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Topic: Is he cheating?
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 10/25/08 05:12 PM
When your husband has touched other women inappropriately,goes to night clubs and tries to pickup other women, tells you your not what he wants anymore,goes to strip clubs on a regular basis,drinks every night excessively, is he cheating?

laughsandgiggles Joined Sun 10/28/07 Posts: 3560	Sat 10/25/08 05:13 PM
I would have to give that a really big YES!!!

ljcc1964 Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 8298	Sat 10/25/08 05:14 PM
Now what would give you THAT impression?

talldub Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 2629	Sat 10/25/08 05:15 PM
When your husband has touched other women inappropriately,goes to night clubs and tries to pickup other women, tells you your not what he wants anymore,goes to strip clubs on a regular basis,drinks every night excessively, is he cheating? Not necessarily, I doubt any woman would want to be with him, thusly he cannot cheat!

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sat 10/25/08 05:16 PM
Maybe he just needs some time for himself

cats219 Joined Wed 08/01/07 Posts: 2663	Sat 10/25/08 05:21 PM
Yes he is

solestria Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 204	Sat 10/25/08 05:58 PM
At that point, irrelevant; either we'd get into therapy, pronto, or I'd be leaving his sorry ass.

regal1 Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 7	Sun 10/26/08 07:01 AM
IMO, it is a matter of personal perception. If you are not comfortable with the situation and you feel he is cheating, then he is cheating. A man or woman who is into you, generally knows where you draw the line and they do not cross it.

ChangeofHeart Joined Sun 10/26/08 Posts: 1280	Sun 10/26/08 07:32 AM
I think if He told Her he doesnt want her anymore, then he isnt cheating. Unless He was doing it before he told Her.

papersmile Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 5148	Sun 10/26/08 07:34 AM Edited by papersmile on Sun 10/26/08 07:34 AM
physically cheating? maybe, maybe not but i'd definitely say he was cheating the relationship.

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sun 10/26/08 09:37 AM
When your husband has touched other women inappropriately,goes to night clubs and tries to pickup other women, tells you your not what he wants anymore,goes to strip clubs on a regular basis,drinks every night excessively, is he cheating? You have to ask? It's a no-brainer. But at that point who would stick around to be continually disrespected? No thanks ..

HasidicEnforcer Joined Thu 12/20/07 Posts: 10235	Sun 10/26/08 09:39 AM
You really had to ask? Unless you are into that crap, get the heck out!

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Sun 10/26/08 09:42 AM
It doesn't matter what you call it, it's not okay.

quiet_2008 Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 11138	Sun 10/26/08 09:46 AM
If what you are doing will hurt the other person and you know it and do it anyway then you are worse than cheating

simplelife123 Joined Tue 11/04/08 Posts: 128	Mon 11/10/08 04:41 AM
I was cheated on for nearly my whole marriage and I foolishly IGNORED those intuitive gut feelings that told me something was wrong.I would say if you suspect it stay calm and start doing a little investigating or have a professional PI do it for you.Don't confront without solid evidence.There are a ton of websites out there that tell you the "signs of a cheating man,woman,spouse".They tell you what they do the patterns involved,the behaviors they display to offset the guilt they are feeling.

OneMoreTimeAround Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 3649	Mon 11/10/08 04:50 AM
If what you are doing will hurt the other person and you know it and do it anyway then you are worse than cheating So much more than the physical aspect has to be considered!

RoamingOrator Joined Fri 07/20/07 Posts: 4943	Mon 11/10/08 05:12 AM
When your husband has touched other women inappropriately,goes to night clubs and tries to pickup other women, tells you your not what he wants anymore,goes to strip clubs on a regular basis,drinks every night excessively, is he cheating? Look, I told her I was going to quit that bouncers job, and I can't help it if customers buy me drinks. But I mean to give up a job in this economy???

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Mon 11/10/08 05:52 AM
When your husband has touched other women inappropriately,goes to night clubs and tries to pickup other women, tells you your not what he wants anymore,goes to strip clubs on a regular basis,drinks every night excessively, is he cheating? Nah...it's all a big test.

MAHJADAH Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 11	Mon 11/10/08 05:37 PM
When your husband has touched other women inappropriately,goes to night clubs and tries to pickup other women, tells you your not what he wants anymore,goes to strip clubs on a regular basis,drinks every night excessively, is he cheating? , < < he does all of that and you're still there???!! the first time he did even ONE of those things i'd have been gone, no questions asked. crap like this is why some guys need a constant reminder that they can be easily replaced by a piece of plastic, two d batteries.

thor22 Joined Tue 09/16/08 Posts: 81	Mon 11/10/08 07:25 PM
yeah gee, this is a really tough one...go figure!