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KarlaMay Joined Fri 10/10/08 Posts: 122	Wed 10/15/08 01:42 PM
Are these things you'd be ok hearing from your date on a 1st date? I had a 1st date the other night and he called me all of the above along with a few others. Personally, it made me a little uncomfortable.

Derekkye Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 3427	Wed 10/15/08 01:44 PM Edited by Derekkye on Wed 10/15/08 01:45 PM
Usually it's the women who speak like that...hmmm did he speak like that before or after making out with you?

becca777 Joined Tue 08/05/08 Posts: 2161	Wed 10/15/08 01:44 PM
it'd make me want to vomit

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Wed 10/15/08 01:45 PM Edited by RKISIT on Wed 10/15/08 01:45 PM
i can say i've been called worse names than that

Hajimemashite Joined Thu 08/28/08 Posts: 4031	Wed 10/15/08 01:46 PM Edited by Hajimemashite on Wed 10/15/08 01:47 PM
Only if he was joking. I do not know his scene of humor So i could not say if it was . So just come right out and ask him

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Wed 10/15/08 01:47 PM
Are these things you'd be ok hearing from your date on a 1st date? I had a 1st date the other night and he called me all of the above along with a few others. Personally, it made me a little uncomfortable. Well, I live in the South, and I do know that people tend to call each other sweetie or hun like when they are referring to a kid or something, but NOT ON THE FIRST DATE!!

voxsteven Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 1813	Wed 10/15/08 01:51 PM
How about tater tot...or my little pizza roll? That would be OK on a first date.

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14519	Wed 10/15/08 01:52 PM
First date etteqiute (sp) dictates Miss or Mrs. and last name. Use of first names or nick names is poor form and to be avoided.

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14519	Wed 10/15/08 01:55 PM
Oooooooooooooooh! Sugar Pie, Honey Bunch You know that I love you I can't help myself I love you and nobody else (apologies to The Temptations)

KarlaMay Joined Fri 10/10/08 Posts: 122	Wed 10/15/08 01:56 PM
I just wanted to know that I'm not overreacting in my dislike of his familiarity. To answer all your Q's Derekkey, we did not make out. Becca, thank you. Rikisit, Hajimema****e, he seemed quit serious and just threw it into conversation like he'd been calling me honey forever. MsCarmen, He is from the south, TX and I thought maybe it's just a TX thing. On a first date, it's still pretty forward and kinda creepy.

KarlaMay Joined Fri 10/10/08 Posts: 122	Wed 10/15/08 01:57 PM
How about tater tot...or my little pizza roll? That would be OK on a first date. Now that might make me laugh at least.

KarlaMay Joined Fri 10/10/08 Posts: 122	Wed 10/15/08 01:59 PM
First date etteqiute (sp) dictates Miss or Mrs. and last name. Use of first names or nick names is poor form and to be avoided. You call your dates Mrs, or Miss? Really? I would rather a date call me Karla I think.

Tazz42 Joined Fri 02/29/08 Posts: 9660	Wed 10/15/08 01:59 PM Edited by Tazz42 on Wed 10/15/08 02:00 PM
Oooooooooooooooh! Sugar Pie, Honey Bunch You know that I love you I can't help myself I love you and nobody else (apologies to The Temptations) There are worse things to be called.....I had a first and, the last too....with a man who kept calling me "Dude". I got extremely rude with him after the 10th time he called me that! Do I look like a f*cking Dude to you????????

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76461	Wed 10/15/08 02:00 PM
Myself I'm from Texas but I still have a name I do expect them to use it unless things go to a more personal situation or very close friends. Then the hun or sweetie thing is kewl but first date

beauty314 Joined Sat 04/19/08 Posts: 1709	Wed 10/15/08 02:01 PM
red flag.. sounds like he's looking for a new owner..yuk

Hajimemashite Joined Thu 08/28/08 Posts: 4031	Wed 10/15/08 02:05 PM
I just wanted to know that I'm not overreacting in my dislike of his familiarity. To answer all your Q's Derekkey, we did not make out. Becca, thank you. Rikisit, Hajimema****e, he seemed quit serious and just threw it into conversation like he'd been calling me honey forever. MsCarmen, He is from the south, TX and I thought maybe it's just a TX thing. On a first date, it's still pretty forward and kinda creepy. Well then i would be worried to and feel strange to But i would not end it because of that i just would be cautious as i was getting to know them better Hope this helps

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Wed 10/15/08 02:20 PM
obviously, they don't have enough information ..... on a first date to call me anything other than ddn122....

Rapunzel Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 16246	Wed 10/15/08 02:24 PM
Are these things you'd be ok hearing from your date on a 1st date? I had a 1st date the other night and he called me all of the above along with a few others. Personally, it made me a little uncomfortable. i call people Honey and Sweetie often to hear that kind of thing on a first date only would bother me... if ..... i really didn't care for him or if he was making inappropriate advances

Lizexy Joined Wed 09/24/08 Posts: 165	Wed 10/15/08 02:24 PM
I agree!!

KarlaMay Joined Fri 10/10/08 Posts: 122	Wed 10/15/08 02:25 PM
Oooooooooooooooh! Sugar Pie, Honey Bunch You know that I love you I can't help myself I love you and nobody else (apologies to The Temptations) There are worse things to be called.....I had a first and, the last too....with a man who kept calling me "Dude". I got extremely rude with him after the 10th time he called me that! Do I look like a f*cking Dude to you???????? Yeah, that would last about 10 seconds with me.