Topic: OK, I'm still wondering why??
no photo
Fri 10/03/08 08:46 PM


Something is up.


How do I find out what???
go down there and see for yourself. if he 's crazy about you he'll get over you checkin up on him.

no photo
Fri 10/03/08 08:46 PM

smokin think i'd have to do a stake outsmokin


I was thinking the same thing!! Is that bad?......laugh

MalenaC's photo
Fri 10/03/08 08:47 PM

my boyfriend showers me with attention during the week but seems to disappear on the weekends...he owns his own business and even has me call clients for him during the week.He swears hes not married or seeing someone elsc...he calls me Saturday mornings but then thats it...


oops I know that feeling . He is married and with kids.

ADiamond's photo
Fri 10/03/08 08:47 PM

smokin think i'd have to do a stake outsmokin


Here! Here!shades

beautyfrompain's photo
Fri 10/03/08 08:48 PM


Something is up.


How do I find out what???


dress up ... rent a car... and follow him lol

mry's photo
Fri 10/03/08 08:48 PM


my boyfriend showers me with attention during the week but seems to disappear on the weekends...he owns his own business and even has me call clients for him during the week.He swears hes not married or seeing someone elsc...he calls me Saturday mornings but then thats it...


oops I know that feeling . He is married and with kids.


But I have been on the phone with him and hes put his son on...

mry's photo
Fri 10/03/08 08:48 PM


my boyfriend showers me with attention during the week but seems to disappear on the weekends...he owns his own business and even has me call clients for him during the week.He swears hes not married or seeing someone elsc...he calls me Saturday mornings but then thats it...


oops I know that feeling . He is married and with kids.


Could he be such a great liar??

writer_gurl's photo
Fri 10/03/08 08:48 PM
Wow, he's being very shadyglasses

MalenaC's photo
Fri 10/03/08 08:50 PM



my boyfriend showers me with attention during the week but seems to disappear on the weekends...he owns his own business and even has me call clients for him during the week.He swears hes not married or seeing someone elsc...he calls me Saturday mornings but then thats it...


oops I know that feeling . He is married and with kids.


Could he be such a great liar??



YES.100%

mry's photo
Fri 10/03/08 08:51 PM
But if its not all sex...then what does he want out of this???

itsmetina's photo
Fri 10/03/08 08:53 PM

But if its not all sex...then what does he want out of this???
could be getting off on playing you

beautyfrompain's photo
Fri 10/03/08 08:53 PM

But if its not all sex...then what does he want out of this???


a business partner?

Bamagirl6's photo
Fri 10/03/08 08:54 PM
Have you been to his house before? or does he meet you at your house during the week?

no photo
Fri 10/03/08 08:54 PM

But if its not all sex...then what does he want out of this???
ask him he has the answers you need we can just assume what he is up to.

mry's photo
Fri 10/03/08 08:54 PM


But if its not all sex...then what does he want out of this???


a business partner?



Hmmmm, he seems to make a ton of money...

Dredz_Hang_Low's photo
Fri 10/03/08 08:55 PM



Until Monday again...then he LOVES me crazy again...when I talk to him about it I always end up believing him...LOL


is this a long distance relationship?

if he is married or otherwise involved dosent it make you feel good to get 5 days while the other gets 2?

by "he LOVES me crazy again" do you mean s.e.x.? (had to spell in case kids are around)



offtopic at what age do you think we should stop using the terms "boy-friend" and "girl-friend" should we at some point transition to "man-friend" and "woman-friend" or perhaps "lady-friend"??


Thats just it...its not just sex...


ok try this. dont talk to him all week except for on monday or wahtever day he usually makes plans for the weekend. tell him you have to do something an you wont be available... but find out what hes gonna do on the weekend and try to get invited.

if he has some unreasonable explanation for why you cant go then press for the truth. if you except the explanation you must deal with the relationship as it is. if you get to go keep an eye out for sudden changes in plans. he may adjust for your being around

or you can for get that and make plans for the weekend... a weekend romp to vegas or something. make him an offer he cant refuse and , well, see if he refuses


mry's photo
Fri 10/03/08 08:56 PM

Have you been to his house before? or does he meet you at your house during the week?


He comes to my house...I did tell him recently that he needs to pick me up and show me his world...he answered right away with and I can do that...but talk is cheap...

Bamagirl6's photo
Fri 10/03/08 08:57 PM
And you said that you call clients for him... does he not have a secretary to help him?

mry's photo
Fri 10/03/08 08:59 PM

And you said that you call clients for him... does he not have a secretary to help him?


I guess not...he has an answering maching and gets back to people later...but I use my name when I call people...would'nt his wife find out???

itsmetina's photo
Fri 10/03/08 09:00 PM


And you said that you call clients for him... does he not have a secretary to help him?


I guess not...he has an answering maching and gets back to people later...but I use my name when I call people...would'nt his wife find out???
look up marriage records online,also can look up the address to find out who owns house.Miss tina is a self taught detectivesmokin