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 oops I did it again BRITANY SPEARS!!!! yahoooooo 
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Well I would take it one day at a time. And not make a promise that you might not want to keep later on down the rode. Broken promises are real hard to deal with behind bars. But yes if you say you love someone you don't ditch them because they do something INCREDIBLY DUMB and end up in jail for it. I am not sure being around addicts is the best way to stay clean and sober so you don't also end up in trouble. Would be better to refer them to a professional or a 12 Step Program than end up incarceratied where there is darn little you can do for anybody.
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would you wait for him or her? im in a relationship where my man is locked up, but he shouldnt be in for long, and i am choosing to wait for him because i know we have true love and he only got locked up for breaking his parole curfew for helping a friend that was on a drug relapse. we are recovering addicts so we try to help any addict that is still suffering. -jamie As I'm sure you know from being in recovery, take care of yourself and do what is right for you and your recovery. That is your priority. 
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if I love someone theres nothing I won't do for that person i absolutely agree! my man may potentially go back to prison, but even if he does i am willing to wait as long as i need to because i know he is totally worth it! Just make sure it's not you he's waiting for next time. . . 'cause the story probably won't be so StoryBook. |
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 oops I did it again BRITANY SPEARS!!!! yahoooooo  but i use that line
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I don't know if his parole officer is cooperative, but if he is and your boyfriend can come up with proof of what he was doing, the parole officer may be able to help him out and get him a reduced charge or even let him out of the charge. I don't know how your state is, but with the prison overcrowding and all, they may not bother with the more petty offenses, unless he has a history of violating his parole, then they will want to make an example of him to get his attention. I hope it works out for the two of you. well he does have a history of violating, but his lawyer found out he was never supposed to have an ankle monitor or a parole curfew, so he has been told he should get out after going before the parole board! How long have you been with him? |
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do ya got his baby?
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HHHHHHAIL NO.....
He got locked up because he was "helping" a friend who was drugged up, KNOWING he was going back to jail..... HHHHHHHAIL NO. Caio Bella. C-Ya later alligator After awhile crocodile There are WAY too many men on the planet to mess with some loser that is in and out of jail.... |
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AND THE PLOT THICKENS
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The snow in Montana was three feet high
Lady at the counter said, "There ain't no flights" So he called her on the telephone, He said I'll rent a car And I'll drive home. She said, "I'll wait for you like I did last year At Christmas time with your family here, And your truck broke down Out in San Antone And the gifts stayed wrapped Till you got home, Oh this ain't nothing new, Sweetheart I'll wait for you." Now he's on his cell phone In a Coupe deVille Talking to the one he loves and always will His heart is breaking Cause she's there alone Her heart is aching Cause she wants him home She says "i'll wait for you Like in '68 when our child was due I said It will have to wait Until his dad gets here, And stands by my side, Remember dear our son's first cry. oh this ain't nothing new, Sweetheart I'll wait for you." He didn't stop all day To eat a bite, And he finally got there around midnight The doctor said she's in a better place She said to give you this note, Just in case. And it said "I'll wait for you At heaven's gate, Oh, I don't care how long it takes And I'll tell St. Pete I can't come in Without my love and my best friend, Oh this ain't nothing new, Sweetheart I'll wait for you. P.S. I love you too Sweatheart I'll wait for you..." |
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He has to be really careful with his history of violating, the parole board looks really closely at that stuff, his ability to follow the rules, etc. I worked in the prison system for 17 years and worked around the parole board at that time. They are real sticklers for rules and the inmates following the rules. He needs to start obeying his rules and show he can do what he is supposed to or he could end up in big trouble with some major time to do in prison. Part of his recovery is taking responsibility for his actions. He NEEDS to get serious and take responsibility and do what he is supposed to and stop violating the rules or they will come down on him and hard.
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I don't know if his parole officer is cooperative, but if he is and your boyfriend can come up with proof of what he was doing, the parole officer may be able to help him out and get him a reduced charge or even let him out of the charge. I don't know how your state is, but with the prison overcrowding and all, they may not bother with the more petty offenses, unless he has a history of violating his parole, then they will want to make an example of him to get his attention. I hope it works out for the two of you. well he does have a history of violating, but his lawyer found out he was never supposed to have an ankle monitor or a parole curfew, so he has been told he should get out after going before the parole board! How long have you been with him? about a month, but it was love at first site, and he promises hes done violating and is ready to stay legit, and i trust him. he basically saved my life. i was on a relapse and had gotten jacked for alot of money and he saved me from going and picking up a gun and got me away from my drug using stomping grounds and got me off the streets and hes the reason i am clean today. hes now realizing that he cant save everybody tho. as hard as that is for him to swallow. and he knows that if he gets locked up again im not going to wait for him again. this is his one and only chance! |
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I EFFIN LOVE THAT SONG!!
The snow in Montana was three feet high Lady at the counter said, "There ain't no flights" So he called her on the telephone, He said I'll rent a car And I'll drive home. She said, "I'll wait for you like I did last year At Christmas time with your family here, And your truck broke down Out in San Antone And the gifts stayed wrapped Till you got home, Oh this ain't nothing new, Sweetheart I'll wait for you." Now he's on his cell phone In a Coupe deVille Talking to the one he loves and always will His heart is breaking Cause she's there alone Her heart is aching Cause she wants him home She says "i'll wait for you Like in '68 when our child was due I said It will have to wait Until his dad gets here, And stands by my side, Remember dear our son's first cry. oh this ain't nothing new, Sweetheart I'll wait for you." He didn't stop all day To eat a bite, And he finally got there around midnight The doctor said she's in a better place She said to give you this note, Just in case. And it said "I'll wait for you At heaven's gate, Oh, I don't care how long it takes And I'll tell St. Pete I can't come in Without my love and my best friend, Oh this ain't nothing new, Sweetheart I'll wait for you. P.S. I love you too Sweatheart I'll wait for you..." |
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He has to be really careful with his history of violating, the parole board looks really closely at that stuff, his ability to follow the rules, etc. I worked in the prison system for 17 years and worked around the parole board at that time. They are real sticklers for rules and the inmates following the rules. He needs to start obeying his rules and show he can do what he is supposed to or he could end up in big trouble with some major time to do in prison. Part of his recovery is taking responsibility for his actions. He NEEDS to get serious and take responsibility and do what he is supposed to and stop violating the rules or they will come down on him and hard. if you viloate parole cause you got caught with a controlled substance... what happens?? do you go back and finsh the entire ORIGIANL sentence with no early release??? |
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I don't know if his parole officer is cooperative, but if he is and your boyfriend can come up with proof of what he was doing, the parole officer may be able to help him out and get him a reduced charge or even let him out of the charge. I don't know how your state is, but with the prison overcrowding and all, they may not bother with the more petty offenses, unless he has a history of violating his parole, then they will want to make an example of him to get his attention. I hope it works out for the two of you. well he does have a history of violating, but his lawyer found out he was never supposed to have an ankle monitor or a parole curfew, so he has been told he should get out after going before the parole board! Your pic - his history? Y'all must already have a child.; . . so who's gonna raise it lovingly? |
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I EFFIN LOVE THAT SONG!! The snow in Montana was three feet high Lady at the counter said, "There ain't no flights" So he called her on the telephone, He said I'll rent a car And I'll drive home. She said, "I'll wait for you like I did last year At Christmas time with your family here, And your truck broke down Out in San Antone And the gifts stayed wrapped Till you got home, Oh this ain't nothing new, Sweetheart I'll wait for you." Now he's on his cell phone In a Coupe deVille Talking to the one he loves and always will His heart is breaking Cause she's there alone Her heart is aching Cause she wants him home She says "i'll wait for you Like in '68 when our child was due I said It will have to wait Until his dad gets here, And stands by my side, Remember dear our son's first cry. oh this ain't nothing new, Sweetheart I'll wait for you." He didn't stop all day To eat a bite, And he finally got there around midnight The doctor said she's in a better place She said to give you this note, Just in case. And it said "I'll wait for you At heaven's gate, Oh, I don't care how long it takes And I'll tell St. Pete I can't come in Without my love and my best friend, Oh this ain't nothing new, Sweetheart I'll wait for you. P.S. I love you too Sweatheart I'll wait for you..." me TOOOOOOOOOOO i wouldnt sing it for a prison bird..but an honest man but that song just ROCKS i like u dude! u help me with my itunes and like my muzac |
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He has to be really careful with his history of violating, the parole board looks really closely at that stuff, his ability to follow the rules, etc. I worked in the prison system for 17 years and worked around the parole board at that time. They are real sticklers for rules and the inmates following the rules. He needs to start obeying his rules and show he can do what he is supposed to or he could end up in big trouble with some major time to do in prison. Part of his recovery is taking responsibility for his actions. He NEEDS to get serious and take responsibility and do what he is supposed to and stop violating the rules or they will come down on him and hard. if you viloate parole cause you got caught with a controlled substance... what happens?? do you go back and finsh the entire ORIGIANL sentence with no early release??? Every state is different, but that is a very real possibility. Some states don't even have parole boards anymore, we don't, have different sentencing that is controlled by the courts, not the board. But I would say likely, yes, to answer your question, but I am not an expert, again, depends on your state and the laws there. |
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I don't know if his parole officer is cooperative, but if he is and your boyfriend can come up with proof of what he was doing, the parole officer may be able to help him out and get him a reduced charge or even let him out of the charge. I don't know how your state is, but with the prison overcrowding and all, they may not bother with the more petty offenses, unless he has a history of violating his parole, then they will want to make an example of him to get his attention. I hope it works out for the two of you. well he does have a history of violating, but his lawyer found out he was never supposed to have an ankle monitor or a parole curfew, so he has been told he should get out after going before the parole board! Your pic - his history? Y'all must already have a child.; . . so who's gonna raise it lovingly? no children involved. just him and i, thats it! |
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He has to be really careful with his history of violating, the parole board looks really closely at that stuff, his ability to follow the rules, etc. I worked in the prison system for 17 years and worked around the parole board at that time. They are real sticklers for rules and the inmates following the rules. He needs to start obeying his rules and show he can do what he is supposed to or he could end up in big trouble with some major time to do in prison. Part of his recovery is taking responsibility for his actions. He NEEDS to get serious and take responsibility and do what he is supposed to and stop violating the rules or they will come down on him and hard. if you viloate parole cause you got caught with a controlled substance... what happens?? do you go back and finsh the entire ORIGIANL sentence with no early release??? Every state is different, but that is a very real possibility. Some states don't even have parole boards anymore, we don't, have different sentencing that is controlled by the courts, not the board. But I would say likely, yes, to answer your question, but I am not an expert, again, depends on your state and the laws there. i think parole violation should be taken very seriously repeat offenders need prosecution. i can so see my daughter in heels and a nice business suite prosecuting tem (my dream...probably not hers) |
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I don't know if his parole officer is cooperative, but if he is and your boyfriend can come up with proof of what he was doing, the parole officer may be able to help him out and get him a reduced charge or even let him out of the charge. I don't know how your state is, but with the prison overcrowding and all, they may not bother with the more petty offenses, unless he has a history of violating his parole, then they will want to make an example of him to get his attention. I hope it works out for the two of you. well he does have a history of violating, but his lawyer found out he was never supposed to have an ankle monitor or a parole curfew, so he has been told he should get out after going before the parole board! How long have you been with him? about a month, but it was love at first site, and he promises hes done violating and is ready to stay legit, and i trust him. he basically saved my life. i was on a relapse and had gotten jacked for alot of money and he saved me from going and picking up a gun and got me away from my drug using stomping grounds and got me off the streets and hes the reason i am clean today. hes now realizing that he cant save everybody tho. as hard as that is for him to swallow. and he knows that if he gets locked up again im not going to wait for him again. this is his one and only chance! But... you haven't known him long. I recommend doing some serious thinking as to what you'll do if he has to serve a long time. You haven't know him long. I disagree with something. You are the reason that you are clean today.
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