wow..ummm..maybe not in a Traditional Sense..cuz cheating to me is having sex (penetration, oral,anal whatever w/ another person, other than the one that you are with), but well that is borderline mental abuse..but the womans own fault sticking w/ a dude like that.
If a guy is telling me I am not what he wants anymore..well thats a friggen break up in my eyes..and his foot leaves that door to go into a strip club..well I might "have to go and get a pack a cigarettes..(I don't smoke..just my lame a** excuse)" with my 3 suitcases..and a moving truck when he comes home..Its Hasta la vista Baby..after that..I am not putting up w/that sh*t.

More likely, than not, he is. If he is grabbing other women, that is a big givaway. If he does that and you know, what do you think he's doing that you don't see. Change the locks while he's out at the strip club. Put his stuff on the porch. Good ridance to bad rubbish.