there, if someone claims to be white, just let him know that he is even more mixed than anyone else.

don't beleive me? see this:

http://carnby.altervista.org/troe/troephotos.htm



WOW!!!

hellkitten54's photo
Mon 12/08/08 05:15 PM

I don't think dating has anything to do with preference. People tend to do and date what is familiar to them. The problem is if you don't experiment outside the box/race/even ice cream flavors you'll never know if you "prefer" anything else.


Dating has EVERYTHING to do with preference. I date what I find attractive. If I am not attracted to a green man, then I can't make myself be attracted.If the man has a beard, that is a HUGE turnoff and it's my preference that the man I date not have one. That is what makes everyone so different and great.

hellkitten54's photo
Mon 12/08/08 05:17 PM
Edited by hellkitten54 on Mon 12/08/08 05:19 PM
Biting tounge/

special_guy's photo
Mon 12/08/08 05:34 PM


I don't think dating has anything to do with preference. People tend to do and date what is familiar to them. The problem is if you don't experiment outside the box/race/even ice cream flavors you'll never know if you "prefer" anything else.


Dating has EVERYTHING to do with preference. I date what I find attractive. If I am not attracted to a green man, then I can't make myself be attracted.If the man has a beard, that is a HUGE turnoff and it's my preference that the man I date not have one. That is what makes everyone so different and great.



I have to concur

Dating is like eating.... eat what you like



Cloe27's photo
Mon 12/08/08 06:39 PM
Edited by Cloe27 on Mon 12/08/08 06:48 PM



I don't think dating has anything to do with preference. People tend to do and date what is familiar to them. The problem is if you don't experiment outside the box/race/even ice cream flavors you'll never know if you "prefer" anything else.


Dating has EVERYTHING to do with preference. I date what I find attractive. If I am not attracted to a green man, then I can't make myself be attracted.If the man has a beard, that is a HUGE turnoff and it's my preference that the man I date not have one. That is what makes everyone so different and great.



I have to concur

Dating is like eating.... eat what you like


I suppose that means that you only eat pizza because even though lasagna smells awesome and looks really good, pizza is what you PREFER. It would be a shame to let word games keep you from trying new things or passing up some really good italian (food or men/women).




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Mon 12/08/08 07:55 PM




I don't think dating has anything to do with preference. People tend to do and date what is familiar to them. The problem is if you don't experiment outside the box/race/even ice cream flavors you'll never know if you "prefer" anything else.


Dating has EVERYTHING to do with preference. I date what I find attractive. If I am not attracted to a green man, then I can't make myself be attracted.If the man has a beard, that is a HUGE turnoff and it's my preference that the man I date not have one. That is what makes everyone so different and great.



I have to concur

Dating is like eating.... eat what you like


I suppose that means that you only eat pizza because even though lasagna smells awesome and looks really good, pizza is what you PREFER. It would be a shame to let word games keep you from trying new things or passing up some really good italian (food or men/women).




I think thats her point lasagna doesnt smell awesome to HER lol......Im very particular about the men I date, there are specific things I want physically but at the same time once in a blue moon someone outside of the box catches my attention but thats very rare for the most part....From my personal experience Ive been out on many of dates with some pretty awesome guy but Im not attracted to them, for some of us we need the attraction piece...long story short I think thats what shes trying to say...she not attracted for the most part to people outside of her race..I have no problem with that at all...for those that do or that have thoughts about trying it,I would say go for it!

OpenArms36's photo
Tue 12/30/08 12:51 AM



I don't think dating has anything to do with preference. People tend to do and date what is familiar to them. The problem is if you don't experiment outside the box/race/even ice cream flavors you'll never know if you "prefer" anything else.


Dating has EVERYTHING to do with preference. I date what I find attractive. If I am not attracted to a green man, then I can't make myself be attracted.If the man has a beard, that is a HUGE turnoff and it's my preference that the man I date not have one. That is what makes everyone so different and great.



I have to concur

Dating is like eating.... eat what you like