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| Topic: Does anybody else think this is creepy? | |
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borderline personality disorder
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If you volunteer together I would have a quick conference with your personel director and show them the number of contacts so he is aware but ask him to let it ride. Then leave her completely alone. That way if it spirals out of control at least you have documented it. She was probably just hot to tell you something she heard at work and will catch on that you blew her off. I think it beats telling her off but you might still have some attitude to deal with. Be way polite about it and it will blow over. I guess the person that I would talk to would be the president of the volunteer fire dept, but that would be an awkward conversation, cause he's her father...lol |
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You should feel that you are wanted and feel lucky you have a friend that cares about you. It's all good.
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just a little, lol. idk, maybe she has problems with boundaries?
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Edited by
christinme546
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Thu 11/06/08 11:56 PM
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ya dont get her father involved but just tell her politely that you like your sleep and dont bother you until after you've slept please if she dont getthe hint then you better find away to avoid her in everyway because thats a sure sign of problem headed your way Ive seen the type Good luck!
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Whatever you do be very very gentle . Does she own weaponry ? Does she blink ? Will she like being ignored ? Hmmm . I should have such trouble .
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Yes, it's creepy. If it was me, I'd just tell her to be mindful of my schedule, ease up on the texts, and don't come to my house unless it's an emergency. If you don't set up boundaries right away, she'll walk all over you. If you don't want any outside contact at all, just be polite and tell her you'd prefer to just keep it as a business relationship. Of course then she'll be a beotch. lol
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If this is a Big Shot's daughter I would be very very careful handleing this situation because it could be career suicide. I still advise having someone, even if it is a private labor relations lawyer, document this. You are a sitting duck if this thing gets out of hand. I would stop talking about this on line and to her before it blows up in your face.
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ya dont get her father involved but just tell her politely that you like your sleep and dont bother you until after you've slept please if she dont getthe hint then you better find away to avoid her in everyway because thats a sure sign of problem headed your way Ive seen the type Good luck! I wasnt really going to talk to her father.... -.- |
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Yeah that is unusual behavior. If a man did that to me, I would be upset and worried. Did she have any kind of explanation? One left voice mail would have sufficed.
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ya dont get her father involved but just tell her politely that you like your sleep and dont bother you until after you've slept please if she dont getthe hint then you better find away to avoid her in everyway because thats a sure sign of problem headed your way Ive seen the type Good luck! I wasnt really going to talk to her father.... -.- I'd just talk to her. Tell her you're not comfortable with the "stalker approach." If she's not cool with that and insists on being weird about it, then I might talk to her dad, if he's in charge. Handle it like you would any other harrassment issue. |
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ya dont get her father involved but just tell her politely that you like your sleep and dont bother you until after you've slept please if she dont getthe hint then you better find away to avoid her in everyway because thats a sure sign of problem headed your way Ive seen the type Good luck! I wasnt really going to talk to her father.... -.- I'd just talk to her. Tell her you're not comfortable with the "stalker approach." If she's not cool with that and insists on being weird about it, then I might talk to her dad, if he's in charge. Handle it like you would any other harrassment issue. Yeah, I guess I'll just talk to her about it, I hope she listens and backs off, so as to avoid all other forms of awkward-ness |
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ya dont get her father involved but just tell her politely that you like your sleep and dont bother you until after you've slept please if she dont getthe hint then you better find away to avoid her in everyway because thats a sure sign of problem headed your way Ive seen the type Good luck! I wasnt really going to talk to her father.... -.- I'd just talk to her. Tell her you're not comfortable with the "stalker approach." If she's not cool with that and insists on being weird about it, then I might talk to her dad, if he's in charge. Handle it like you would any other harrassment issue. Yeah, I guess I'll just talk to her about it, I hope she listens and backs off, so as to avoid all other forms of awkward-ness Is she really young? If so, she might not know what's considered acceptable behavior for opposite sex friendships. |
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ya dont get her father involved but just tell her politely that you like your sleep and dont bother you until after you've slept please if she dont getthe hint then you better find away to avoid her in everyway because thats a sure sign of problem headed your way Ive seen the type Good luck! I wasnt really going to talk to her father.... -.- I'd just talk to her. Tell her you're not comfortable with the "stalker approach." If she's not cool with that and insists on being weird about it, then I might talk to her dad, if he's in charge. Handle it like you would any other harrassment issue. Yeah, I guess I'll just talk to her about it, I hope she listens and backs off, so as to avoid all other forms of awkward-ness Is she really young? If so, she might not know what's considered acceptable behavior for opposite sex friendships. well she is 18, thats not really young, at least to me, cause I'm only just old enough to drink...lol |
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ya dont get her father involved but just tell her politely that you like your sleep and dont bother you until after you've slept please if she dont getthe hint then you better find away to avoid her in everyway because thats a sure sign of problem headed your way Ive seen the type Good luck! I wasnt really going to talk to her father.... -.- I'd just talk to her. Tell her you're not comfortable with the "stalker approach." If she's not cool with that and insists on being weird about it, then I might talk to her dad, if he's in charge. Handle it like you would any other harrassment issue. Yeah, I guess I'll just talk to her about it, I hope she listens and backs off, so as to avoid all other forms of awkward-ness Is she really young? If so, she might not know what's considered acceptable behavior for opposite sex friendships. well she is 18, thats not really young, at least to me, cause I'm only just old enough to drink...lol Makes sense then, if she's only 18. She doesn't know what she's supposed to do, so she does what she feels. Talking to her would probably help a lot. |
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Did you ever sleep with her?
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There is a HUGE emotional difference between 18 and 21. I didnt realize she was quite that young. Shes an adult legally but she might have very little understanding of relationships and appropriate behavior. The age might be some of it. Hopefully thats all it is.
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There is a HUGE emotional difference between 18 and 21. I didnt realize she was quite that young. Shes an adult legally but she might have very little understanding of relationships and appropriate behavior. The age might be some of it. Hopefully thats all it is. I agree. |
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Well, I'm wondering if he ever slept with her? What did he do to get her doing that?
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Well, I'm wondering if he ever slept with her? What did he do to get her doing that? If she's only 18, he didn't have to sleep with her. From what I remember of 18, you're very immature and take things the wrong way. Sounds like she's just really young and over-reacted when she couldn't reach him right away. |
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