I think someone like you, LHB, that enjoys that long of adventures is happier being single. Maybe have some 'fun' on your trips, but ya it's hard to handle a LTR when the person is gone for months at a time.

I LOVE my space, and can't handle anyone who is suffocating but months is different

What I enjoy in a relationship is someone who can surprise me. Be spontaneous and hit me up outta nowhere.

Isn't afraid of his own thoughts, and speaks them 'graciously' when needed.

I take the beach head sometimes with my opinions & I really think a man who does the same is absolutely exciting!

I vowed that it would never happen again. Now the only people that can join my adventures are those I can trust with my life on previous adventures. You get pissed when you're hanging on the side of a mountain and ask "Hey, can you slide me a carabiner down my line please?" and you get a "Why don't you come up and get it, because I'm doing my nails, and I'm bored, and I really want to go to the bar and have a drink cuz I'm thirsy, and I'm hungry, and I gotta pee, and I'm bored, and I'm not into this, and you guys are not paying attention to me and all my problems that I brought with me on your vacation and you need to pay attention to me because I'm needy, and did I tell you I'm bored?" This was what we had to deal with when gate crasher Andrea showed up at sturgis until we got pissed and left her in custer.

A little bitter are we?


Like I said, those kinds of adventures are best done with your best buddies.

When I say risk taker I'm talkin the guy who is willing to get in the face of someone who is attempting to rule other people's lives simply cuz he has a title above theirs.

Or the guy that challenges a ruling because it does NOT make sense.

Or the guy that takes a risk on a relationship because he feels in his soul it's the right road & he listens.

Living on the edge of life, not necessarily a literal cliff.

meh .. I'm not 'seeking' .. I'll just know it when it's there.

so .. are you taking notes then?

I never have "played by rules". In fact, I always got looks at the last job I had cause I would say whatever was on my mind. I would challenge authority if I felt something wasn't right. I was really bad about this in my younger days, and how I never got fired is beyond me. I mean, when you call someone a "b*tch" to their face, and that someone happens to be "connected" at your job, you all but feel you are toast. But I didn't care. I called her on her actions and felt good about it. I kept my job, and all that did was make me worse in that I would never back down from anyone out their. And I never did.

Don't get me wrong. I have respect for people. Just not people who want to push their "title" over on you because they can. I don't roll like that.

People aren't always gonna agree with me on everything, or how I do or say everything. I accept this. But, in respect, please shut your damn mouth if I have an opinion and you don't like it. You put Goof in a corner, he comes out swinging.

Look, I am gonna die one day, so I have to make the most of this life that I have. I learned long ago to stop living in fear and to just....live. I intend to do so. I am a sweet dude who has a lot of love to give. But I also have passion for what I do, and what I want to do. Plus, I am "edgy" in the bedroom.

But on the flipside, gypsy from the site WAS invited and was a gracious guest at the rally. She was totally briefed on what to expect, what to pack, and was given a full itinerary. She was sized up for all safety gear which I packed up and mailed out ahead of time and was waiting for us at the resort. Everything went smooth and wonderful. Everyone welcomed her with open arms and we had a great time from hob knobbing with celebs to traveling the parks and seeing the sights. The advanced heavy organization gave us more freedom to be spontaneous while being out and about. The preparedness for basic needs made a comforbility factor that gave us more freedom to "Goof off".

You sound like me at my current job. Which I have had for 12 years. I used to be in HR so much we needed a special entrance. lol But they love me too. They just know I DO push the envelope. Not at the cost of people's feelings as much as just being who I am.

But it's also how I get the job done when dealing with the music industry in the genre I work with. They know me as someone who will shoot straight, pull no punches. But I'm on the 'A' list because of it and when they want a truly TRUTHFUL answer my # is the one they dial.

Love EDGY in the bedroom

That sounds like the Gypsy I've seen on the threads too. Nice.

Heard dat.

This is what I was trying to say.

I'm not bitter about andrea. I'm just surprised my freinds didn't throw her off a cliff. People get quite upset when they only get one vacation a year and have lots of money on the line and out of nowhere everything you try to escape from by taking a vacation shows up on your vacation in one nice package named andrea. It was ugly. And I got blamed because...she's my freind.

LOL .. I know. I was j/k. But you have to admit her behavior pushed you to the limit. I don't blame you. That would do it for me too.

But I understand what you're saying. I stand up for what I believe in. But I'm not stubborn. I have an open mind.

OMG, love a man who is "EDGY", the best there is

ya ya . big difference between standing for what you believe in and just being stubborn for stubborn sake (dogmatic .. ewwwww)

lol

I KNEW you'd agree

Meowwwwwwwwww rawrrrrrr edgy and demanding but in a good way.......take charge

oh ya ... gettin hot just thinkin bout it

Is this thread about me,

I have to agree that someone who is willing to take a chance to follow what they feel in their heart is the right thing is totally amazing