I don't see why you're blaming yourself, some people ( men and women) mistake honesty for stupidity ! You were being yourself ( open and honest) he on the other hand was deceitful and seemed to have gotten a kick out of leading you on, telling you that you were too old and ugly sums him up............ immature and heartless!

I think she was prob feelin silly cos she had tripped herself up and been quoted. Did u read the whole thread?

Yes I did; and it does not change my opinion of some people mistaking honesty or kindness for stupidity.

I never understood that kind of behavior out of people in general . But I do believe in karma so that person will probably get his just deserts at some point hopefully sooner than later.

Perfect example of why you push them off of the first exit of the expressway when they move too fast.

You don't see why? i do someone goes out on a one date and that gives cause for you to get up and move your whole life to another state on somone you have no idea who the hell they are. Reality check.

One date yes, but this lady states she had been communicating for over six months. Who knows what transpired between them in this period of time.It matters not how long you have been speaking to someone, there was no need for him to be rude to her..............

By internet. Thats nuts..

Maybe............. Who could say what was right or wrong for them?

Well, she said what was wrong

Then deactivated

He did the same thing to me. I was packed and ready to move in with him when I found out he was talking to you.

OP deactivated, wanted to find out if she'd sublet her place in PR

Hey it goes both ways. I can't tell you the number of women and men that have been busted for welfare and mail fraud for believeing cr-p they were told over the CB (boy I am dateing myself aren't I) or internet.

Or even worse in person. People will lie to cover for their friends. Give things time to smell rotten if they are. People who prey on others have a very short attention span when you are not giving them; sex, free phone, money, transportation, or shelter.

Shacking up is a personal decision but someone who doesn't want to commit to you should tell you they are not that into you.

BE SMART PEOPLE! Take your time and Fact check if the sob story sounds too good or to "bad" the victim has a part in it. It is all well and good to go half way on dates but NEVER should the majority of people I see in here EVER lower their standards to put up with that kind of Cr-p.

You meet some one on line that is a long way away and your lives can't inntersect there is a good reason. It is not meant to be. Someone who is worthy will be capable enough to take a vacation, attend a school, or work for a job promotion in your area but they will not trash their lives on a whim of a romance. Real lover would NEVER ask that.