Topic: Which wins, looks or personality?
petethepunk43's photo
Thu 11/06/08 04:48 PM
personality has an affect on physical beauty

Wonderbread's photo
Thu 11/06/08 04:49 PM
Apprently looks because I have a great personality and am still single

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 11/06/08 04:50 PM

personality has an affect on physical beauty
:smile: I agree:smile:

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Thu 11/06/08 04:50 PM

i couldn't date someone who was lacking in either

i wouldn't ever date someone i thought was ugly

nor would i ever date someone that i thought was an idiot



she gets prettier with every word. If she doesnt shut up she's gonna get so pretty her head will explode

romee's photo
Thu 11/06/08 04:52 PM
Edited by romee on Thu 11/06/08 05:15 PM
bothbigsmile

Ruth34611's photo
Thu 11/06/08 04:54 PM
Looks.

no photo
Thu 11/06/08 04:55 PM
Looks may get you in the door, but (bad) personality is what will get you tossed out....

FAK's photo
Thu 11/06/08 04:55 PM
moneylaugh

reydar's photo
Thu 11/06/08 05:03 PM
Edited by reydar on Thu 11/06/08 05:04 PM
hmmm ya know.. everybody keeps saying personality but if they were talking to somebody for a while and hadn't met them... Fall in love over the phone or whatever then meet them later and find out they are just ginormous huge or elephant man ugly they would drop them like last weeks garbage. I think this is not a fair question. Personally, I look at the looks first and if the personality is good and we get along then we have a match but even if they are drop dead gorgeous they have to have a good personality... so.. I suppose Personality wins as long as they are hot.... LMAO!!!

Jerame's photo
Thu 11/06/08 05:08 PM
C'mon every one here views everyones pics and if they don't feel attracted by the pic then they always click next, don't lie to yourselves. Looks first!

SweetnFunny's photo
Thu 11/06/08 06:37 PM

C'mon every one here views everyones pics and if they don't feel attracted by the pic then they always click next, don't lie to yourselves. Looks first!


Not always. If their profile is intriguing(makes me laugh, eloquent, etc.)then I'll send them a note. Looks do intially attract, however it's the personality that I value most.
If they happen to be good-looking on top of it...bonus. :smile:

lovemeifyoucan26's photo
Thu 11/06/08 06:40 PM

smile2 Which wins, looks or personality?smile2


Both....decent personality, and decent looks....
A really outstanding personality still can't make the wicked witch look good....

lovemeifyoucan26's photo
Thu 11/06/08 06:41 PM

smile2 Which wins, looks or personality?smile2


Some attraction, physically, is needed, but in the end, true love never dies, but looks fade with age...

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Thu 11/06/08 06:46 PM
Thanks for reminding me that I need to get another vat of oil of olay!!!surprised

mischievouskttn's photo
Thu 11/06/08 06:48 PM
..money..

wait, what was the question again?


(kidding..lol..)

personality is MORE important..but then again, if I wasn't at least soooomewhat attracted..I probably would never see his personality..so looks is MORE important in the beginning...but then again sometimes personality can really change the way a person looks to you..surprised

umm...I give up..

what's the right answer?

no photo
Thu 11/06/08 06:48 PM

Looks may get you in the door, but (bad) personality is what will get you tossed out....




Lex didn't let me down since he is the only one in the thread who's figured it out. bravo bravo bigsmile bigsmile shades shades

lovemeifyoucan26's photo
Thu 11/06/08 06:49 PM

hmmm ya know.. everybody keeps saying personality but if they were talking to somebody for a while and hadn't met them... Fall in love over the phone or whatever then meet them later and find out they are just ginormous huge or elephant man ugly they would drop them like last weeks garbage. I think this is not a fair question. Personally, I look at the looks first and if the personality is good and we get along then we have a match but even if they are drop dead gorgeous they have to have a good personality... so.. I suppose Personality wins as long as they are hot.... LMAO!!!


If you can ask i can answer....

The way I see it...I will ask how much one weighs...directly, or indirectly...if you tell me a weight that is in my "interest range", and we become "well aquainted" over the phone/net, and we meet and you look disgusting....I will tell you that you should not have lied...cause if you will lie over something so simple, then you will lie over anything.....and I will tell you that from this point on, we are no longer going to be friends, and that I do not want you to talk to me anymore...

So, yes I would...

lovemeifyoucan26's photo
Thu 11/06/08 06:49 PM

C'mon every one here views everyones pics and if they don't feel attracted by the pic then they always click next, don't lie to yourselves. Looks first!


Well said.....

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Thu 11/06/08 06:51 PM
I think that looks do play a part but in the end the personality is what either keeps us there or makes us run.

lovemeifyoucan26's photo
Thu 11/06/08 06:53 PM

I think that looks do play a part but in the end the personality is what either keeps us there or makes us run.



Smart...and very true...:thumbsup: