Topic: if your significant other got locked up..... | |
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would you wait for him or her? im in a relationship where my man is locked up, but he shouldnt be in for long, and i am choosing to wait for him because i know we have true love and he only got locked up for breaking his parole curfew for helping a friend that was on a drug relapse. we are recovering addicts so we try to help any addict that is still suffering.
-jamie |
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Having never been locked up..I am not touching this one.
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I dont see why not....ecspecially if hes not in there for a long time.
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Having never been locked up..I am not touching this one. funny coming from a tortured bear.... |
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man did my time
they held me for like 45min in the back of that cop car it was ruff... but i pulled threw |
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if I love someone theres nothing I won't do for that person
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if I love someone theres nothing I won't do for that person i absolutely agree! my man may potentially go back to prison, but even if he does i am willing to wait as long as i need to because i know he is totally worth it! |
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You sound like a good person Jamie and too bad that he broke his curfew. It sounds like you two have a good thing going and want to make it work. I would say wait for him if you really love him and are both working for sobriety and recovery. Good luck.
I would recommend coming up with a plan next time someone needs help so he doesn't break his curfew again, the parole department tends to get tougher and tougher on guys who break their parole repeatedly. Just my thoughts. |
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if I love someone theres nothing I won't do for that person |
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you may only find love once in this life give it all you have
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What is he on parole for?
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Edited by
itsmetina
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Wed 10/15/08 10:00 PM
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oops I did it again
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doing time...
is different from doing prison time i spent 72 hours in downtown county jail before i was one scared white ***** lemme tell u. i aint dating a felon i got kids ya i will check your tats as i seee you out |
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doing time... is different from doing prison time i spent 72 hours in downtown county jail before i was one scared white ***** lemme tell u. i aint dating a felon i got kids ya i will check your tats as i seee you out i have an incredibly cheap tattoo from a guy outta his house and its got prison tat qualities am i s.o.l or what |
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What is he on parole for? just a bunch of petty crimes he committed in his active addiction. you kno how we all do stupid **** when we are loaded! |
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doing time... is different from doing prison time i spent 72 hours in downtown county jail before i was one scared white ***** lemme tell u. i aint dating a felon i got kids ya i will check your tats as i seee you out i have an incredibly cheap tattoo from a guy outta his house and its got prison tat qualities am i s.o.l or what dude honey a cheap tat..thats okay..put some color on it..it be cool i can always get your name and states lived in and check out the doc records |
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I don't know if his parole officer is cooperative, but if he is and your boyfriend can come up with proof of what he was doing, the parole officer may be able to help him out and get him a reduced charge or even let him out of the charge. I don't know how your state is, but with the prison overcrowding and all, they may not bother with the more petty offenses, unless he has a history of violating his parole, then they will want to make an example of him to get his attention. I hope it works out for the two of you.
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doing time... is different from doing prison time i spent 72 hours in downtown county jail before i was one scared white ***** lemme tell u. i aint dating a felon i got kids ya i will check your tats as i seee you out i have an incredibly cheap tattoo from a guy outta his house and its got prison tat qualities am i s.o.l or what dude honey a cheap tat..thats okay..put some color on it..it be cool i can always get your name and states lived in and check out the doc records SWEET... it has color... kinda... just kinda faded... but if you look at it from a distance...and u squint ur eyes,and just kinda glance at it... it looks professional |
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you may only find love once in this life give it all you have |
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I don't know if his parole officer is cooperative, but if he is and your boyfriend can come up with proof of what he was doing, the parole officer may be able to help him out and get him a reduced charge or even let him out of the charge. I don't know how your state is, but with the prison overcrowding and all, they may not bother with the more petty offenses, unless he has a history of violating his parole, then they will want to make an example of him to get his attention. I hope it works out for the two of you. well he does have a history of violating, but his lawyer found out he was never supposed to have an ankle monitor or a parole curfew, so he has been told he should get out after going before the parole board! |
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