Topic: what do WOMEN like?
lovemeifyoucan26's photo
Tue 10/14/08 10:40 AM


Seriously, I wonder...I like to talk alot, and often get mixed messages...alot of women tell me they like to hear a man talk alot, others say no...I don't mean just talking about me...I talk about alot of things...topics vary as quick as a new though pops into my mind...and I tel people that if I start talking too much to hush me, and I will stand down????


Depends on the woman,I would guess. And, what you're talking about.


Well, I don't talk engines with most women, as a conversation piece..lol
I usually talk about(contemplate out loud)about deep issues..the purpose of things happening the way they do, what can be learned from it, the positive aspects of bad situation...and then there is always the pointles goofy incessent chatter, that seems to be nothing more then the rantings of one with ADHD...essentially, I talk about whatever, just to keep from being bored...

Rinarot's photo
Tue 10/14/08 10:58 AM
Chocolate drool

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Tue 10/14/08 11:01 AM



Seriously, I wonder...I like to talk alot, and often get mixed messages...alot of women tell me they like to hear a man talk alot, others say no...I don't mean just talking about me...I talk about alot of things...topics vary as quick as a new though pops into my mind...and I tel people that if I start talking too much to hush me, and I will stand down????


Depends on the woman,I would guess. And, what you're talking about.


Well, I don't talk engines with most women, as a conversation piece..lol
I usually talk about(contemplate out loud)about deep issues..the purpose of things happening the way they do, what can be learned from it, the positive aspects of bad situation...and then there is always the pointles goofy incessent chatter, that seems to be nothing more then the rantings of one with ADHD...essentially, I talk about whatever, just to keep from being bored...


If you're one of those guys who talks just to hear himself talk, then yes, some women may get tired of it.

Rinarot's photo
Tue 10/14/08 11:03 AM
This is really difficult because no two women are the same. Some want chivalry, and then others want independence. Then you get the crazies who want both. ;) I think what women really want is a man/woman (whatever your preference be) to not be afraid to ask them what they want.

lovemeifyoucan26's photo
Tue 10/14/08 11:30 AM




Seriously, I wonder...I like to talk alot, and often get mixed messages...alot of women tell me they like to hear a man talk alot, others say no...I don't mean just talking about me...I talk about alot of things...topics vary as quick as a new though pops into my mind...and I tel people that if I start talking too much to hush me, and I will stand down????


Depends on the woman,I would guess. And, what you're talking about.


Well, I don't talk engines with most women, as a conversation piece..lol
I usually talk about(contemplate out loud)about deep issues..the purpose of things happening the way they do, what can be learned from it, the positive aspects of bad situation...and then there is always the pointles goofy incessent chatter, that seems to be nothing more then the rantings of one with ADHD...essentially, I talk about whatever, just to keep from being bored...


If you're one of those guys who talks just to hear himself talk, then yes, some women may get tired of it.


Actually, a big part of what I talk about is involving others as well as myself, and I try to include others, especially when I look at my watch, and realize I have been talking for 14 hours..lol

Yeah, I am kiddin'..my record is only 12 1/2 hours..lol

lovemeifyoucan26's photo
Tue 10/14/08 11:32 AM

This is really difficult because no two women are the same. Some want chivalry, and then others want independence. Then you get the crazies who want both. ;) I think what women really want is a man/woman (whatever your preference be) to not be afraid to ask them what they want.


And some are independently crazy....some guys too

Rinarot's photo
Tue 10/14/08 11:34 AM
Edited by Rinarot on Tue 10/14/08 11:34 AM

And some are independently crazy....some guys too


How could I overlook that last one? It just shows you that I don't enjoy talking about myself. bigsmile

DTHRomeo's photo
Tue 10/14/08 11:36 AM

Your best bet....just let them talk about themselves....and just nod your head and agree.


I SO agree drinker laugh laugh laugh

lovemeifyoucan26's photo
Thu 10/16/08 01:35 PM


And some are independently crazy....some guys too


How could I overlook that last one? It just shows you that I don't enjoy talking about myself. bigsmile


I know about the independantly crazy ones, thanks to my mom...lol,

cottonelle's photo
Thu 10/16/08 01:40 PM
women like beer and football

and expect us men to stand out in the kitchen (bare foot) cooking dinner for them

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Thu 10/16/08 01:42 PM
in my experience women do like the tongue, but not the flapping gums...

ChefBadger's photo
Thu 10/16/08 01:42 PM
Apparently women like really bad poetry...
devil

RKISIT's photo
Thu 10/16/08 01:47 PM
i think you should post a thread on what women dont like.you may get more women to respond. i would but i'd only get one response.:smile:




















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Thu 10/16/08 01:52 PM

women like beer and football

and expect us men to stand out in the kitchen (bare foot) cooking dinner for them


YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!laugh

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Thu 10/16/08 01:53 PM

in my experience women do like the tongue, but not the flapping gums...

love

lovemeifyoucan26's photo
Thu 10/16/08 01:54 PM

in my experience women do like the tongue, but not the flapping gums...


Of course, sir, I will have to say I have no idea what it is that a woman would like about a mans tongue..whatever on earth could you be talking about?....yeah...OK..lol

Well, my tongue is pierced...some say it is only for those who don't know what they are doing....I say, only one way to find out...huh

Tromette's photo
Thu 10/16/08 01:54 PM

Seriously, I wonder...I like to talk alot, and often get mixed messages...alot of women tell me they like to hear a man talk alot, others say no...I don't mean just talking about me...I talk about alot of things...topics vary as quick as a new though pops into my mind...and I tel people that if I start talking too much to hush me, and I will stand down????


I think you're confusing "mixed messages" with "different people's preferences."

Mixed messages usually come from the same person in a situation.

lovemeifyoucan26's photo
Thu 10/16/08 01:57 PM

i think you should post a thread on what women dont like.you may get more women to respond. i would but i'd only get one response.:smile:

with one word on it...."you"..lol




















lovemeifyoucan26's photo
Thu 10/16/08 01:58 PM


Seriously, I wonder...I like to talk alot, and often get mixed messages...alot of women tell me they like to hear a man talk alot, others say no...I don't mean just talking about me...I talk about alot of things...topics vary as quick as a new though pops into my mind...and I tel people that if I start talking too much to hush me, and I will stand down????


I think you're confusing "mixed messages" with "different people's preferences."

Mixed messages usually come from the same person in a situation.


Thank you....I am aware of this fact though....:thumbsup: waving

RKISIT's photo
Thu 10/16/08 02:00 PM


i think you should post a thread on what women dont like.you may get more women to respond. i would but i'd only get one response.:smile:

with one word on it...."you"..lol


see you are very wise thats where i was going with it:smile: