Topic: OK, I'm still wondering why??
mry's photo
Fri 10/03/08 09:01 PM



And you said that you call clients for him... does he not have a secretary to help him?


I guess not...he has an answering maching and gets back to people later...but I use my name when I call people...would'nt his wife find out???
look up marriage records online,also can look up the address to find out who owns house.Miss tina is a self taught detectivesmokin


I am going to have to investigate...

Bamagirl6's photo
Fri 10/03/08 09:01 PM



And you said that you call clients for him... does he not have a secretary to help him?


I guess not...he has an answering maching and gets back to people later...but I use my name when I call people...would'nt his wife find out???
look up marriage records online,also can look up the address to find out who owns house.Miss tina is a self taught detectivesmokin


Great idea!!

mry's photo
Fri 10/03/08 09:02 PM
Aweeee, hate that I like him sooo much....but I have been talking to someone elsc and I am going to meet him soon....to many weekends alone.

Winx's photo
Fri 10/03/08 09:03 PM


Until Monday again...then he LOVES me crazy again...when I talk to him about it I always end up believing him...LOL


is this a long distance relationship?

if he is married or otherwise involved dosent it make you feel good to get 5 days while the other gets 2?

by "he LOVES me crazy again" do you mean s.e.x.? (had to spell in case kids are around)



offtopic at what age do you think we should stop using the terms "boy-friend" and "girl-friend" should we at some point transition to "man-friend" and "woman-friend" or perhaps "lady-friend"??


Man-friend, woman-friend, lady-friend - just friends.

Boy-friend, girl-friend - more than friends and exclusive.

At what age should one quit having bf's and gf's?

no photo
Fri 10/03/08 09:04 PM
if you have to ask you already know the answer

usually means your not the only person in his life
married or not

JMO

Dredz_Hang_Low's photo
Fri 10/03/08 09:04 PM

Aweeee, hate that I like him sooo much....but I have been talking to someone elsc and I am going to meet him soon....to many weekends alone.


you should maybe let him know about this particular issue before you do it. it may change his tone... but dont be suprised by the tone... whatever it may be

Winx's photo
Fri 10/03/08 09:05 PM

my boyfriend showers me with attention during the week but seems to disappear on the weekends...he owns his own business and even has me call clients for him during the week.He swears hes not married or seeing someone elsc...he calls me Saturday mornings but then thats it...


Are you saying that you see him during the week and not on weekends?

Dredz_Hang_Low's photo
Fri 10/03/08 09:05 PM


Man-friend, woman-friend, lady-friend - just friends.

Boy-friend, girl-friend - more than friends and exclusive.

At what age should one quit having bf's and gf's?


ha! that sounds like a good tune. i was tapping my feet as i read it! :banana:

mry's photo
Fri 10/03/08 09:06 PM


Aweeee, hate that I like him sooo much....but I have been talking to someone elsc and I am going to meet him soon....to many weekends alone.


you should maybe let him know about this particular issue before you do it. it may change his tone... but dont be suprised by the tone... whatever it may be


I think he would be pissed if I went out with someone elsc, but I can't spend all my time alone...

mry's photo
Fri 10/03/08 09:07 PM


my boyfriend showers me with attention during the week but seems to disappear on the weekends...he owns his own business and even has me call clients for him during the week.He swears hes not married or seeing someone elsc...he calls me Saturday mornings but then thats it...


Are you saying that you see him during the week and not on weekends?


Yep...my phone rings all the time at work...lots of I love yous...and he sees me during the week...but talks about marriage.LOL

Bamagirl6's photo
Fri 10/03/08 09:08 PM



Aweeee, hate that I like him sooo much....but I have been talking to someone elsc and I am going to meet him soon....to many weekends alone.


you should maybe let him know about this particular issue before you do it. it may change his tone... but dont be suprised by the tone... whatever it may be


I think he would be pissed if I went out with someone elsc, but I can't spend all my time alone...


I would talk to him about it (again, if you have already) and specifically say that you need to see him on the weekends so he understands, then go from there and see what he does.

Bamagirl6's photo
Fri 10/03/08 09:10 PM
And if he doesn't respond, I wouldn't give any ultimatiums or anything. I would just back off from him and not spend as much time with him and helping him with his business. Just get busy doing something (or someone...blushing ) else.... lol

no photo
Fri 10/03/08 09:11 PM
so have you found a tree yet?

Winx's photo
Fri 10/03/08 09:13 PM



Man-friend, woman-friend, lady-friend - just friends.

Boy-friend, girl-friend - more than friends and exclusive.

At what age should one quit having bf's and gf's?


ha! that sounds like a good tune. i was tapping my feet as i read it! :banana:


Too funny.laugh

Winx's photo
Fri 10/03/08 09:14 PM




Aweeee, hate that I like him sooo much....but I have been talking to someone elsc and I am going to meet him soon....to many weekends alone.


you should maybe let him know about this particular issue before you do it. it may change his tone... but dont be suprised by the tone... whatever it may be


I think he would be pissed if I went out with someone elsc, but I can't spend all my time alone...


I would talk to him about it (again, if you have already) and specifically say that you need to see him on the weekends so he understands, then go from there and see what he does.


You spend evenings with him?

My radar would be so high up with this not seeing him on the weekend thing.

Maybe invite him to something or get tickets for something on the weekend and see what he says.

mry's photo
Fri 10/03/08 09:19 PM





Aweeee, hate that I like him sooo much....but I have been talking to someone elsc and I am going to meet him soon....to many weekends alone.


you should maybe let him know about this particular issue before you do it. it may change his tone... but dont be suprised by the tone... whatever it may be


I think he would be pissed if I went out with someone elsc, but I can't spend all my time alone...


I would talk to him about it (again, if you have already) and specifically say that you need to see him on the weekends so he understands, then go from there and see what he does.


You spend evenings with him?

My radar would be so high up with this not seeing him on the weekend thing.

Maybe invite him to something or get tickets for something on the weekend and see what he says.


I guess I can try that...so what sight do I go to to find out if he owns a house like he says?

Dredz_Hang_Low's photo
Fri 10/03/08 09:21 PM



You spend evenings with him?

My radar would be so high up with this not seeing him on the weekend thing.

Maybe invite him to something or get tickets for something on the weekend and see what he says.


radar would go higher if its just a daytime weekday relationship. like if he hardly ever spends evenings or spends the night. if they only have "relations" when the sun is still up. he only says i love you when no one is around and never in front of the kid. then he never spends a weekend not even one.

red flags abound!

then again guys like their space so he could just be drinkin a brew and hanging with the guys.

comes down to trust... and it dosent sound like there is much

mry's photo
Fri 10/03/08 09:22 PM




You spend evenings with him?

My radar would be so high up with this not seeing him on the weekend thing.

Maybe invite him to something or get tickets for something on the weekend and see what he says.


radar would go higher if its just a daytime weekday relationship. like if he hardly ever spends evenings or spends the night. if they only have "relations" when the sun is still up. he only says i love you when no one is around and never in front of the kid. then he never spends a weekend not even one.

red flags abound!

then again guys like their space so he could just be drinkin a brew and hanging with the guys.

comes down to trust... and it dosent sound like there is much


I want to but it just seems weird...I never dated a guy who did'nt want me around on weekends. But could this be about him just needing time on his own?

Winx's photo
Fri 10/03/08 09:23 PM






Aweeee, hate that I like him sooo much....but I have been talking to someone elsc and I am going to meet him soon....to many weekends alone.


you should maybe let him know about this particular issue before you do it. it may change his tone... but dont be suprised by the tone... whatever it may be


I think he would be pissed if I went out with someone elsc, but I can't spend all my time alone...


I would talk to him about it (again, if you have already) and specifically say that you need to see him on the weekends so he understands, then go from there and see what he does.


You spend evenings with him?

My radar would be so high up with this not seeing him on the weekend thing.

Maybe invite him to something or get tickets for something on the weekend and see what he says.


I guess I can try that...so what sight do I go to to find out if he owns a house like he says?


Ooh, I don't know about that one. But..it is public knowledge.

Dredz_Hang_Low's photo
Fri 10/03/08 09:23 PM
oh and if you are dating a guy and you have never been to his house i would say that you are not the only one he is seeing or youre not as serious as you might think. .....or he lives with his mom and dosent want you to know