Topic: what do WOMEN like?
brenlee1965's photo
Thu 10/16/08 07:25 PM

Seriously, I wonder...I like to talk alot, and often get mixed messages...alot of women tell me they like to hear a man talk alot, others say no...I don't mean just talking about me...I talk about alot of things...topics vary as quick as a new though pops into my mind...and I tel people that if I start talking too much to hush me, and I will stand down????


Everyone is different. Some women like the strong silent type; some like the outgoing, loud men; some like guys that are funny, some like thinkers that rarely speak, others love the chatter boxes....Just start by finding common ground and go from there.

And if you can't tell........Ask yourself this....Are they Yawning or checking their watch (or) looking around for someone to rescue them! Just be mindful of the situation and gauge from there.

Good Luck!

newguy's photo
Thu 10/16/08 07:33 PM
ladys want the same thing we want.
honesty
integrity
trust
truth
gee....that was a no brainer

Marie55's photo
Thu 10/16/08 07:35 PM

ladys want the same thing we want.
honesty
integrity
trust
truth
gee....that was a no brainer


Good one. Gotta agree with you on this.
I would add: Fidelity, compassion.
flowerforyou

newguy's photo
Thu 10/16/08 07:39 PM
damn.....knew I left 1 or 2 out.

YEAH....them too!bigsmile

blackxbird's photo
Thu 10/16/08 07:51 PM
When you're having a conversation, there are times when you are going to be talking more, and times when she will be talking more... that's how any conversation is. It's an exchange. However, most of the time the exchange needs to be equal, otherwise it makes one of you feel awkward. Yeah, I can talk a lot... but if I have to carry the conversation and drag stuff outta ya... I'm not gonna be happy.

The only exception I can think of is when a woman is really upset... we had a bad day, someone scuffed our favorite pair of pumps, Suzie got the promotion we deserved, etc. If I'm pissed/upset, I want the guy to listen and nod and be sympathetic... although I'd imagine a guy wants the same from me if he is feeling that way.

ChefBadger's photo
Thu 10/16/08 07:53 PM
SHOES


that was an easy question...neeeext...
smokin

msmyka's photo
Thu 10/16/08 08:01 PM

SHOES


that was an easy question...neeeext...
smokin


Knee high black leather boots if you want to get technical about it :wink:

galendgirl's photo
Thu 10/16/08 08:16 PM


This is really difficult because no two women are the same. Some want chivalry, and then others want independence. Then you get the crazies who want both. ;) I think what women really want is a man/woman (whatever your preference be) to not be afraid to ask them what they want.


And some are independently crazy....some guys too


Yep...that door swings both ways and crazy is not gender specific.

This all depends on the guy and the girl both...there isn't a set rule that will work for everyone!

lovemeifyoucan26's photo
Fri 10/17/08 01:57 AM


Seriously, I wonder...I like to talk alot, and often get mixed messages...alot of women tell me they like to hear a man talk alot, others say no...I don't mean just talking about me...I talk about alot of things...topics vary as quick as a new though pops into my mind...and I tel people that if I start talking too much to hush me, and I will stand down????


Everyone is different. Some women like the strong silent type; some like the outgoing, loud men; some like guys that are funny, some like thinkers that rarely speak, others love the chatter boxes....Just start by finding common ground and go from there.

And if you can't tell........Ask yourself this....Are they Yawning or checking their watch (or) looking around for someone to rescue them! Just be mindful of the situation and gauge from there.

Good Luck!


Thank you...that is good advice...and will keep that in mind from now on...

lovemeifyoucan26's photo
Fri 10/17/08 01:59 AM

ladys want the same thing we want.
honesty
integrity
trust
truth
gee....that was a no brainer


LADYS want that...the problem is finding the ones that really want that, instead of being "villiage bicycles.....

lovemeifyoucan26's photo
Fri 10/17/08 02:01 AM


ladys want the same thing we want.
honesty
integrity
trust
truth
gee....that was a no brainer


Good one. Gotta agree with you on this.
I would add: Fidelity, compassion.
flowerforyou


That is what I am looking for, but the search is a tough one...especially with me being in a small town...

PacificStar48's photo
Fri 10/17/08 02:17 AM
You are always going to have better results in a target rich environment like a community college, hospital, or church.

Generally women like guys who like something that they like to do. Commo interests or doing something she can interact with is usually key.

Jtevans's photo
Fri 10/17/08 02:35 AM

You are always going to have better results in a target rich environment like a community college, hospital, or church.

Generally women like guys who like something that they like to do. Commo interests or doing something she can interact with is usually key.



so i should go to the mall and whip out a credit card to pick up chicks?

galendgirl's photo
Fri 10/17/08 05:16 AM

SHOES


that was an easy question...neeeext...
smokin


Okay, you are a man after my heart...or my feet...
Why aren't you taken?

msmyka's photo
Fri 10/17/08 02:53 PM


SHOES


that was an easy question...neeeext...
smokin


Okay, you are a man after my heart...or my feet...
Why aren't you taken?


Who says he's not taken? :wink: bigsmile

lovemeifyoucan26's photo
Fri 10/17/08 04:40 PM


You are always going to have better results in a target rich environment like a community college, hospital, or church.

Generally women like guys who like something that they like to do. Commo interests or doing something she can interact with is usually key.



so i should go to the mall and whip out a credit card to pick up chicks?


Man to man....be careful what you wish for with that one....lol

galendgirl's photo
Fri 10/17/08 09:45 PM



SHOES


that was an easy question...neeeext...
smokin


Okay, you are a man after my heart...or my feet...
Why aren't you taken?


Who says he's not taken? :wink: bigsmile


Touche' He may be (and well trained if he understands SHOES!)

seahawks's photo
Fri 10/17/08 09:46 PM

Your best bet....just let them talk about themselves....and just nod your head and agree.
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Thomas27's photo
Fri 10/17/08 09:47 PM
me naked?

no photo
Fri 10/17/08 09:48 PM
Women just LOVE a great, big...


... wallet. :laughing: