Topic: pathetic experience
Roco's photo
Sun 10/05/08 08:16 PM
Guy # 1, he doesn't sound all that bad, you ought to give him a second chance.

Guy # 2, he sounds like a lunatic. This is what you should do -- go out on a date with him. Bring a guy or girl with you. Have the guy or girl take a picture of him and also his car and the car license plate. I don't think he would bother you anymore if you had that information.

Roco

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 10/05/08 08:18 PM

I met someone for a few drinks. We played pool and drank a few glasses of wine. We weren't there 5 minutes and the guy starts walking really fast up to me like he was going to slap a bug off my head or something and he rammed his tongue down my throat. I backed off and told him he moved a little too fast. Anyway a little later we moved to the bar and he looks distraught. He mentions that he can't believe how expensive the place was.:( I felt bad and offered to help with the bill. He refused my offer. OMG is this an example of what's out there now???

Another guy has emailed me a few times and gave me his number. I never called it because I don't know him at ALL. He sees me here on the forums and sends me a mean email letting me know I have time to talk to others but not him. He actually used the F bomb on me.

Hell I should get the man I had back. *Deb thumps self on head* And to think I sould have had a damn V8 and went gay.
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MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 10/05/08 08:19 PM

Guy # 1, he doesn't sound all that bad, you ought to give him a second chance.

Guy # 2, he sounds like a lunatic. This is what you should do -- go out on a date with him. Bring a guy or girl with you. Have the guy or girl take a picture of him and also his car and the car license plate. I don't think he would bother you anymore if you had that information.

Roco
smokin Guy #1 sounds like a moronsmokin

smokin Guy#2 is even dumber.smokin

deboshope's photo
Sun 10/05/08 08:28 PM
yep I agree. lol

Unique2468's photo
Sun 10/05/08 08:33 PM

I met someone for a few drinks. We played pool and drank a few glasses of wine. We weren't there 5 minutes and the guy starts walking really fast up to me like he was going to slap a bug off my head or something and he rammed his tongue down my throat. I backed off and told him he moved a little too fast. Anyway a little later we moved to the bar and he looks distraught. He mentions that he can't believe how expensive the place was.:( I felt bad and offered to help with the bill. He refused my offer. OMG is this an example of what's out there now???

Another guy has emailed me a few times and gave me his number. I never called it because I don't know him at ALL. He sees me here on the forums and sends me a mean email letting me know I have time to talk to others but not him. He actually used the F bomb on me.

Hell I should get the man I had back. *Deb thumps self on head* And to think I sould have had a damn V8 and went gay.


See, i've been on the slow side on those things, and had things fall apart because of it. I believe in fast connections, fun and being comfortable. Though sounds like the guy was nervious

Mimx's photo
Sun 10/05/08 08:34 PM
From past experiences any date or get together that takes place in a bar or club, is always a bad idea.

Most people in clubs or bars are just looking for an easy hook up or quick score.


Also its very stupid to complain about how pricey something is after the fact, unless that was supposed to make you feel guilty enough to sleep with him....either way it sucks.

carolanne58's photo
Sun 10/05/08 09:57 PM
To me both those guys sound scary.I agree you need to protect yourself.When I meet someone off the site I always meet in a public place I get info. ahead of time license plate number,cell # and where I have gone and leave it with my sis. I allow myself a two hour for a first meeting.
A person who would complain about the cost has no class.So are they saying you aren't worth it? Jerk.
And for the guy who complains that you don't have time for him ,but you do for others,can't take a hint maybe he doesn't have anything inteligent to say or you probably would have responded.Keep in mind you have the option of reporting anyone who bothers you.Be safe.

longhairbiker's photo
Sun 10/05/08 11:10 PM
At least he didn't say he's a professional photographer and ask you for nude pictures.

longhairbiker's photo
Sun 10/05/08 11:13 PM
I will trade you dating experiences. Should hear my stories. Scare you to death.

longhairbiker's photo
Sun 10/05/08 11:17 PM
Yeah going gay won't help either. The first time you date a neurotic insecure anal retentive woman with irritable bowel syndrome- you will be back to peckers in a heartbeat.

carolanne58's photo
Sun 10/05/08 11:28 PM

Yeah going gay won't help either. The first time you date a neurotic insecure anal retentive woman with irritable bowel syndrome- you will be back to peckers in a heartbeat.

Wow!lmao would like to hear more about your bad dates longhairbiker ,you might just have start a post lol smileing.

no photo
Mon 10/06/08 01:43 AM
You know what is scary..........getting asked out for a date when you have never even spoken to this person before!!!shocked scared

I mean.......I got asked out tonight......from some guy who seen my pic on the website and has never talked to me before.

He could be a killer/rapist/pyscho.......and Im supposed to meet this guy??? Uhhhhhhhhh buddy.......at least talk to me first????

Im not an idiot.....and I dont meet people I dont talk to for a very long time sooooooo........







This could be the reason why I am single!!!surprised rofl rofl

no photo
Mon 10/06/08 01:48 AM
ah the chaos of the dating world. ohwell

deboshope's photo
Mon 10/06/08 05:04 AM
back to peckers in no time??? roflol

omg

irritable bowel syndrome??? Now that is funny!!!

Yeah I talked to the guy for a long time but hey it took me 19 years to see all the issues my ex had. lol

Thanks for all of the being safe advice. I will probably date a serial killer next time.;)

Goofball73's photo
Mon 10/06/08 05:56 AM
I love it. This is a prime example of why you ladies should not do drugs when pregnant. They f*ck up a young man's mind and this is one side effect....tongues down a woman's throat within minutes of meeting.

deboshope's photo
Mon 10/06/08 06:26 AM
goofball...

nevermind. lol

lilith401's photo
Mon 10/06/08 07:20 AM
I can totally relate. I had a guy bite me on the neck like a cheeseburger once, after I had just shot pool. No warning, no flirting, nothing. I was bruised and had to wear make-up on my neck for a week.

It's just the luck of the draw sometimes. Think of it as posting fodder. I hope you can laugh about it? Please don't give up...

no photo
Mon 10/06/08 07:37 AM
Now, The Pete-Man would never move that fast. I have to be comfortable around someone first, before there's any displays of "affection". And I ain't ashamed to say that I'm usually a comically nervous wreck on the first date.

MicheleNC's photo
Mon 10/06/08 07:40 AM
Pathetic experience? Nah. Chalk it up to experience. You got out there and that is a good thing.

flowerforyou M


lilith401's photo
Mon 10/06/08 07:43 AM

Pathetic experience? Nah. Chalk it up to experience. You got out there and that is a good thing.

flowerforyou M




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